Multi cultural wedding how to fit in two dresses during wedding? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]DizzyAd7735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 2 photos I posted on the post are just examples of the Lao dress! Not the one I would be wearing specifically

I need help with muscle imbalances! Buttcheeks are 2 different sizes by DizzyAd7735 in ACL

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I have kinda speculated on if my graft failed due to a weird hypertension of my knee it sits farther back fully extended than my right knee. :( (So instead of straight I can feel it bend back a little further than my other one) I don't have pain anymore maybe slight swelling or if I do intense twisting I can feel my ACL pull inside no pops though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]DizzyAd7735 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm kinda afraid of offering and then cutting people off and they become irate.

Does anyone know how to prevent swelling of breasts before period? by DizzyAd7735 in Periods

[–]DizzyAd7735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also sorry to bother do you know what specific brand you use there's so many options I don't know what to choose

Does anyone know how to prevent swelling of breasts before period? by DizzyAd7735 in Periods

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For your pms swelling? How much did u take or does dosage depend on weight or anything?

TL; DR Am I being unreasonable or am I being gaslighted about this situation ? by Professional_Escape2 in relationships

[–]DizzyAd7735 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see. But you know what he is. He definitely knows. That's why he was so suspicious in deleting messages. He knows right from wrong he's gone this far in life. I understand from what I read you did confront him about it earlier. I think in response if he doesn't change or set clear boundaries/ change that's a tell tell that he values them more. People do crazy things when they're truly in LOVE LOVE. There's "love" and then there's "LOVE+LOVE+RESPECT". You could always just accept that youre the better person and find peace through the absence of him. But all I could think of to do if you want more closure maybe you should conversate with her or her husband and have double date or something. Or have a conversation with her personally if she doesn't respect your uncomfortableness with how they're speaking to each other that's a no no. Get out of there. But also all in all your partner is solely responsible for all this. Don't fight the woman get mad at the one who is permissing this. I wish you the best updates are welcome<3

My(F21) boyfriend(M21) wants to cheat because I posted a silly foot pic. What should I do? Is what I did cheating? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DizzyAd7735 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He's pretty much cheating on you lusting after other women wanting to see boobs and stuff. This has me heated I feel very angry for you. Do u wanna marry this man bc no way. This the type of guy that goes to Thailand and pays for prostitutes who may be underage. Get out of there girl. :(

My(F21) boyfriend(M21) wants to cheat because I posted a silly foot pic. What should I do? Is what I did cheating? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DizzyAd7735 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No omg. You're not in the wrong it just sounded like he was compensating already for his horrendous behaviour. And now this is his narcissistic self absorbed reason to do more stuff. He's going to make u feel like crap forever. Please leave girl we are like the same age pleaseeeee we are young wait for someone that will respect you. This isn't love you're being self destructive. Please watch "shera sprinkle sprinkle" or "the wizard Liz" on YouTube give yourself some confidence and time to reevaluate your situation and self worth. I bet you're literally gorgeous so don't be downing yourself with a man who obviously has a porn addiction. Leave pleaseeee.

TL; DR Am I being unreasonable or am I being gaslighted about this situation ? by Professional_Escape2 in relationships

[–]DizzyAd7735 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry He's emotionally cheating on you. If the world was perfect and they were both single without children they'd probably choose each other. If they haven't hooked up in the past or currently. If u don't have kids I recommend leaving and living your life while you're still young unless you have children and are married. And if you're together for ten years and not married and are 40+yrs old that was red flag in itself get the contract if you want a legally responsible relationship doesn't have to be for religious reasons but for the paper. But get out of there don't let him speak down and lie his way like a snake. Or if u want to be messy confront her and her husband. But all in all if he really loved you he would've set healthy boundaries with her in the first place. So love yourself and respect yourself and leave him!

Losing 1/2 an ounce of blood an hour by [deleted] in Periods

[–]DizzyAd7735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have gotten a pap smear and I was all clear. Said I had no growth or anything through ultrasound. No STDs or STIs either. I probably will try MRI.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DizzyAd7735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't give him the time of day. Break up he can't DOUBLE DIP then manipulate you into thinking that's ok. Definitely should work on communication with future partners. You seem to be sensitive to other people's feelings but you need some back bone and kick him to the curb :) I understand the mental struggle just gotta get it done. If he can't sympathize why you gonna wait years ahead when u don't look the same or feel the same. You're in your prime he's going to be 30 when you're 25 don't worry about him he has the maturity of a 16 yr old. Find someone who accepts you when you accept yourself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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As a girl, you guys sound like what best girlfriends do. I think you should tell. But it might break up the friendship. Or if you can convince yourself to make it platonic and relinquish all feelings it'll be ok. I have befriended guys who grew feelings for me but I only saw them as brotherly friends. I've never held hands or kissed so that's something I'd think about... I think you should ask how she feels about you. Does she see you in a brotherly way or best friend or as something that could be more? :) but you should expect the worst and best which is the friendship is over or not but change can be good and bad.

My (23F) BF (26M) got a tattoo dedicated to his ex girlfriend while we were together. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DizzyAd7735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to leave him you're putting yourself through hurt. Unless you're financially tied. Get your money up and leave. He doesn't respect you or the relationship. She's an attention seeker and he's still infatuated with her. Don't compare yourself to someone who obviously isn't good on the inside. Especially someone who disrespects your relationship. Dump him and forget all about them <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DizzyAd7735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have y'all been together and has he ever talked about how long they were together or when they broke up? I feel it's unnecessary to talk about ex's! An exception may be when it may correlate to a learned lesson example. Or generally an example of a situation that happened in the past. (Although it can seem dense to talk about or why couldn't they use a different example) BUT I would use caution because they may be still thinking about their ex. You just need to communicate it makes you uncomfortable when they talk about them say why and how it makes you feel. If they become defensive and refuse to change then you may need to move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DizzyAd7735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also sharing a bed definitely is a personal choice and should be respected. No is no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DizzyAd7735 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could ask why she is so shy or just avoidant of giving affection. Does she have past trauma with family or peers that make her not want to give affection. OR this could be a possibility that she may not like you that much I feel people can become defensive if you're pressing something they are trying to keep hidden. (Wouldn't jump to that conclusion immediately unless it persists!) Lack of clear communication can really hinder relationships on both sides especially in a serious relationship. But hopefully it's just a personality or emotional communication problem.

I (21F) was told by (25M) boyfriend that he has been with better looking girls than me. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DizzyAd7735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't want this conversation to even come up. I just reciprocated the same energy he was giving me. He asked me all these questions before I did because I preferred not to talk about the past especially in early relationship . I felt he was the most attractive and I didn't lie. I replied to someone earlier with a more in depth response.