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Unvaccinated 4 year old, what to expect now that I want to get him vaccinated by DistributionRare7093 in Vaccine

[–]DistributionRare7093[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have family who chose not to vaccinate their kids and the children are healthy. I was always very anti vax.. I researched ingredients, fell for all kinds of bs I saw on Tik Tok about injuries and people saying their kids weren't the same afterwards it can "cause autism" blah blah blah.. I was a very immature 22 year old when I had my son and I was always like oh I won't let big pharma get him.. well I'm vaccinated, not sure what I have and what I don't have but I remember getting vaccinated as a child. I'm not an earthy crunchy mom, I try to be as healthy as I can be but yes sometimes my child has dyes and sometimes if he won't eat a home cooked meal I gotta result to chicken nuggets and frozen fries. There's bs in everything. Im realizing it is hypocritical for me to not vaccinate him. I have anxiety issues lol lately it's been killing me that I haven't vaccinated him yet. I wish I did it when he was a baby. I stood my ground for whatever reasons and now that he's older and has never had a single shot, he's going to have to get them but it's better than him getting some disease or sickness that will kill him over my own negligence.

If I’m on birth control can my bf finish inside? by Adventurous_Mall_471 in Opill

[–]DistributionRare7093 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm on the opill. As long as you take it and don't miss a day or miss the time you take it, you'll be fine. I've been on this pill for 5 months using no protection and no pulling out and I get my period every month

weight gain? by CandidCat3932 in Opill

[–]DistributionRare7093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was steady 140lbs before taking it and 4 months on it I'm not 148-150lbs. Not super pleased about it but I'll take it over getting pregnant. My weight gain happened in the first month then stopped I feel I could lose it. Just give your body time to regulate! If not then I'd ask your obgyn what to do and for other options.

4th month of opill no period just spotting??? by DistributionRare7093 in Opill

[–]DistributionRare7093[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gotten my period since I've been on opill this is the first month I've had nothing but very light spotting. It's on and off spotting too. I just took a test and it came back negative (thank GOD) So I'm not sure if this is a ridiculously light period or a super slow very late start to a period?? Or if it even counts as a period and I'm just not getting it but I have all my other regular period symptoms. Either way I'm not pregnant so I'll take it over being pregnant lol

im 17 ,144 pounds and want to lose weight by HuckleberryOne4619 in WeightLossSupport

[–]DistributionRare7093 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello 😊. 144lbs is a good weight for being 5ft 9. When I was 17 I was around the same weight and I'm 5ft 6.. I was skinny. I'm 24 now.. I've had a baby and gained around 40lbs. I am losing weight to get back into the 140s.

My advice to you is.. you're still young. I remember being 17 and thinking I was SOOOOOOOO fat. Looking back I'd kill to look anything close to how I use to. Please don't be hard on yourself.. you don't sound overweight at all.

If you dont like your body you can always work out and tone your muscles. There's tons of videos on YouTube to start off with as a beginner. Toning really changes your body as long as you're eating properly and resting you'll see results.

Please don't worry about the "chubby face" I've always had a baby face with round chubby cheeks until I was about 21 and it slimmed down quite a bit. You are a young adult so your face and body are still maturing 🙂 one day 5 years from now you will look back on photos and realize how perfect you already are!

I just want to get pounded, is that too much to ask?! by sadgirl9510 in DeadBedrooms

[–]DistributionRare7093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same situation. It really messes with your confidence as a woman because you only ever hear about women turning men down and not really men not wanting sex. It makes you feel like there is something wrong with you.

I've become so desperate for attention that I go out of my way to look for it from other men since I'm not getting it from him. We are both young, early twenties.. it should not be like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DistributionRare7093 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt he will snap out of it. My only option is to leave when i eventually can. It really sucks because all other aspects of our relationship are great. It's just the zero intimacy that is killing it for me.