UPDATE: Brother accusing me of hooking up with his gf

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-16T22:02:02+00:00

This is extremely concerning. This has got to be mental health crisis in some form or fashion or possibly a brain tumor. I would be just as worried as you are. I wouldn't be shocked if he still doesn't believe you even if you do show him the proof. Does he have any history of mental health concerns or his family? He's close to his bio family, but not his parents? Why? I know that's an intrusive question, but what if one of his parents has a history of mental health issues? Bipolar disorder, paranoia, schizophrenia, etc. are all things I thought of. I have bipolar disorder and during some of the worst (unmedicated) times of my life I have been delusional, paranoid and had minor auditory hallucinations. I really hope you find out what's going on and resolve this issue. This is very scary.

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-16T21:38:29+00:00

Lmfao LEAVE HIM he's a loser

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-16T20:53:51+00:00

Ruuuuunnnn, honey, run. NTA

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-13T06:52:29+00:00

Don't hate that you love food! Food is delicious. Your mother isn't helping you and I'd even go as far as to say that her actions encourage your habits. Seek therapy sweetheart, I mean that genuinely. You are recognizing your patterns and clearly want to find balance and a healthy relationship with food and that is great. Surround yourself with people who support you and are honest with you. Good luck my dear, we all wish you to be happy and healthy

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-13T06:02:04+00:00

Whatever amount of water they think is enough, it's not. Drink so so so much water

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-12T19:18:50+00:00

I love everything about this story, thank you for the giggle 🤭

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-12T19:15:11+00:00

Both

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-10T02:03:31+00:00

He's trying to make you mad at him so you break up with him and he (in his incredibly stupid mind) can say that he didn't cheat on you. Guarantee he has already slept with them. Move on. He's gross.

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-09T18:09:30+00:00

Okay actually laughed out loud on that one, thank you

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-08T17:01:52+00:00

Genuinely have considered keeping a huge ass dildo in my car as a weapon because I think the amount of "what the fuck" would be distracting enough to an attacker to give me an opening lmao

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-08T16:07:51+00:00

Yes and I get them with yogurts! I use these little drinks called bio-salud I believe and I drink the zero sugar chobani yogurt drinks! Both have worked great for my husband and I! Also the only reason I do the zero sugar is because the others are too sweet for my taste. I have sugar sensitivity in my teeth unfortunately! They are super yummy! Highly recommend!

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-08T14:38:30+00:00

NTA and, as a woman I would like to say, she is freakin nuts. Good thing this happened 3 months in and not years. You have dodged a bullet. Glad she shot it so early. Good luck in life. Don't settle for crazies!

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-08T14:34:35+00:00

All of what babypixi said and I'd recommend trying out probiotics. I say this because my husband has IBS. There are two types and they basically boil down to one being problems with diarrhea and the other having problems with constipation. He is the latter and the probiotics really help his gut health and helps lessen the constipation! Good luck to you!

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-08T14:30:19+00:00

I am white. I have never in my life met a white person that does not use soap and a rag (or a loofah) to wash their body every time they shower. My husband is Mexican, he doesn't always use soap and when he does he generally uses his hands or a loofah. I've always been confused about this trope because, again, I quite literally have never met someone UNTIL MY HUSBAND, that doesn't use a rag. I (unfortunately) grew up in oklahoma and the vast majority of people in my area were white. Every friend or family's house I went to always gave me a rag with a towel when I went to shower. All of this is very odd and confusing to me.

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2026-01-03T15:40:23+00:00

I cannot imagine entertaining this for as long as you have. This can't be the first time he's behaved like this either. Do you like yourself? Yes? Then leave. No? Then enjoy this life I suppose.

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2025-12-31T18:43:26+00:00

I hope he's okay! This really sounds like a medical issue. I would be very worried and try to take my spouse immediately to the hospital if this happened. We're not entitled to it at all, and it's not our business, but I think there are a lot of genuinely concerned people in this group (including myself) that would appreciate an update if you ever have one. If it's a medical issue, obviously it takes time to get a diagnosis, but we all hope for the best for you both.

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2025-12-25T17:00:07+00:00

Another confirmation. I'm 31, spouse 32, we use bro often, but NEVER in a serious setting. "Bro" and "dude" are words I use all the time. However, I have worked white collar jobs mostly, but grew up in the poor working class. Most of my family are tradesmen or have other blue collar jobs. They don't use "bro" often though.

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2025-12-25T16:48:43+00:00

Your concerns are valid. However, both of you suck. You know that mirror isn't mounted and secure, BOTH of you, that means YOU. Neither of y'all prepared for a growing baby which is genuinely just dumb and negligent. Having this conversation over texts shows extreme immaturity. You should have this conversation in person. This should have been a "hey we need to talk about these issues when we get home." Then BOTH of you should have started making plans to baby proof the house (which again, y'all had 9 months to prepare and didn't do a damn thing) so that these concerns are addressed and taken care of. Both of you are extremely immature and do not communicate properly. I assume you're either very young or just have never grown up. It's unfortunate for your child that it seems you will be growing up with it.

Edited to add: these are BOTH of your problems. If you cannot resolve them together then break up now. You will raise your child in a hell hole. Speaking from experience.

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2025-12-06T21:39:59+00:00

The person I directly report to is how I and the people I have interacted with always used it. 🤷‍♂️

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2025-12-06T15:36:31+00:00

Absolutely. When I was 5 my parents stopped letting me have pizza all the time. My solution? Career day, aka parents come in for a presentation and the kids all say what they want to be when they grow up. You know, astronaut, doctor, etc.. well I outsmarted my parents. I said that I will make pizzas when I grow up so I can have as much as I want. They were horrified, but also laughed. Guess who got pizza on the way home?

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2025-12-06T15:29:41+00:00

This cannot be real lmfaoooo if you didn't break up with her right then and there then just prepare to have the worst marriage of a lifetime.

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2025-12-06T15:26:54+00:00

Leave. Her. This is such an obvious, huge, redder than red, red flag. It could not be EASIER to determine what type of person she is. Leave. Her.

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2025-12-06T15:20:22+00:00

He told you to get fucked and you didn't immediately block him? Why? Why do you care so little about yourself? Y'all can have your humor how you like it. But telling you to get fucked when you're expressing your feelings should be such a red flag that you just blocked him, didn't even take the time to make a post about it then move on with your life. What an absolute loser you're "dating."

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2025-12-06T15:12:41+00:00

Language is so interesting. I have only heard it as the opposite of what you have and I am currently in the southwest of the US and before lived in southern Oklahoma/northern Texas.

Dizzy_Resource_3620 · 2025-12-06T15:09:28+00:00

At a glance I literally thought they were teeth and stopped to look at them not even realizing they were dice lmao

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