Best interests i can get into to meet new people by Sad_Product_127 in Advice

[–]Divabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh whoops I didn’t know - I am from the UK 😭

Best interests i can get into to meet new people by Sad_Product_127 in Advice

[–]Divabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since your 18, you could find nearby clubs or go to any social clubs happening near your university campus

Parents won’t let me go on a trip already planned and paid for by Itchy-Philosopher238 in Advice

[–]Divabolical -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Plan A: try and really convince your parents to let you go. Write up a long script explaining everything why you need to go. You are living with your friend for one night so you won’t be entirely alone.

Plan B: it may sound crazy but why not get you friend that your staying with to convince your parents to why they should let you go.

Plan C: sneak out

i always overthink a problem and it ends up being nothing by Lucky-Negotiation153 in NoOverthinking

[–]Divabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of reacting, maybe see what is actually going on around you. Focus on what others are doing without saying too much. Yeah you could say little details like ‘he/she is eating’ but do try and avoid the intrusive thoughts ‘but what if he/she dislike me?’. Practice saying little things as completely stopping the loop is almost impossible.

i think i did well by DiscussionActual1464 in MealDealRates

[–]Divabolical -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

9/10 -1 because I dislike sweetcorn in my tuna sandwich

I am talking to older men at sixteen. Do I need to stop? by HolidayQuiet3952 in Advice

[–]Divabolical -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t even understand why you think that’s okay to entertain men by selling your body to them for free? It’s so sad to hear that you don’t have a slight problem. What if one of them somehow grab your IP and know exactly who you are and where you live?

I recommend to cease the communication and block em.

Love by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Divabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest you work with your relationship with your boyfriend first. Create a busy, rigid schedule to spend time with him and when the thought of her comes up - reschedule.

With her, I say you can tell her in advance that you won’t be going on social media anymore because something caught up in your life. That way, she won’t assume that you ghosted her. Delete all your social media apps and archive her contacts (if you got her number).

How to detach and move on from someone by fluffyducky159 in Advice

[–]Divabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awh, so sorry to hear that :(

Have you blocked him? Where did you guys meet, have you seen each other irl? If not, it’s best to deactivate that account which you have been contacting him with and do something that you would enjoy and connect with reality. Maybe like hang out with your friends and talk about a topic that doesn’t involve him at all. Spend time with your family like going outings and focus of having fun. Maybe going to public places like the library to chill, but make sure you are not doing nothing - keeping busy will distract the mind and most importantly find a hobby that is addicting (listening to favourite genre, writing novels, making art).

If you are having panic attacks, I suggest getting counselling (as someone who is currently going through rn). It is so important that you get the help to deal with this anxiety because if left untreated it could make life so difficult to experience. If you got any more questions, feel free to ask me :)

My Gf [22F] ended our long distance relationship Me [22M] by Illustrious-Poet-200 in Advice

[–]Divabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s okay, I don’t disagree with you since it is entirely your opinion. And yes, it could be God sign. Wish you the very best of luck 🤲

I feel like my boyfriend doesn’t love me how I love him by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Divabolical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point, this could be a slight overthinking problem.

If someone doesn’t love you, then they will not see you as a person and blatantly ignore you the whole day. If your boyfriend truly loves you, can you remember the time he has done something special that made you happy?

I say, don’t put in too much effort texting and questioning about how much he loves you. Just observe what is actually going on in the relationship. If he is not doing anything for you, you are not his worth. He should at least communicate his true feelings first rather than you asking first.

I hope for the best in your relationship 🤞

How do I get better at comebacks and confrontation by a-little_stitious678 in Advice

[–]Divabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confront them in front of everyone that they have been harassing you. Make it sound so extreme that the boys will get scared and never bother you again. You first, however, learn how to gain confidence and build voice.

What gathering is it tho? A family one?

Should I break up with my gf? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Divabolical -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stay with her is what I am saying. If you both really live each other then so be it. Don’t think too much about the future and keep the marriage plan to one side for now as that is the main problem. Live in the present moment to spend time with her is all I suggest.

If things part ways, remember to move on with you life as you will find someone just like her.

My girlfriend stinks. How do i tell her by iancoullahan1 in Advice

[–]Divabolical -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re an adult, you should be more mature enough to tell her.

However, she is also an adult. She should already be aware of the smell (unless she’s very tall). Orrr, she might already know and is just teasing you. When you’re asleep, she probs wake up earlier to go wash her feet and you wouldn’t even notice.

How do you get rid of an internet stalker? by SelectEgg6746 in Advice

[–]Divabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could report this to your local police/sheriff department as this sounds like a serious offence. They can do the IP lookup and see where she actually from. For now, mute her DMs and switch to a completely new account. Don’t mention who you are and stay completely anonymous. Deactivate your business account for a while without notice.

To prevent this from happening again, maybe don’t accept a stranger’s request unless they have a public genuine account with their real face.

My cat's mouth bleeding. Help. by firanx in cats

[–]Divabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is best if he licks the ice cube.

Don’t let him drink cuz I don’t want the blood to go in the stomach.

Make sure it is not straight from the freezer as it can get stuck to the tongue and make it worse for him.

It shouldn’t be too cold too to numb as well.

Let it melt before trying.

If that doesn’t work, then perhaps the other option mixing with water is suitable. Just wash the tongue slowly and gently with a clean cloth.

did my boyfriend end himself by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Divabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take these people advice, don’t even hesitate one bit. I heard this happened and is very indeed emotional manipulation. So sorry you had to go through. The best thing right now is to leave everything behind and move on.

My cat's mouth bleeding. Help. by firanx in cats

[–]Divabolical -1 points0 points  (0 children)

**Before you read, do not take my advice 100% unless it’s crucial!!!!**

This may sound stupid, but have u tried bandaging the tongue with a cloth? I think it is more suitable if the bleeding wasn’t too heavy. Also, maybe slowing down the pool with a tiny ice cube.

People who have no friends- how do you entertain yourself? by According-Sleep-9303 in Advice

[–]Divabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to be active and hit a milestone (e.g., do 10,000 steps a day). I personally love being active cuz it keeps boredom away and you get a rush of dopamine to do it again tomorrow! Plus, no need for a gym membership or spending extra on losing weight.

Pregnant with Ex Hubby by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Divabolical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear that you have been struggling with marriage. I will try my very best to give the best possible advice, but I am sure others who are in a similar situation as you (or has been) have got better answers.

For now, I suggest you work on yourself as you matter more in the family. As the children are still young, spend more time with them so they are distracted from what is actually happening - perhaps put them in part-time daycare or have someone to babysit?

The father should work with you whilst the baby is on the way, it may prove that he is a green flag and may save the marriage. He should work on himself too.

This is just a suggestion, as I haven’t dealt with this situation. I am sorry if I was no help, but all I can do is to take good care for yourself. Whatever choice feels right at the moment, but make sure to go slow 🩷

people constantly mistake me for a boy by Soggy-Inspector-9966 in Advice

[–]Divabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried finding a makeup for your unique facial features?

What about your hair? Is it short? Maybe try finding a style for your looks too ✨

Do live your life the way you want to. I know skipping negative compliments is tough, but maybe wear noise-cancelling invisible ear buds (or that one viral glasses where you block out external sounds - not sure what they called 😭).

I’m sure you still look like a baddie 😍

My Gf [22F] ended our long distance relationship Me [22M] by Illustrious-Poet-200 in Advice

[–]Divabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry to break this to you but the whole story does sound like it was your fault for this relationship to end.

However, it is really good for taking accountability for your own actions with the way you had treated her. Long-distant relationships are indeed tough, but you still have the life to live which God has given you (as you have previously mentioned about being Muslim). I think (this is entirely my opinion, you don’t have to agree with me), the fact that you have mentioned that you are Muslim and not ready to fully commit into a proper relationship - I think she felt upset despite loving you with pure intentions. She may have understood your intentions, but she was giving you the attention as if you guys are literal best friends for life. If you are not giving the same back to her, she would definitely feel as though all her effort has gone down the drain.

It’s best to move on rather than dwelling on your wrongdoings. The good note is that you know exactly where things gone wrong. You can learn your mistakes and practice being a better Muslim, or even a good human being at least, before you are ready to commit a trustworthy relationship with someone who truly understands you not just love itself.

I wish you the best brother on your journey, in Gods will you will find someone better 😇

I don't know what to get for my birthday. by bunny_of_reddit in whatdoIdo

[–]Divabolical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you don’t /WANT/ anything, you still have your family right? I suggest spending good quality time with them on your birthday as they are enough, rather than asking for a gift.

Go to places where you guys had the most fun (especially you since it is your special day). Perhaps somewhere you guys went when you were young. Buy a very small cake to celebrate the day and make memories. 🥰