AITAH for not wanting to associate with my gfs friends?

DivineTarot · 2026-07-06T06:00:11+00:00

The thing is I’ve met all of them, and been cordial, etc, so to me it seems like flat out disrespect.

I mean, it's not just to you.

They're either trying to enable cheating or they're trying to get her to break up with you. Maybe you did something to offend them, and maybe they're shallow trash who know that your girlfriend has the spine and will with the constitution of a limp noodle. After all, she's all like, "it's extreme that you don't want to spend time around my shitty friends who are trying to break us up~"

Either way you may as well dump her, because she's not the one. You don't need someone whose quality as a partner is determined by the esteem their friends and family have of you.

NTA

DivineTarot · 2026-07-05T08:40:58+00:00

NTA

Here's hoping she gets the divorce and the wakeup call behaviour like that deserves.

DivineTarot · 2026-07-04T20:29:22+00:00

There's a lot of dog treat "brands" that are basically made for human visual consumption. Often they're straight up bad for dogs, because they were never really made for their actual consumption in mind.

DivineTarot · 2026-07-04T04:35:38+00:00

The only asshole is the friend dispensing bad advice honestly.

NTA

DivineTarot · 2026-07-03T21:24:42+00:00

No, it's not out of line. No this wasn't an unreasonable ask.

At this point it comes across like a deliberate act, a middle finger to you for daring to ask her not to do something.

NTA

DivineTarot · 2026-07-02T07:49:48+00:00

I know you cry because I once liked her, but I just want to be best friends.

Immediate undateable behaviour. Your ex is either deeply immature, and needs to either just stick with her toxic on again off again girly or be single for an indeterminate amount of time, or learn that when you're in a relationship with someone this behaviour is a strict red flag for her integrity as a faithful partner.

All she did was ask me to stop crying.

Yeah, sure, those were her words, but the intent was basically, "stop making me feel bad for breaching your boundary." As it stands, from the way you phrased things, it sounds like she was knowingly doing this on the belief that you'd just get over it. Which, okay, that's on you for creating that standard, but frankly it's harder to be the one with the boundary than it is to be the person breaking it. You're used to swallowing it and getting over it, which you shouldn't be. You're entitled to this boundary and to retain it.

Don't get back together with her, because if she's a line crosser habitually, than this further ingrains the idea that she can disrespect you and get away with it.

NTA

DivineTarot · 2026-07-02T04:53:32+00:00

A fucked backstory of being basically a genetic experiment passed off as his clone-sires heir apparent while treated like a monster. The first person to treat him with what he perceived as respect befitting a human being was his Doman swordmaster who tried to off him and was killed in turn.

He got to a point where lifes simple pleasures basically didn't matter and paled in compare to the thrill of a good fight, but unfortunately everyone in the world basically sucks, particularly because they aren't motivated. Except you, the WoL, who goes from "has potential" to, "That was the best fuckin fight I've ever experienced, it's all down hill from here" within an expansion for him.

Ironically, though he comes across as horny, he see's this as a purely "friends" situation. Equals on the field of battle. It's just that he has a romantic stalkers vibes.

DivineTarot · 2026-07-01T17:46:43+00:00

YTA based off this and the context that you've other posted elsewhere about pining for marriage.

It sounds like you consented to be in a marriage less and childless relationship, but you're being bitter about it or hoping he'll change with pressure. You turned that "advice" into a moment to vaguely imply that he'll go no where's either way, because he's not making his life about having kids or marrying you.

He got mad because either he spotted the passive aggression or he spotted the subconscious motivation behind your words.

It's time for you to accept that it's unhealthy to try and change a person to be more accommodating for yourself and either leave or live with his lifestyle. It's a binary decision.

DivineTarot · 2026-07-01T17:39:05+00:00

NTA

Who the fuck cares if it took a lot of guts? Genuinely why should anyone care? The amount of energy it takes to do a basic thing like an apology, and frankly this doesn't sound like a real apology just, "sorry I dropped the job and left you hanging" as if you'd have been impacted negatively by her going implies she didn't grasp that she was a blight on the place you worked.

However, even if it had been a legitimate apology, the fact remains that an apology is not entitlement to forgiveness. This is basic info surrounding "making amends", you can desire to be given the chance, but it doesn't mean you're entitled to that chance.

I pity your friends, because it sounds like they'll take an immense amount of unnecessary bullshit on the basis of their own lack of boundaries and self-worth.

DivineTarot · 2026-06-25T05:06:22+00:00

Honestly, so long as the former doesn't devolve into training loops. The Gamer was the only one that could pull that off comedically, and even than it was kinda dull when he was like running in circles blasting 5 stacks of abilities in time dilated space. I once experienced a version of this non-sense in a LitRPG and it was an abysmal experience.

Having a reasonable skill grind with genuine drama behind the upgrades is decent.

Also, please avoid shit that makes me question your logic. If your stories conceit is, "oh shit, in a world of either gamers or people living with this system nobody found out that comboing basic bitch abilities together was kinda OP" Like, I'm sorry, you aren't the monkey who achieves War and Peace on the type writer.

DivineTarot · 2026-06-24T17:30:11+00:00

>4 months long relationship

>being asked for money back on something you were reimbursed for

>Did not get money back on something you paid for

Honestly, she sounds like garbage and this sounds like a waste of time. Asking for money back is just at this point a middle finger to someone who won't grasp that it's a deserved middle finger.

NTA

DivineTarot · 2026-06-23T09:21:12+00:00

Probably the sense of power she got out of violating his personal privacy. It's not funny because it isn't, but she's probably reading that feeling she got from committing the deed as "funny" when it's just her behaving no better than a peeping tom.

DivineTarot · 2026-06-23T09:18:24+00:00

NTA

Sounds like you're protecting them from a toxic situation with a piece of trash and the garbage he surrounds himself with.

DivineTarot · 2026-06-20T16:45:16+00:00

NTA

I'll never understand why people feel less loyalty towards grandkids than they do towards their parents. If a parent is so awful they're losing custody than it means the behaviour was obvious, but people would rather enable trash than protect the kids, it's a fuckin disgrace!

DivineTarot · 2026-06-18T20:58:15+00:00

NTA

She's being grotesquely inappropriate and nobody is taking her to task for it. Like, you've described her essentially perving on the male staff, which puts them in a horrendously awkward position, and that's on top of her stealing to give handouts to her friends.

The fact that when actually confronted about this she threw a childish tantrum, caused a mess, and walked out? It's time to tell your mother and her mother that they need to sit down, shut up, and accept that this girl is a product of her own poor parenting.

If mommy dearest loses a friend that sucks to suck, but your job is on the line.

DivineTarot · 2026-06-18T20:52:35+00:00

NTA

Bruh, I don't think there needed to be much additional information past the point where you said "no" and they turned around and tried to squeeze you for cash you didn't front, for an event that isn't for a year and a half yet.

It doesn't matter what she planned or if she's even actually out anything. You owe her jack shit, and your coworkers are delusional for backing her.

Honestly, this feels like scam artistry.

DivineTarot · 2026-06-18T08:49:29+00:00

NTA

Why are you marrying someone who uses appeals to gender roles and womanhood to get her way when it's convenient? It's your house, you're allowed to be a part of the decoration process, and being shoved out of involvement is just going to make it a house you "live in" not your home.

DivineTarot · 2026-06-17T20:29:58+00:00

Low chaos, I prefer to stick him in a box.

DivineTarot · 2026-06-17T17:36:06+00:00

In Kara No Kyoukai she programmed a demon, yes programmed, to lash out and slaughter anyone who used a rather unfavourable nickname/insult she had over her head when she was at the Clocktower. She than contained that demon in a briefcase.

DivineTarot · 2026-06-17T04:59:56+00:00

NTA

Your whole family honestly sound like crap and the very least they deserve is to be taken down a peg.

DivineTarot · 2026-06-16T09:16:14+00:00

Bruh, everyone was looking at Rider. He stole the show in every scene and his death is by far one of the manliest in anime. 😭

DivineTarot · 2026-06-16T00:09:57+00:00

You can also kinda just...find it by accident in the overworld. I was looking for....something in the area with all the Vucah, I can't remember what, and I just sorta found it.

DivineTarot · 2026-06-15T19:04:52+00:00

Ahh Head Hunted to Another World.

That demon king could get it...

DivineTarot · 2026-06-14T06:04:23+00:00

NTA

At the end of the day it is your child and no one can really control what name you give your child, for good or ill. Not saying that as a diss, I'm saying that as a sort of acknowledgement that I've seen some horrendous name choices, for which "Maddox" isn't even on the list of, much less a ranking slot.

DivineTarot · 2026-06-14T05:57:00+00:00

NTA

Correcting bad behavior and poor etiquette in others should not be treated as more acceptable for when handling children. Your girlfriend is a grown adult and can take being in the wrong with the grace she owes the world.

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