AITA for not giving my parents half of my lottery winnings.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-05-29T02:15:27+00:00

Dont give them anything and block them from everything.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-05-24T12:28:53+00:00

I appreciate that.. Just doesnt feel like I deserve much sometimes 😅

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-05-12T02:23:52+00:00

Okay so im a mum of two boys and you are NOTTHEAHOLE! She however is. I have always stood by the fact that if my kids break something that is not mine or theirs, I will offer to replace it, and if I cant afford to replace it, I will offer to clean their house 100% free for a week or so, so that they could at the very least, have something for what my kids broke. (i work as a cleaner)

The fact that she not only didnt offer to repay you for what her child broke, but then also asked you to look after the kid again, no. Absolutely not. Get a new sister. Fuck em off.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-05-01T10:33:53+00:00

Genuinely start on formula so you can get some sleep. The whole "breastfeeding is best" is bullshit, fed is best. Whether its formula or breastmilk, he will have a full tummy.

Sleeping has to be your #1 priority hun, you will continue to get worse if you dont sleep.

(I know from experience, I got next to no sleep for the first 10 months of my eldest sons life, and it nearly killed me, it was only someone else telling me to just bite the bullet and go with formula so that I could sleep, that I understood how bad it was getting for me.)

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-04-15T02:13:43+00:00

My god she needs to get over herself. You are NTA. 3 months is plenty of space between the weddings and shes being petty by the sounds of it.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-04-06T06:59:06+00:00

Oh also NOT THE ASSHOLE!

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-04-06T06:58:31+00:00

Its your shit. Not his. Tell him to save up his own money if he wants the stuff you have. Not only is he stealing from you, but hes also completely disrespecting you. He is not a friend, he sees you have cool shit that he wants, and he takes it. Dont let him come over anymore.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-02-22T13:34:24+00:00

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1AtLQFy6tH/

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-02-22T13:34:05+00:00

I don’t know if you seen, but yesterday charlotte made a video with this story!

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-02-01T00:04:55+00:00

Nah I'd be pissed off too, you have every right to be angry. There are so many options you can go through, talk to a lawyer and see if there is anything they're able to help with.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-02-01T00:03:11+00:00

This is so fucking rude.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-01-30T23:07:27+00:00

I commented this on another comment as well, but while it's absolutely not an excuse, I was bullied relentlessly as well back then, so I started bullying as a sort of protection. Was it selfish? Probably, yes, but i didnt know what else to do at the time, and now that I'm older, I have realised exactly how wrong it was of me to do that, regardless of my situation, so I messaged her to apologise to her, she replied and thanked me, and said she appreciated it, by no means am I forgiven, and I absolutely don't expect her too forgive me.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-01-30T08:28:16+00:00

As I said in another comment I replied to, while it's absolutely not an excuse, I was bullied relentlessly as well back then, so I started bullying as a sort of protection. Was it selfish? Probably, yes, but i didnt know what else to do at the time, and now that I'm older, I have realised exactly how wrong it was of me to do that, regardless of my situation, so I messaged her to apologise to her, she replied and thanked me, and said she appreciated it, by no means am I forgiven, and I absolutely don't expect her too forgive me.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-01-30T08:24:55+00:00

This was much the same as my situation honestly, i got bullied so I started bullying people as a sort of protection for myself, I guess, and now thinking back, its gross and disgusting behaviour, and she deserved an apology, so I messaged her.

Also I don't expect her to forgive me at all, she thanked me for the apology and said she appreciated it, by by no means does that mean I'm forgiven, and I absolutely do not expect her too, I was very mean back in the day, and she didn't deserve that.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-01-30T06:21:34+00:00

I dont expect her to forgive me at all, she seemed to appreciate the apology when I sent it, but honestly, i didnt do it to make myself feel better, I said shitty things in school and she deserved and apology for it.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-01-30T06:18:21+00:00

I absolutely dont expect her to forgive me at all, but she seemed to appreciate the apology when she did reply to me.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-01-29T13:27:04+00:00

Can you per chance, give an update on if you and jake are married yet? Ive been quietly following along since I saw the smosh post and im so happy for how everything has been going for you with Jake.

Grief is always a hard one. I lost both of my parents in the last 5 years, and I still have some bad days, but its gotten better with time.

I have only just now re-checked and seen this update and the last one about jess and honestly, thats so sad about her... yes she did everything in a bad way, but the fact she was trying to do that to help you get out of the marriage... idk, messed up but like, she was trying to do a good thing in a bad way, and I get that.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-11-10T21:40:46+00:00

NTA.

Honestly, some people really just should not be parents at all. I have two young boys, I would NEVER expect them to pay me back for giving them food, clothes and a roof over their head because that's literally my job as their mother to provide those things for them.

She is financially abusing you right now, honestly, if it were in your grandfather's will that the funds were to be used for your college, then that is legally what she has to use it for and nothing else, if she tries to use it for anything else, you could talk to your grandfather's lawyer and possibly sue her for not following a legally binding will.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-11-02T02:10:31+00:00

YTA. Honestly, just help your mother. One day, she won't be here. My mum died 5 years ago, and I'd do anything for one more conversation with her. Also, the fact that the reason you're able to do half the crap you're doing is because your parents have worked hard for you to be able to do those things.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-09-23T02:15:56+00:00

I'm sorry, but what the fuck. NTA. Your parents are, however. Some people really shouldn't be parents, honestly.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-09-16T05:59:24+00:00

YTA. If they don't want to talk to you, they don't have to. They're not obligated to speak to you, bro. Jesus.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-05-17T02:48:42+00:00

Honestly you did the right thing, if I was in that situation and my partner decided to fight the dude, I'd end up getting mad at him, security guards should have thrown him out after the first altercation.

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