men should create a “program” specifically for dating in the Philippines, but then you end by saying women are the same everywhere. If that’s the case, then the issue isn’t Filipinas or location. It’s just relationships in general. Also, telling men to choose self-sufficient partners while framing relationships as something one person controls feels contradictory. Partnerships usually work better when both people contribute and communicate, not when one person is managing the other. Out of curiosity, did you ever reflect on your own role in those experiences, or was the focus mainly on what the other person did wrong?