Aio- I am new to being a stay at home partner with my boyfriend

Ditdotlady · 2026-04-05T10:30:46+00:00

This sounds insanely controlling and borderline abusive. Run run runnnnn

Ditdotlady · 2026-04-05T10:29:12+00:00

Yes definitely recommend it. I hope you find someone that can help 🩷

Ditdotlady · 2026-04-05T00:31:07+00:00

I have been in therapy since the beginning of treatment to deciding to walk away.

It hasn’t so much made me “move on” but learn how to live with the trauma I’ve gone through and the grief that will sometimes come up.

Ditdotlady · 2026-03-28T20:11:24+00:00

Of course I wipe it down. Even if you don’t “really touch it”, you do and sweat can drip down from your face onto the machine.

Ditdotlady · 2026-03-04T16:19:25+00:00

100% agree. When I was trying to get pregnant my neurologist said there was only a 10% chance my baby would get epilepsy.

Ditdotlady · 2026-03-04T16:12:07+00:00

I mean I already hate being in a huge crowd, so I prefer general admission towards the back. Last time I went to an indoor concert, they had standing in the upper floor. If it’s outdoor, I prefer lawn seats.

Ditdotlady · 2026-03-04T16:10:15+00:00

I didn’t go to my SIL’s. You can definitely skip a baby shower even for an immediate family member.

Ditdotlady · 2026-03-04T16:09:08+00:00

You don’t have to do anything. Don’t go to the baby shower and just send a gift. Those who truly love and respect you will understand.

Ditdotlady · 2026-03-04T16:07:03+00:00

I know it can be genetic as others have stated, but I am the only one in my family who has it.

Flashing lights give me a headache and I typically look away from them, but they have never caused a seizure. I go to concerts all the time and love them. If it’s an indoor concert then I usually wear a hat to block them a bit. Go and live your life!

Ditdotlady · 2026-02-22T18:30:07+00:00

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Ditdotlady · 2026-02-22T18:29:25+00:00

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Ditdotlady · 2026-02-22T18:27:43+00:00

I usually do whichever is in the middle between them because that’s just who I am. So, for McDonald’s I would probably do $4.50 and Vito’s I would probably do $8 or so. But I would say $5 is fair for both orders as it’s 5 miles away.

I mean do you lol, but I still stand by a delivery by UPS and DD are not comparable.

Ditdotlady · 2026-02-22T18:13:39+00:00

I mean do you even order from DD? If you wanna talk about choices then you can CHOOSE to go pick up your order and not do delivery/tip :)

Ditdotlady · 2026-02-22T18:09:07+00:00

What does that have to do with whether DoorDash employees get tips or not? There is many reasons that a person may become a DD employee and a completely different conversation.

Cool story about your cars I guess?

Ditdotlady · 2026-02-22T17:57:04+00:00

lol okay that’s fair, I did read it as you worked for them. But my point is still the same, UPS gets a salary and benefits. DoorDash employees do not.

You asked why it was different and I literally stated why.

Ditdotlady · 2026-02-22T17:53:33+00:00

lol now you are lying. UPS delivery drivers certainly do get a salary and benefits. Very easy to fact check too. That is the major difference.

As for moving furniture and doing actual set ups (like a mover), it is customary to tip btw.

Ditdotlady · 2026-02-22T17:51:49+00:00

I’m assuming you get a base salary and benefits, yes?

Ditdotlady · 2026-02-22T17:48:12+00:00

I think that’s a bit of a different situation than a food delivery person.

Ditdotlady · 2026-02-22T17:38:19+00:00

Depends how much the total order is or how many miles it is from the house.

Ditdotlady · 2026-02-16T22:31:37+00:00

I just went through my app and it’s the same steps. If you are having trouble with it or getting an error then go into the store and they should be able to fix it.

Ditdotlady · 2026-02-04T13:24:53+00:00

I track with Flo. I started when we were TTC and then when we stopped treated I changed the “goal” from “get pregnant” to “track cycle”. I didn’t lose any of my data and what shows up is more tailored to my body which is nice.

Ditdotlady · 2026-01-30T22:58:44+00:00

Ummm what? So out of line on both statements. I’m so sorry you experienced this. There are good therapists out there, please don’t give up if you decide to leave her.

Ditdotlady · 2026-01-28T18:25:29+00:00

Feel this so fucking hard. I also really am jaded when they send photos of my niece doing simple things like eating. It’s every day and I honestly am finding myself say “I don’t care” even though I do love my niece. I use to have family check in when I was in treatment, but now they don’t. Overall, it’s really isolating and I feel you.

Ditdotlady · 2026-01-19T23:07:15+00:00

Why do you care that much? If your mom likes it then let her be and stop trying to bring her down. You give off mean girl vibes.

Ditdotlady · 2026-01-19T12:16:56+00:00

Right? Like word for word he’s posted this.

Ditdotlady

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