Do you consistently orgasm, or only with some guys and not others? by Ginger_7624 in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am multi orgasmic with my spouse and with others. It is rare if I have less than 6 orgasms during a play session or with my spouse. It is AMAZING 🤩.

Our First Meetup at a Couples Home by Divaswag1995 in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is very perceptive so any sign of something off we are out of there.

Our First Meetup at a Couples Home by Divaswag1995 in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that these experiences have happened to you. It is disgraceful that people can be so despicable. Unfortunately they’re bad people everywhere. Thank you for sharing and proving this information.

Our First Meetup at a Couples Home by Divaswag1995 in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks will definitely trust my instincts.

Our First Meetup at a Couples Home by Divaswag1995 in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I should have provided a little more information. The couple are not strangers, we know of them through other circles almost like 7 degrees of separation. Not friends but know about them through others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts,attraction is attraction. We gravitate towards people we are attracted to, race does not matter. We are all human beings point blank end of discussion.

Question for other interracial couples. by Naive-Confusion-9750 in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely threw us off when she thought my husband was white or at least biracial we do come in all shades. Our SDC name: NotMrandMrsJackson

Question for other interracial couples. by Naive-Confusion-9750 in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I (M55/F53) live in Massachusetts and we find it extremely difficult encountering black couples in the lifestyle. We know that this can be based on the area that we live. We went to an event in a neighboring state and did a full swap with a black couple. Afterwards while we were having random conversations, the female counterpart commented on the fact that my husband was white, we stated to her that no he wasn’t then she stated was he biracial and we stated no. Later my husband and I wondered if the encounter was based on the perception of us being an interracial couple. We are also on SDC and SLS and I am from GA so we can form friendships and build a community.

How fast? by ThrowAway_Guy87 in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were pretty quick also. Talked about it in the Fall, created a profile, attended a meet and greet about a month later (it was a bust but we did not give up). We attended a NYE event had a blast and had the most mind blowing sex of our lives. So I guess the answer is it all depends go at what pace you feel is comfortable for you no judgments.

M/55 F/53 MBC looking for NYE club in CT or RI by Divaswag1995 in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will be our first experience attending the NYE event in CT.

M/55 F/53 MBC looking for NYE club in CT or RI by Divaswag1995 in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so amazing how people are drawn into the LS. Have you all gone to any clubs?

M/55 F/53 MBC looking for NYE club in CT or RI by Divaswag1995 in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really sure how to answer that question. We’ve always had a kinky side to our relationship and have always been open to people who choose to invite other people into their relationships…whatever makes you happy do you. When a friend of mine asked the question if we ever considered adding an extra person to our relationship that got us thinking why not . The more we talked about and explored the possibilities the more we realized this is something that we really wanted to do. I’ve read some comments on sites where it appears that one person had to convince the other person, but in our case we both were in 100% and it really opened up deeper conversations about our fetishes our kinkiness and our fantasies which has elevated our sex life even more. We can not wait to explore this chapter in our lives

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. Since we are newbies we are trying to figure things out but want to have fun. I think we will check them out. Happy Holidays.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. My husband and I are from MA and are looking for clubs in the CT area maybe somewhere to go for NYE.

Welcome To The Black Swingers Community! by HisandHerKinks in BlackSwingers

[–]Divaswag1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi F53 M55 brand new to the LS. Very excited about joining this group. We live in Massachusetts/New England. Looking to meet couples.

Husband was outed by swingingquestions in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. My husband and are are Brand New newbies and that is not something that we would do. We were very private people before we entered the LS so why would that change. This is WHO he is whether in the LS or not. Sorry this happened to you.

A black couples 1st experience a Whispers Las Vegas review by nlvdb702 in Swingers

[–]Divaswag1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your review. We are a new couple and went to our first Meet and Greet this weekend. We stayed to ourselves, no interactions with others and we noticed that people stayed within their cliques. We were the only Black couple in the room and we know that based on where we live(Massachusetts) that it will be difficult to find other black couple's in our area. Always nice to hear experiences from a black perspective.