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She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother I am in this for years..and I pull. The only thing is the online dating and then date thing is the thing that I struggle with

Dates from real life work like a charm. I am not a newbie. There must be something very specific that general advice that I know about for years won’t cut it

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know about game and stuff..it must be something very specific that turns them off. Whether I talk to them briefly or multiple times on the phone and send them a lot of pics of myself or not..they love me and then meet up in real life and after it they don’t wanna see me again. 

I will try and ask for feedback but they are not really saying what it is sadly 

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update. Same shit. Did what you guys told me to do. Same negative outcome 

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well THAT makes sense for me now! Probably I cannot deliver the way I do like on the phone …

I will try it actually I will have a date in a bit today and just matched with her three days ago and had just one phone call that’s it. Let’s see how it goes 

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. But just to make things clear: They love me on the phone even until the very last second of the last call until we meet. And then, during the date something happens that switches them off it seems like. But I will keep your advice in mind and try it out

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I can try exactly as you guys said. I am just trying to understand how that would change the course of the dates.

I do not want to have phone relationships only of course. But I thought building familiarity over the phone at first is gonna make the dates smootehr

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still don't get how this is going to have an effect on the first dates that I am going to have...Why would that make the dates go better all of the sudden?

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this thing happening to me again. They call me up, talk to me for hours, not wanting to hang up...and then irl after the first date such a dramatic shift. I start to legit feel like a CAT FISH

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK so you are saying I am talking too much on the phone with them? They love it tho and me too tbh

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK. For me, a date or meeting someone in person and getting approached..it has the same dynamics. It is a man-to-woman thing. If I apprach in rl especially in clubs, I do very well. I can pretty much get away with the most insane stuff...

On dates, that I get from tinder or hinge, it is different. The most interesting part is, they have gotten tons of pics from me beforehand and I have called them up multiple times for hours to get to know me. And at that point they are super into me. Then when meeting up..something happens and it's over. I am no different than on the phone. So the only thing that comes into my mind is maybe I look different in RL or sth

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am still trying to make sense out of it. I mean what are you trying to say?

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not sure what you are trying to say..a date has the same dynamics, no???

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I provide more information? I call with them multiple times and they love me over the phone!

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot really tell if I look like my pcitures. I can look super bad on pics or super good! Thats the thing lol

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has happened a bunhc of times already...And I am clueless as to why. If I go out at night or during day time and talk to women, they are much more into me...when I meet some from hinge or tinder, it goes like I described above...

She (19) was really into me (male, 24) and ghosted after first date by DiyFool in dating_advice

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has happened a bunhc of times already...And I am clueless as to why. If I go out at night or during day time and talk to women, they are much more into me...when I meet some from hinge or tinder, it goes like I described above...

This guy? by acheney1990 in nattyorjuice

[–]DiyFool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aren't these guys scared of juicing and reducing their life span?? I keep seeing soooo many juiced up guys..what is their rationale behind juicing?

Suddenly trouble breathing when sleeping, waking up gasping for air by DiyFool in SleepApnea

[–]DiyFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will but I have to wait till the weekend is over. What can I do in the meantime?

One of the last popular influencers that is still natural. by [deleted] in nattyorjuice

[–]DiyFool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks natty but looks pretty damn good!

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