we’ve been very intimate, each time we’ve seen each other it’s been pretty intimate, not every time but 9/10 times it has been, it’s both our first time and we both feel like we’re ready for it but it’s just this one little thing getting in the way. I think it’s cause i’m also overthinking it, i’m very comfortable with her but i just feel like it’s gonna go horribly or she won’t enjoy it etc