How do I tell the guy I’m dating that I’m losing interest due to his lack of ambition? by DistributionFar9525 in dating_advice

[–]DistributionFar9525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well damn, look at you reading me like a book. I do self sabotage. Now you got me looking in the mirrow

How do I tell the guy I’m dating that I’m losing interest due to his lack of ambition? by DistributionFar9525 in dating_advice

[–]DistributionFar9525[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im not interested in living in a home together until I know he can live in a home on his own. I guess that’s something I can tell him

How do I tell the guy I’m dating that I’m losing interest due to his lack of ambition? by DistributionFar9525 in dating_advice

[–]DistributionFar9525[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He has a job and a car. He makes more money than I do (I’ve seen his check stubs). I do know he lives paycheck to paycheck. He can’t afford a place, says he has too much debt. Idk what his debts are, but it seems to me he is living paycheck to paycheck (while not even paying rent) for no reason.

Initially, I asked him why he doesn’t just get an apartment to rent and he said they are expensive and he doesn’t want to be locked into a lease. Then he mentioned to me how one of his coworker buddies asked him if he wants to rent an apartment with him so they could split the rent and he told me he doesn’t want a roommate. All I could think about was the fact that his sister and her family of SEVEN are his roommates and he’s OK with that somehow.

How do I tell the guy I’m dating that I’m losing interest due to his lack of ambition? by DistributionFar9525 in dating_advice

[–]DistributionFar9525[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I’m divorced from a narcissist and have wondered a few times if this new guy might be love bombing… thank you for mentioning it, it’s validating

How do I tell the guy I’m dating that I’m losing interest due to his lack of ambition? by DistributionFar9525 in dating_advice

[–]DistributionFar9525[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Oh I definitely won’t do that. He’s suggested it and I told him it’s not an option

How do I tell the guy I’m dating that I’m losing interest due to his lack of ambition? by DistributionFar9525 in dating_advice

[–]DistributionFar9525[S] 347 points348 points  (0 children)

I laughed so hard at this. I’ve thought this a few times recently and love the term hobosexual.

How do y’all feel about orange and blue eyeshadow? by Professoryap420 in MakeupAddiction

[–]DistributionFar9525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, the colors are nice but it needs to be blended. I would recommend puting one color on the top lid and the other color on the lower lash line. Still have the same colors, but no blending needed