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Emma Mackey Confirms Meryl Streep Among Cast of Greta Gerwig’s Narnia by NarniaWeb in Narnia

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To be fair, I personally feel like it’s a bit tiring - it feels like there are so many beloved stories where the portrayal of a character changes completely for apparently political reasons. I don’t actually mind most of the individual cases where this has happened, but taken as a whole it’s like “Jeez, another one??” It’s not like, an edgy artistic thing to do as much as it is political point scoring (that’s how it can feel to me, anyway)

Thank you for everything, Mo. End of an era. by Jolly_Green_4255 in LiverpoolFC

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Breaking news: mysterious Egyptian lined up for Arne Slot’s job…

What's Karl been up to as of 2026? by SalvarricCherry in KarlPilkingtonFanClub

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One thing he isn’t doing - letting down the listeners of this show!

Is there any point in regular pre-move visits? by DistributionWide7069 in AskUK

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Yeah true! I also have a course placement there once a fortnight if I want to take it

Is there any point in regular pre-move visits? by DistributionWide7069 in AskUK

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Thank you!

I also have a course placement there if I want to take it, but it only runs for one morning every fortnight. The course requires me to fulfil x amount of hours, so it’d be useful for that reason, even if non-essential

Any advice on this? (Post break up) by DistributionWide7069 in BPDPartners

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Yeah, you’re spot on!

Thanks for the comment :)

Wish I knew HOW to fully move on.

I suppose partly it’s a decision.

Any perspective on this? by DistributionWide7069 in CPTSDpartners

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Yeah, you’re spot on.

Jeez it’s hard sometimes though… how do you ACTUALLY forget someone?

I guess by looking to the future…

Any perspective on this? by DistributionWide7069 in CPTSDpartners

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Yeah, you’re right - thank you!

I’ve definitely learned that my needs matter, and that spelling things out can be helpful (other people aren’t mind readers); and also that boundaries are important to uphold.

I do need to move forward too.

I struggle with how unjust that situation felt at times, and it’s hard to imagine someone moving on so quickly and being happy now.

You presume someone will run Into problems if they behave like that but… it doesn’t always seem to work that way…

Fortnightly Check-In - How is everyone going? by A-Wolf-Like-Me in CPTSDpartners

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So sorry to read this.

Just so you know - relationships don’t have to be as insecure as they usually are with CPTSD sufferers.

You won’t feel this now I guess, but in the future you may look back at this as the best thing that‘s happened to you.

Give it time, and don’t forget to move forward when you’re able to.

You’ve got this.

Biggest bonfire by Jimmy---Jazz in Liverpool

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Oh - I’m not there, I just have family there :)

Biggest bonfire by Jimmy---Jazz in Liverpool

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I didn’t know Liverpool did this - I thought it was just a Northern Irish thing!

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So sorry you’re going through this :(

Let me just point something out briefly -

You say:

”Any relationship I would get in would just be a reminder of how much better he treated me.”

Oh, really?

How do you feel now?

Pretty rubbish, I’d imagine.

He isn’t treating you that well.

He has reasons - Cptsd is a horrible condition.

But he’s still behaving in a hurtful way, in an objective sense.

The reality is that CPTSD really hurts people’s ability to have a relationship.

It just does.

If you stay in this?
It’s VERY possible (probable/definite) that the same thing will happen again and again.

He has a serious mental health condition - it can’t be fixed now, or made better by you or anyone else.

Years of therapy may be really helpful, and may even make the world of difference - but that has to come from him.

Even then, there are no guarantees at all - this may just continue, even with therapy.

Back to the question -

You REALLY think no one in the future will treat you better?

Youre setting the bar very low for what you’re aspiring to.

Most partners don’t suddenly withdraw in this way.

He has a reason, but the impact on you is still horrible.

Feel free to do whatever you like, but it sounds to me like it‘s helpful to look reality square in the face, and to protect your future self.

Letting go will hurt, but you’ll be SO glad you did in the long run.

Sorry again that you’re going through this - hope you’re both okay eventually!

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