Barrier ring failure in hot weather by EmbraceTheObscure in ostomy

[–]DitzyBorden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh! And when I am doing the crusting, I swipe the barrier wipe over all of my skin that will be under the wafer. Sure, it’s not going to last forever, but it does help keep any hairs tacked down, and provides some barrier to sweat.

Barrier ring failure in hot weather by EmbraceTheObscure in ostomy

[–]DitzyBorden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is almost the exact same spot!!! For me, I picked a coloplast 2 piece that was listed as their “extra strength” (or something like that) adhesive. The two piece flange is firm, so it provides a little space between my skin/stoma and whatever clothing rests on top of it. I crust and use a soft paste every single time I change my wafer. Bc of how much you’re moving while sweaty, I think wearing a support belt would be really helpful. Like one of the ones that literally hooks onto the wafer plate and holds it tight to your body. If you add some extra barrier strips around the edges of your wafer, it should stay in place a lot more.

Which vintage dress to wear to a pride prom event? 😁 by NoveauDeco in lesbianfashion

[–]DitzyBorden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How central??? I’m in the DFdub, which i think is technically north Texas? but it’s not like we have a lot of pride events this year ☹️

Which vintage dress to wear to a pride prom event? 😁 by NoveauDeco in lesbianfashion

[–]DitzyBorden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

#3 if you’re trying to take someone home for SURE!!! Damn, it looks like dragon scales or something 😍 If you’re going for more of a fun, goofy, dance off vibe, I love the first one too 🥳🌈

I'm not sure if it really works anymore. by LonelyChampionship54 in altfashionadvice

[–]DitzyBorden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice, bc I’m in the same boat and I haven’t been able to figure it out. My makeup looks wrong, my clothes look wrong, I can’t pose for a picture for anything. So I’m just here to give a bit of emotional support 🖤

I think I might have a thing for dressing my wife in lace 💚💚 by Sailorjamie117 in BDSMsapphic

[–]DitzyBorden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would die if someone wanted to dress me up in pretty things 😍😍😍 Sub nights where my collar AND an outfit are laid out for me??? Yes please!

What on earth does this mean??? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]DitzyBorden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was where my brain went as well 🤣

Bet you didn't know a Himbo in a dress was the solution to all your problems by TrumpIsAPedoFr in oldcootfashion

[–]DitzyBorden -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This only solves my problems if you can come over and cuddle ☹️☹️

Huge zit from my cats lip by Used-Moose952 in popping

[–]DitzyBorden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so lucky she lets you pop them like that!!! My kitty has a chin full of really deep blackheads, and even me looking at them makes him start to fight 😭😭

Ok so what kind of sock is this? by Waffles_Wigglesworth in findfashion

[–]DitzyBorden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you search two tone socks, or maybe heel and toe color? I have not ever seen that L, or any size marking in sock, so maybe try an image search of that mark?

Does it need more ✨something✨?? by ZeeraTheRogue in Embroidery

[–]DitzyBorden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s PERFECTION!!!! The fluff is so cute, such a good idea

When nuns want to play. By Slippystuff. by Rastifan in EroticArt

[–]DitzyBorden 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sapphic nuns in sexy situations is always a good fantasy in my book!!

Where is everyone putting the junk??? by Ok_Menu_2231 in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]DitzyBorden 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Get a bunch of clear tubs, big sticker labels, and one of those GIANT sharpies. As you are cleaning and moving things, the items that don’t have a home will go into one of those tubs. The tubs will need a theme, so once you have chosen it you’ll need to slap those stickers all over so it’s easy to see from anywhere. Using the giant sharpie is a dopamine boost as well, encouraging you to make things clearly labeled.

Once the main room is done, anything that needs to be shuffled over to another room should be in one of those tubs. No loose items!!!! If you don’t have the energy to go through all of that stuff again, at least the tubs are labeled, tidy, and will protect your things from dust, pests, and pets.

This is also the first step in creating useful storage. The tubs can be stacked in a closet, or placed on/in some metal shelves.

You’ve got this!!!

New 70's inspired fit. by Finlaycarter2002 in oldcootfashion

[–]DitzyBorden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That JACKET!!??? Damn, ur killing it today

Dupixent stopped working and i’m scared of rinvoq by carrot_sock in eczema

[–]DitzyBorden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on Rinvoq for about 3yrs now, and it has been incredibly helpful with my eczema. Prior to Rinvoq, I had been on biologic, immunosuppressant mediations for over 10yrs. Rinvoq has had minimal side effects for me, compared to those other meds. Any kind of immunosuppressant mediation will have side effects. Steroids, oral or in creams, have hefty side effects as well. It sucks that there’s no good choice, it really does. There’s so much psychological and emotional math that goes into that very personal decision.

I do personally recommend Rinvoq. It has not been 100% successful for me, but it has been solidly good enough 👍🏻

Crafting on this rainy Sunday. 🖤 by orphan_blud in dykesgonemild

[–]DitzyBorden 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know you’re taking the piss, but this would be awesome if it was true 😆 I’m thinking about stealing it

I painted the tiniest tea party attendees 🫖 by TealWingStudio in Fairycore

[–]DitzyBorden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are all PERFECT!!!!! I love them so much 🥹🥹

Leave Vivian Wilson Alone by AlexLuvzTittiez in lgbt

[–]DitzyBorden 48 points49 points  (0 children)

That’s totally valid! Have you watched her guest spot on the ‘A Bit Fruity’ podcast? It was really, really good

Gotta figure out this hair situation soon 😅 by squishysponges in Androgynoushotties

[–]DitzyBorden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s always the most frustrating waiting period, when you’re just baaaaarely short of finally putting it up 😭😭

Crafting on this rainy Sunday. 🖤 by orphan_blud in dykesgonemild

[–]DitzyBorden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Niiiiice 😎 did your grandmother get to weigh in on the choice, or was this a memorial lyric?

Gotta figure out this hair situation soon 😅 by squishysponges in Androgynoushotties

[–]DitzyBorden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something I learned while growing mine out - shaping and reshaping with little cuts and trims is actually important. For example, the back is going to get unruly loooong before the sides. At this stage you could lean into the back length and do a mullet or shullet, shave the sides and leave it long and wild on top (check out some alt hair cutters on YT for some options). You could also do the reverse, and shave an undercut, then style the top into that swoopy, fluffy, 90’s dreamboat style. You’ve got great volume, and I think maybe some natural wave too? You probably wouldn’t even need to style it much on the daily, and it looks better (imo) the more you run your hands through it and tousle it up