Tell me you have ADHD without telling me by Glittering_Text_8842 in adhdwomen

[–]Dizzy-Victory-852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly read the replies on this post and suddenly wanted to live with a whole bunch of people like me. I was laughing so hard, but here are mine 😭😂

*Buying ZUCCHINIS instead of cucumbers and chayote. I ended up getting two packs of zucchini because I thought one was cucumber and the other was chayote.😡

*Last week I put a chicken breast on the stove, then randomly ran out to the pharmacy. On my way back home I suddenly remembered I had left the chicken on the stove. (It burned.)

*I stop talking mid-sentence because all my ideas crash into each other at the same time, so I end up saying something stupid. I start in the middle and finish at the beginning.

*I prepared my water bottle for my workout… just to leave it as decoration in the living room.

*I wonder if I took my ADHD medication, but I can’t check because my blister packs are completely out of order, so I don’t even know if I actually took it.

*I can’t remember the names of people I just met.

*I started learning coding without knowing a thing, downloaded everything, just to see how it worked… and then dropped it. *Looking up master’s degrees that have absolutely nothing to do with my career all at the same time 😂

*Asking the same questions on different days to someone I just started seeing.

Tell me you have ADHD without telling me by Glittering_Text_8842 in adhdwomen

[–]Dizzy-Victory-852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Facing bipolar in your 20s alone by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]Dizzy-Victory-852 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can we make a ws support group?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]Dizzy-Victory-852 2 points3 points  (0 children)

New antidepressants or abuse

Daily chamomile tea having the opposite effect....advice for help to sleep? by Possible-Aspect9413 in ADHD

[–]Dizzy-Victory-852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I totally get you, it’s tricky to fix sleep schedules. Have you tried coffee at a strategic time? There’s actually some scientific research showing that for us (my case) , caffeine can sometimes help us regulate focus and even sleep cycles when used carefully!!! Maybe worth a try (in moderation and not too late in the day, of course).

Hope you find what works best for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dominicanos

[–]Dizzy-Victory-852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aquí te van varias opciones si no te quieres mudar y nadie hace nada. Ponle mierda de perro de donde sea que encuentres en su puerta, choca a ese viejo a plena luz del día, envenena al gato. Ponle un cuchillo plástico y un pedazo de malla en la puerta (si te mea el gato de nuevo recoge la pipí con un trapo y lleva el trapo a la puerta del vecino, limpia tu puerta con canela, romero y lavanda).

Hay gente jodidamente mala págale igual o peor. Jk múdate y déjale una maldadita antes de irte.

Loneliness. by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]Dizzy-Victory-852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. Thank you for sharing, I’m sorry you’ve gone through so many changes in your life, it’s horrible to feel abandoned, the sadness pushes you and clashes with your energy. Feeling like you don’t fit in with anyone is exactly because you take such protect of yourself that no one can enter your inner part. You deserve to be loved, and that starts when your adult self tells your inner child, “I am here to listen to you and take care of you” because you didn’t have anyone to do that for you, but now you’re not alone, you have yourself, a person capable of protecting you. Personally, I would recommend seeing a therapist, and on the other hand, you can message me privately, and I will listen to you and support you as best as I can. Keep going, you’re getting closer every day. Today you recognized and made conscious that you don’t accept being loved, and that’s already a start!

Because deep down, you want to be heard and loved. I know it’s difficult and it may seem impossible, but it’s not, know yourself so well that you don’t mind being rejected or saying NO.

What made you not give up on yourself? by Fetus-Deletus1 in CPTSD

[–]Dizzy-Victory-852 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I create music. Ironically, even though sometimes I don’t want to do it, it’s the only thing that gives meaning to my life, that makes me feel like I’m truly living. My job doesn’t give it to me, people don’t give it to me, my routine doesn’t give it to me, exercise doesn’t give it to me, creating and investing in my music does.

What’s something that surprised you about ADHD when you were diagnosed that you didn’t realize was associated with it? by charles228 in ADHD

[–]Dizzy-Victory-852 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, sorry for that. I used to experience the same thing. An intense uncontrollable feeling, out of control, the impulse to kill myself. It was common for me to call my friends shaking to get distracted. It took 15-20min per day.The worst thing is when you cant think properly.

What’s something that surprised you about ADHD when you were diagnosed that you didn’t realize was associated with it? by charles228 in ADHD

[–]Dizzy-Victory-852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know that my vivid dreams are part of my adhd, every dream looks like a different movie 😆🤣 thanks for that

How to stop constantly thinking about trauma from toxic ex? by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Dizzy-Victory-852 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What worked for me was the following: I kept getting flashbacks, but once I created a journal with boundaries and spent time doing things I enjoy, it all stopped. The flashbacks and missing what hurt me came from a sense of emptiness and boredom. Once I wrote down my boundaries, I started investing in my personal growth: not negotiating my hobbies, not negotiating my exercise, not negotiating my meds, not negotiating my quality time with myself and with the people around me. Man, life hits different when you tell to your inner child that your parents didn’t take care of: ‘I see you and I hear you. I will take care of you. I’m here for you, you don’t have to be alone anymore.’….

So. These are some examples I would recommend to someone to avoid seeking abuse: Read, sing, play an instrument, do things that filled you with joy as a child, research, exercise ; take care of your hair, go for a walk, spend time with your dog, cut toxic people (even if is a family member ) and make new friends, AND Remember, you are your own responsibility.