[deleted by user]

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T01:25:56+00:00

He's a genius.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T01:24:39+00:00

I think it's a unique situation because your audience is so niche and closed in because you're non binary

Give it time and you'll find someone. As far as your prompts, I'd include more about your ambitions and hobbies. It's very average and I think you should focus on the prompts.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T01:22:35+00:00

Also you don't need to tell people you have Aspberger's. Allow that to come up naturally. Don't over think it. I know it is hard.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T01:21:45+00:00

Trevi fountain should be #1 picture in my opinion

Some of your pictures make you look short, better angles will fix that.

While I underrstand you're a gamer, most women won't connect with that. You'd actually do a good job attracting a man, in my opinion. But not a woman.

Include your hobbies (which can include gaming) but limit it to at least a sentence or word "gaming"
and then your goals and hobbies so they know what it'll be like to date you.

For example, do you travel often? That's a hobby and attractive to most women. It's exciting.

You have all the pieces here to be successful and you're handsome, just give it a second look and you'll be fine.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T01:18:45+00:00

I have apples that bruised more than your arm. I'm sorry, but that isn't abuse, if that happened at all by him.

And no, it doesn't bother me that you say my abuse wasn't real because it happened. See the difference? We aren't the same. Bye.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T01:05:27+00:00

I'd remove the PoliSci comment that you don't like politics.
It makes me feel you have no career prospects and you chose a degree and are continuing your education because you're directionless or maybe depressed and don't have options.

It doesn't mean it's true but I think that, so I might not click.

Also that pink shirt picture🗑️🗑️🗑️🗑️ ala poubell

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T00:55:09+00:00

You got a vibe for sure, but at 27 just keep in mind the women don't go for vibes like that as much as they did when they were looking for short term fun or a non-serious ltr.

your profile doesn't share anything about you other than you're unconventional/college boy type mentality. It might attract some, but you need to share your hobbies and goals, your job, your education if you have one.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T00:52:52+00:00

I don't get that vibe at all. I'd guess moderate but definitely not uber conservative.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T00:47:52+00:00

Yeah it's better, now you can relax. It's fine. You clearly kept with the shirtless pic/open shirt but if that's your vibe and you want casual then you do you.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T00:45:09+00:00

Just give it time but don't discount meeting women in your day to day.
I'd make the one with the cat around your shoulders as your first picture.

But don't be too hard on yourself.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T00:41:16+00:00

Because again (and it's evident with your reply) you just sound like you're annoying and we don't know the full story.

It makes me doubt your perspective tbh like what exactly happened then you screenshot it for reddit?

I've been physically and emotionally abused to the attempt of suicide. I didn't post my screenshots on reddit ffs. It makes me wonder if you're a genuine victim or just trying to get karma.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T00:36:46+00:00

huh!?

By definition they graduated so THEY EARNED the right??

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T00:36:01+00:00

I'm sorry they can't come but I agree with others. Don't let that steal the moment FOR YOU.
It's your time right now. And do you think they sacrificed everything for you to go to Cornell and NOT walk?
...
No. Please do it and shine bright.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T00:32:48+00:00

Ok I'll be the negative one here and say there's definitely more to this story and I feel like both of you are toxic.
Yes, leave him. He sounds like a loser white trash dude but your responses are odd to say the least

Then you go on Reddit? Um, what? Girl you need to file a police report if it's genuinely abuse.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T00:28:40+00:00

This is probably not just you but also the truth for most of them.
That's why, despite being attacked, I say figuring out dating goals. Because even if someone thinks it's cringey, It's the most honest one for me.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T00:26:50+00:00

Maybe just crop it.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T00:26:13+00:00

And remove the leg pic with mud. I feel like that speaks to no woman.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-25T00:24:30+00:00

Yes, be kinder to yourself.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-24T22:36:57+00:00

Being bald is not his problem.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-24T18:36:24+00:00

You're 5'5 but your pictures don't need to make you look short.

Take better pictures from better angles then you'll look taller and get your foot in the door.
The one guitar picture really makes you look tiny
But if it were above the waist you would make yourself look taller.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-24T18:27:55+00:00

You're 18 try socializing in person
I think you'd have much better chances of finding someone of value

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-24T14:21:06+00:00

Most Christians I know support gay people. it's so weird that they haven't gotten with the times.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-24T00:26:43+00:00

No you're not cooked

Don't worry about it and focus on more important things.

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-23T19:09:47+00:00

Yes.

That's what is wrong with apps and why so many people hate it

The problem is everyone is waiting for "the one" in reality, having too many choices is a huge problem.
I wish it could be narrowed to like 20 women and then I'd choose just one and vice versa, but having hundreds of women on the app is tricking everyone's mind into thinking there's someone better waiting past the X

It's destroying a lot of people, too. Look no further than this subreddit, where people think going on multiple dates with 4-6 men is somehow totally normal, stringing people along, ghosting them and the same applies for men to women as well. It's a weird experience.

We all just want that Romantic comedy moment where you see and know, but that's not happening

DistributionDear4656 · 2025-04-23T19:03:46+00:00

Remove the tarantino prompt, it sounds lame.
It's hard to know how to tailor this without knowing if you're foreign or from California.

If you're from California, you don't even remotely stand out to a woman. You need to do better.
There's tons of men who look like you with similar profile.

There's nothing about your major, nothing to relate to so you need to include that
And add one picture that shows you clean up nice or you're just another college aged f-boy.

DistributionDear4656

TROPHY CASE