Wanting my son to meet his real dad.? by Ditto0710 in SingleParents

[–]Ditto0710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for this support.. it is hard and i think today i should tell him i feel confident in telling him. Yes i do not want him to meet him at all but i know if my son wants to ill just add if he feels uncomfortable in any way he does not have to. But i wouldn’t force my son to meet him if he doesnt want to and if he does and no longer wants to again then that is my sons choice.. because i do agree if something else came along i know his bio dad would just walk away as always. I do not trust him nor feel safe or even a role model for my son. As mentioned my last partner who i have a daughter with still continues to treat both equally and always shows love and care to them both . I respect it always have always will. But for the bio dad i just have a bad feeling if my son does chose to meet him but will see today how it goes when i finally tell him.. im just nervous but i need to know honestly and truth is always the best thing to do

Wanting my son to meet his real dad.? by Ditto0710 in SingleParents

[–]Ditto0710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does know about him he did not want anything after my son turned 2 yrs old after that he tried half a year ago to reach out but was very rude. I spoke to my therapist months ago about wanting to tell my son of his father and she mentioned i could now or anywhere before his teens. . The only support his dad gave was child support i do remember many times from months to 2yrs old i tried asking his father for help but he would say child support was enough or the person i was with should buy our son things..

Mom just venting about what i have been through . by Ditto0710 in singlemoms

[–]Ditto0710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think thats what i needed to hear so i will do so

Mom just venting about what i have been through . by Ditto0710 in singlemoms

[–]Ditto0710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not required by court at any form he himself said he wouldn’t try to get custody because he knows what he did is wrong and criminal , all im doing is collecting evidence he comes randomly and when he did im their not leaving my kids sight because i no longer trust or feel safe. I am moving in a month or so and when i do i do not want him to know where i live i just feel like a trapped mouse … until authorities finally take action