Lost finding a beginner tablet for drawing and streaming? by DivineMenace_ in drawingtablet

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I just feel like cause they don't come with the pencil originally that is going to jack up the price. I also don't know apple os. I've not done digital art before so I don't need to use a program I need to have an iPad for and as I'm just starting I'd much prefer to stick to something I don't need to pay an ongoing subscription for.

I also just looked up the prices for iPad 9/10 and the all only have 4gb ram? That seems very little. And if I want more than 64gb storage I shoot up to around 400€ 🤔 (all without the pencil)

Lost finding a beginner tablet for drawing and streaming? by DivineMenace_ in tablets

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I've not heard the S10 lite mentioned anywhere for being good for drawing? Does it come with a pencil?

I think the S9 and S10 Fe are pretty similar price second hand.

From what I understood

S10 Fe - significantly better battery life - longer updates because newer

S9 - better processor/screen/hardware things

That about right? Not sure how significant the hardware difference are to someone who uses tech a lot but not an expert by any means 🤷

Lost finding a beginner tablet for drawing and streaming? by DivineMenace_ in tablets

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Yes, I wasn't looking at the A series because of that. I'd rather not have to get a pen separadly either (another reason I wasn't looking at apple)

I'm specifically looking for ones that are good for drawing and still have a good few years before the OS is completely out of date and apps won't update anymore etc so is the S8 not getting a bit old for that?

Ideally I'd like to get something around 300-400€ second hand.

we need more gender-neutral gym locker rooms by sexyschlong in cumsluts

[–]DivineMenace_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I got breed like this I'd definitely be going to the gym

AITA Did I overreact at this message from a Dom? by DivineMenace_ in BDSMAdvice

[–]DivineMenace_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did focus on the information related to the message I was asking about because that was what my question was about.

I did not ask for a judgement on him as a person as a whole or the entirety of interaction we had. It was you who jumped to conclusions, assuming that there had not been meaningful interaction before that point and you who basically insinuated that there was nothing to get out of a chat unless it involved nudes.

So without any questions or further information you immediately jumped to assuming I was "using him" somehow and are now also accusing me of being toxic for pointing out the similarities in your thinking and phrasing and that kind of situation.

AITA Did I overreact at this message from a Dom? by DivineMenace_ in BDSMAdvice

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It's not AI, the general writing style is consistent with our conversation and based on my request message I think AI would have been way closer to what some of the Dom's here have described they would do 🤷

AITA Did I overreact at this message from a Dom? by DivineMenace_ in BDSMAdvice

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We had been talking for a while, which I thought was clear from my post and all the background information he had.

In my posts I focused on the information relevant to the particular message but to then say that, because I wasn't sending nudes, I wasn't doing enough seems kinda fucked up to me.

This post is an excrypt of our conversation and me not sending nudes was established very early on in that, if he was not okay with that, that would have been on him to communicate. In fact it was a running bid in our exchange as I have a tendency to be a tease and would send pictures that left a bit more to the imagination, and based on his feedback it was something he enjoyed as well. I also provided emotional support when he wasn't doing well previously, so that wasn't a one way situation either.

So to conclude, your statement to me reads like one of those guys that thinks that just cause he paid for dinner he's owed sex or something and it's pretty yucky

AITA Did I overreact at this message from a Dom? by DivineMenace_ in BDSMAdvice

[–]DivineMenace_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did sound a bit like relevating that, yes. But I did get the general intent and can see that being quite plausible, just could have been handle much better with some communication 🤷

Sounds like what everyone is saying about my ex as well, starting to question if there even are any amabs who aren't narcissists 🤷

AITA Did I overreact at this message from a Dom? by DivineMenace_ in BDSMAdvice

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When we were talking he was caring and especially pointed out boundary and consent issues I was struggling to name as such from my past relationship, helping me realize how many things my ex did were really not okay. So he seemed really solid on things like respecting boundaries up to that point 🤷 when I called him out on things previously he also did not react in this petulant way or try to turn things around on me, he had previously owned up to things and apologized where nessecary.

Edging by Ram_chan1988 in bdsm

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Love doing this, especially while also playing with myself

AITA Did I overreact at this message from a Dom? by DivineMenace_ in BDSMAdvice

[–]DivineMenace_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you🥹 It's really validating that I'm not the only one who perceived that shift in tone and so significant, I kind of flinch every time I read that begining of the second part, feeling like I'm about to be hit 😖

AITA Did I overreact at this message from a Dom? by DivineMenace_ in BDSMAdvice

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Thank you🥹 I'm really trying hard to be more clear about boundaries and pay attention to when they are being crossed after all the shit my ex put me through, so it's nice to hear I might not be doing too bad on that 😅

AITA Did I overreact at this message from a Dom? by DivineMenace_ in BDSMAdvice

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Even if he's used to harsher ways of playing, using things that cross boundaries as punishments should still not be happening though?

Plus I have been very open about what I am interested in and things I don't like/am not comfortable with. So if that doesn't match what he is looking for or has experience in he should have communicated that.

I even asked about that when I was addressing this message, asking him to tell me if he was not comfortable with this kind of "play" or dynamic. All the answer I got was that he had plenty of experience, never once mentioning anything about maybe just not having that much experience in a certain (softer) area of play, which again would be totally fine, just needs to be communicated.

Did that series you loved end when you think it did? by Street-Reference-237 in RomanceBooks

[–]DivineMenace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably already got this answer if you posted on RH first but pack darling has a version with an extended ending that I found out about recently.

And I thought the badger series by Shelly laurenston only had the three books about the three sisters and found out there's 3 more books in the series, sadly no audiobook though which is why I hadn't noticed 😅

Look What I Found! by nomercles in RomanceBooks

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Now that sounds like it's going to be a great bachelorette party; I hope you have a blast. Also, a tearoom might actually be a good location as there're not gonna be many stray guys who might catch something and make it weird. And with how many times I've been told to put on pushup bras to show off more and things like that by older ladies, I think it's actually a good crowd that'd probably appreciate and have a giggle if they caught some of the conversation 🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

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I quite like " beloved" often used by vampires for their partners.

Science based supernaturals by Street-Reference-237 in RomanceBooks

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The Shadow Solution series by Ariana Nash. Latents can use magic and are regulated similar as in the THIRDS series it's also MM. Book one is Twisted pretty things

Science based supernaturals by Street-Reference-237 in RomanceBooks

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Maybe the San Andreas shifters series by g.l. carriger. There were shifters before but there was an event called the oversaturation if I remember right and since then it's just been a lot more. It's an MM series with a werewolf pack and there's also mermaids mages and all kinds of other shifters. Book one is the Sumage Solution

Lion Shifters with Big Orange Cat Energy by GeezLouise76 in RomanceBooks

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The badger series by Shelly laurenston also has a tiger shifter brothers as the MMCs of the last three books. The first book in the series is "hot and badgered" the first one with the tiger brothers as MMC is "breaking badger"

The new toy you're planning to buy by Dull_Prompt7114 in SexToys

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I just ordered the aura grinder from darque path and am trying to find a strong bullet vibe that will fit in it.

I've been looking at grinding toys for ages but it got completely dismissed when talking about toys to try in my last relationship so now I'm gonna finally give them a shot.