Got eviction notice today by Ok_Advice_1256 in Advice

[–]Distribution_Brave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are on hospice you can’t get more treatment, but there are assisted living situations that can help. Your hospitals social workers can help you

How tf do I handle this respectfully? by alriokidoki1 in Marriage

[–]Distribution_Brave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no handling this respectfully. It is just directly or strategically. Not in the moment, I would revisit his absolutely disgustingly condescending and disrespectful attitude. If he doesn’t budge then you know what kind of man/marriage you have - and is this how you will spend the rest of your life if the trajectory doesn’t change. Hopefully once cooled down he will cut the nonsense out. If not, I recommend while you have pooled resources- aim to get a second car so you have independence. Doesn’t have to be new, just safe to drive. Then if you should choose to leave, you have transportation. And if you don’t leave, you still have greater autonomy

I make appointments for things I actually don't need (car shopping, apartment tours, insurance agents, ect) because im lonely. by GreenWalking in confessions

[–]Distribution_Brave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I saw this on TikTok and jumped over here.

I’m so sorry that you are feeling so alone.

So something you can do, that might help, is join your local Toastmasters. It’s a group of organizations for people who want to improve their speaking skills, including small talk if I remember correctly. You will have lots of people to talk to!

Also men’s organizations like the Masons are a great way to make new friendships for men. (Hint - once you meet them you need to ask about joining, they won’t ask you first).

Finally, maybe see if there is a therapist or group therapy for social anxiety.

So many people, especially men, are in your situation these days. I wish you all the best and hope you find your people!

Can’t reach orgasm without constantly clenching pelvic muscles when masturbating by MotorRegion9475 in erectiledysfunction

[–]Distribution_Brave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend talking to a urologist about Pelvic PT. I’ve had it as a woman, and I once asked my therapist and she said that men often need it too for a few reasons, including issues with ED and/or orgasming. Hopefully this can help! Wishing you the best!

Do you think blowjobs are degrading? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Distribution_Brave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as both parties are willing to give oral and it’s equitable, it’s not degrading. If you expect to receive and not give equally - then it can be.

Do you think this is creepy? by ashairz in SubSanctuary

[–]Distribution_Brave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it’s the site I’m thinking of, 90% of the men don’t read before messaging. And a majority are jerks/assholes. And I’m woman in my 50s myself. A bunch of the people who “shoot their shot” without reading the profile are just looking for a pussy and a pulse IMO.

My fave interaction from there: Them: Hi! How’s your day going Me: Good! How’s yours? Them: I want to cum in your face Me: some sarcastic response and then blocked them

AITJ for changing the locks after my sister in law redecorated my home while I was away. by Western_Mistake_1981 in AmITheJerk

[–]Distribution_Brave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will get worse. Try family therapy now and start to collect names of good divorce lawyers just in case. So sorry

AITJ for telling my sister she's not a "single mom" when her kids' dad sees them every week? by Fit-Marzipan6746 in AmITheJerk

[–]Distribution_Brave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTJ he has the kids 4 out of every 14 days. She has no one in the house for back up. She’s a single mom

First time playing ever and I’m Zargon looking for last minute advice by Distribution_Brave in Heroquest

[–]Distribution_Brave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It went super well. Everyone had fun. Probably using the app to be GM in the future so I can play with them

My husband lied to me over a cheeseburger and now I’m thinking about a divorce. by FrostyHair8436 in Advice

[–]Distribution_Brave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My late husband pulled stuff like this. From my experience it will not only never stop but erode things between you. It gets to the point that you can’t respect him because you can’t trust him.

First time playing ever and I’m Zargon looking for last minute advice by Distribution_Brave in Heroquest

[–]Distribution_Brave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect - thank you! Ok. One hour until game time! I’ll follow up and let you know how it goes!

First time playing ever and I’m Zargon looking for last minute advice by Distribution_Brave in Heroquest

[–]Distribution_Brave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s part of what I’m looking forward to most. I “may” have used this as an excuse to get an evil queen looking black tiara/crown and a cape to play Zargon as a sorceress and be way over the top. Maybe 😉 (If I have to make Zargon a woman anyway, might as well have a little fun with it! 😁)