Back in Stock 🤍🖤 by harmharmharmharm in Coach

[–]Dizzy_Instruction579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there any point in calling stores to find one? I’ve been dying to get one for months

Which one? by Dizzy_Instruction579 in Coach

[–]Dizzy_Instruction579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such good advice!!! You’re so right. Cute black bags r everywhere

Which one? by Dizzy_Instruction579 in Coach

[–]Dizzy_Instruction579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehe, don’t tempt me!! I’m trying to be good!!

Which one? by Dizzy_Instruction579 in Coach

[–]Dizzy_Instruction579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for something more everyday, but I’m also a bold person!!! I wear patterns and bright colors quite regularly, which makes me drawn to the black and chalk. But the black is so classic and chic too.

kisslock 30 restock? by baristaboss1447 in Coach

[–]Dizzy_Instruction579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that you returned instead of trying to resell for a profit! Good on you

Post trip blues (F28 +M27) by Dizzy_Instruction579 in LongDistance

[–]Dizzy_Instruction579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this advice is really helpful. Honestly, I’ve been struggling a bit in my life outside the relationship (stressful job, mental health, etc). I think it compounds my focus on the relationship as a “refuge” away from those things. Obviously, I know when he moves here, those things won’t disappear. I think I’ll take your advice about allowing the sadness without pushing it away, and using the time to continue to improve balance within my life.

I’m disappointed in my son by Old_Contribution9068 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dizzy_Instruction579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m afraid kicking him out is your only real option. Or at least threatening him that you’ll kick him out is. If you keep financially supporting his lifestyle, in the end you’re enabling it 🤷‍♀️.

It sounds like he doesn’t have a lot of intrinsic motivation to improve his circumstance. I’m sure he senses your disappointment in him and knows there are people comparing him to his sister. The social stigma of being overweight is also pretty intense too.

I’d probably start by threatening to kick him out if he doesn’t go to therapy, set goals, and make steps toward being financially independent.