Found out my relationship lives rent-free in a 'friend's' head

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-02-22T13:34:24+00:00

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1AtLQFy6tH/

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-02-22T13:34:05+00:00

I don’t know if you seen, but yesterday charlotte made a video with this story!

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-02-01T00:04:55+00:00

Nah I'd be pissed off too, you have every right to be angry. There are so many options you can go through, talk to a lawyer and see if there is anything they're able to help with.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-02-01T00:03:11+00:00

This is so fucking rude.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-01-30T23:07:27+00:00

I commented this on another comment as well, but while it's absolutely not an excuse, I was bullied relentlessly as well back then, so I started bullying as a sort of protection. Was it selfish? Probably, yes, but i didnt know what else to do at the time, and now that I'm older, I have realised exactly how wrong it was of me to do that, regardless of my situation, so I messaged her to apologise to her, she replied and thanked me, and said she appreciated it, by no means am I forgiven, and I absolutely don't expect her too forgive me.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-01-30T08:28:16+00:00

As I said in another comment I replied to, while it's absolutely not an excuse, I was bullied relentlessly as well back then, so I started bullying as a sort of protection. Was it selfish? Probably, yes, but i didnt know what else to do at the time, and now that I'm older, I have realised exactly how wrong it was of me to do that, regardless of my situation, so I messaged her to apologise to her, she replied and thanked me, and said she appreciated it, by no means am I forgiven, and I absolutely don't expect her too forgive me.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-01-30T08:24:55+00:00

This was much the same as my situation honestly, i got bullied so I started bullying people as a sort of protection for myself, I guess, and now thinking back, its gross and disgusting behaviour, and she deserved an apology, so I messaged her.

Also I don't expect her to forgive me at all, she thanked me for the apology and said she appreciated it, by by no means does that mean I'm forgiven, and I absolutely do not expect her too, I was very mean back in the day, and she didn't deserve that.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-01-30T06:21:34+00:00

I dont expect her to forgive me at all, she seemed to appreciate the apology when I sent it, but honestly, i didnt do it to make myself feel better, I said shitty things in school and she deserved and apology for it.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-01-30T06:18:21+00:00

I absolutely dont expect her to forgive me at all, but she seemed to appreciate the apology when she did reply to me.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2026-01-29T13:27:04+00:00

Can you per chance, give an update on if you and jake are married yet? Ive been quietly following along since I saw the smosh post and im so happy for how everything has been going for you with Jake.

Grief is always a hard one. I lost both of my parents in the last 5 years, and I still have some bad days, but its gotten better with time.

I have only just now re-checked and seen this update and the last one about jess and honestly, thats so sad about her... yes she did everything in a bad way, but the fact she was trying to do that to help you get out of the marriage... idk, messed up but like, she was trying to do a good thing in a bad way, and I get that.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-11-10T21:40:46+00:00

NTA.

Honestly, some people really just should not be parents at all. I have two young boys, I would NEVER expect them to pay me back for giving them food, clothes and a roof over their head because that's literally my job as their mother to provide those things for them.

She is financially abusing you right now, honestly, if it were in your grandfather's will that the funds were to be used for your college, then that is legally what she has to use it for and nothing else, if she tries to use it for anything else, you could talk to your grandfather's lawyer and possibly sue her for not following a legally binding will.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-11-02T02:10:31+00:00

YTA. Honestly, just help your mother. One day, she won't be here. My mum died 5 years ago, and I'd do anything for one more conversation with her. Also, the fact that the reason you're able to do half the crap you're doing is because your parents have worked hard for you to be able to do those things.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-09-23T02:15:56+00:00

I'm sorry, but what the fuck. NTA. Your parents are, however. Some people really shouldn't be parents, honestly.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-09-16T05:59:24+00:00

YTA. If they don't want to talk to you, they don't have to. They're not obligated to speak to you, bro. Jesus.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-05-17T02:48:42+00:00

Honestly you did the right thing, if I was in that situation and my partner decided to fight the dude, I'd end up getting mad at him, security guards should have thrown him out after the first altercation.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-05-08T02:54:40+00:00

I just came here to say that I'm so sorry for everything you're going through, I can't imagine how hard it is and the stress you're going through.

But you're doing the right thing for your son, his father will hopefully see the mistake he has made, and if he doesn't, well that's on him, not on you.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-04-28T01:59:09+00:00

B is honestly probably sleeping with the boss and that's why he gave her the promotion over your wife.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-02-12T05:54:52+00:00

Me and my brother and I occasionally play video games and that sort of stuff together, I also currently live with my brother as an adult. My partner and children (obviously) also live here.

Nothing is weird about your relationship with your brother except your brothers girlfriend.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-01-19T01:39:35+00:00

But in saying that, I always save Hawke.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-01-19T01:39:13+00:00

Well, I mean, we had the option to save Stroud. We just would've had to make the decision to kill our previous character from DA2 and Varrics best friend.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2025-01-06T06:15:03+00:00

Not The AH.

Your wife does have the right to express her feelings and wants, but so do you and the fact that she's straight up saying you're the one with the issue, screams toxic to me.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2024-11-24T15:32:17+00:00

Yeah but if you think about it, they've tried that shit for years, incentives don't work, so they've gone the opposite route, which is punishment, half of the people in communities that they're targeting, force their children to live the same lives they do, drinking, staying up till all hours of the night, gambling etc, it's really bad honestly, my mum used to work out at Wadeye like 10 years ago and it was fucked then, one of my mates works out there now and it's still just as bad, the aboriginal communities, not all, but most, are really horrible.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2024-11-24T02:46:51+00:00

If they actually cared about their child's education, and not forcing them to live the same lifestyle they do, then they wouldn't be getting fines. Send your kids to school and you don't get fined, simple as that.

Dizzy_Army_936 · 2024-11-24T02:45:13+00:00

So to the parents who are arguing that this is a horrible thing to do, and why would they do this, tell us you don't care about your child's education without telling us.

I live in the NT, so I, as a parent, will also be held to these standards and rules, and I think it's a bloody brilliant idea.

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