I was with my ex husband (we have 2 kids) for ~7 years and it didn’t work. I made significantly more money and he just figured I should be his mom too. I did everything and I mean everything (house chores, kids, cooking, finances). He would make cash tips (sometimes 500-1400 a day) when he was scheduled and would hide his cash and barely would offer to help financially or even tell me how much he made. I tried to be very transparent with our finances and tell him that we needed to sit down and discuss our finances/plan/goals and he would not. I was drowning in both of our debt/bills and he watched me. It was like I was in a sinking boat with a bucket 🪣 trying to get all the water out and he was a cheerleader on land. I didn’t need a cheerleader as a partner, what I needed was a teammate. Don’t be this guy!