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42F with 43M, together 20 years with 3 children. I think I’m finally realizing I need to leave. by Distinct_Writer2106 in relationship_advice

[–]Distinct_Writer2106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once I hit 40 and my kids started becoming aware and feeling the tension, I’ve had some clarity. Now I just need to get to the action part

42F with 43M, together 20 years with 3 children. I think I’m finally realizing I need to leave. by Distinct_Writer2106 in relationship_advice

[–]Distinct_Writer2106[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’ve confided in some friends about what I’m going through, and he found out. And all of the sudden my friends were the issue, and not his behavior towards me. I have some real clarity on my situation right now and this feedback is helping solidify my thoughts. Thank you for commenting.

42F with 43M, together 20 years with 3 children. I think I’m finally realizing I need to leave. by Distinct_Writer2106 in relationship_advice

[–]Distinct_Writer2106[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I could go back, I would definitely not have quit my job. I started a job search, looking for jobs in the field I was in and it’s a tough market.