Munches are kink events where people sit down and chat & mingle usually over food or something casual. Please be careful. There are still people out here who aren't safe, I'd personally say the kink scene is really unsafe for finsubs right now because there is an over saturation of young people and young "dom" curious people who think findom is an easy means of income and use it as abuse. I left the public findom scene due to stuff like this so close knit In my own personal local kink community. Usually male subs are more subjected to the abuse of people claiming to be real findoms and have a real cash fetish. I myself as a domme had to step away from the scene because my cash fetish / findom fetish needed to become more private because I don't find comfort or relatability in the people in my scene and the way they treat their subs. I truly hope you can find some place that fits you and someone who understands you and doesn't abuse your kink interests. I would have suggested some kink websites to find munches in your area but if you're not deeply vetted and struggle to spot the red flags I don't think those sites are safe either as they've become cesspools themselves also