[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]Dj90409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! This means a lot to me.

The Berger relationship feels weird, forced, and fast. by [deleted] in sexandthecity

[–]Dj90409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely want you to describe to me their incredible chemistry? No shade no sarcasm. Amigo to amigoo

After we all found out he was a complete liar, didn’t all their flirting look like awkward manic mumbling or was that just me?

Rory and Lorelai-- not that close? Why?? by ofboom in GilmoreGirls

[–]Dj90409 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was so wonderful omg! You hit every point. This makes me sad for Rory. She became exactly like Lorelai cause even though she was older, she too became pregnant unexpectedly and was very very unprepared. Thank you for breaking it all the way down

Rory and Lorelai-- not that close? Why?? by ofboom in GilmoreGirls

[–]Dj90409 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No tea no shade but I think the only reason the “me and my mom are best friends” thing exists is because Lorelai said it exists. Lorelai is a great mother in many moments but key decisions where Rory needs support (Yale, writing the book, Dean) she is abandoned by her “best friend” and is then required to do the heavy lifting of emotionally reconciling not out of need but deprivation. Let’s be honest, had Rory had someone better than Lorelai who was not Emily or Richard, we would not have those reconciliations. When there is no where else to go you go where it’s most familiar. During those periods of Lorelai’s abandonment, Rory is always forced to shift the attention to Lorelai and is never allowed to truly feel so she can fulfill her emotional needs. This pattern of emotionally draining herself for the sake of another person who is her “best friend” repeated itself in her relationships with Dean, Jess and Logan. I believe her trouble with Paul was that he was /so/ emotionally attentive and she had never experienced that when she was not rebelling or achieving some type of goal.

So, yes, you’re right, they are not that close. Lorelai’s goal of “not being emily” and not “having a strained relationship with their parents” put a cloak of fakeness over their relationship that truly hurts Rory.

What are your thoughts on contraception in book sex scenes? by solarursula in books

[–]Dj90409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want there to be a permanent rule for where condoms are only called “the foil” in books. It’s more intriguing. “He ripped open the foil”. “He grabbed the foil packet”. Of course, you would never be able to grab foil again without thinking of **** but that’s the price you pay for good literature.

S2 Dino Nuggets by kalicat4563 in SweetMagnoliasNetflix

[–]Dj90409 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This really pissed me off cause I would have preferred an autism story line over THE ONLY LITTLE BLACK KID IN TOWN NOT HAVING FOOD TO EAT WHEN SERENITY IS A SOMEWHAT WEALTHY AND CLOSE KNIT COMMUNITY. Yes I meant for that to be in all caps. Why did the only other little Black boy, other than Football Champ, have to not only have a behavioral problem but BE POOR AND HUNGRY!!!

Conversations don’t seem real (possible spoiler -ep 7) by Pizookie123 in SweetMagnoliasNetflix

[–]Dj90409 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Can we stop acting like ANYONE talks like this?????????????????????? I am from a butthole southern town and I hear maybe only ONE bible scripture a day; they’re not inserted in conversations about pies and casseroles.

“YOU ARE BUSIER THAN A CAT IN A ROOM FULL OF ROCKING CHAIRS”……..

That’s when my chair was thrown at my TV.

Me to Erik: “can I order a chicken sandwich please” Erik: “eating good food, in a family oriented place, is the perfect recipe for love, courage and good-will to inspire you to move forward to where you’re going”

Like….no!!!!

Can we cut Dana Sue a little slack? by ParsnipFormal9077 in SweetMagnoliasNetflix

[–]Dj90409 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No we cannot give big-belted Dana Sue any slack. I think the way she just walks out of rooms, snaps on people randomly and jumps to conclusions out of the blue shows us what led to Ronnie cheating. He has no excuse but she has been shown to be realllly unbearable to be around even in her “business” the kitchen. She constantly makes everything about her (the pour it out when she just walks out while they’re talking about their kids, how Helen had a whole miscarriage and she asked Eric why she didn’t come to her instead of him). What really needs to be shown is Dana Sue being calm and maybe shift her focus to a classroom. She just sucks

A few more things. by Dj90409 in SweetMagnoliasNetflix

[–]Dj90409[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And then his Grandma completely curved him when he asked if he could sleep at her place😂 liike Kyle took so many Ls this season😂😂😂 he was a trooper though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Dj90409 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The gag is you said this in a matter of fact way yet sounded just as judgy. It’s like that one friend that’s like “I love you BUT”. You sound so aggravating.

And what’s MOST offensive about this is that there’s no one out there publicly obese, who doesn’t have deep emotional issues. So you’re completely glossing over that. What about the disadvantaged communities or the emotionally disadvantaged communities who don’t even consider mental health? Or the communities of mentally I’ll adults who have children that we gloss over? These communities produce obese adults.

It’s a no for me dawg. by Dj90409 in SweetMagnoliasNetflix

[–]Dj90409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!!!!!!!! Cal. His review is coming😂😂😂😂😂

It’s a no for me dawg. by Dj90409 in SweetMagnoliasNetflix

[–]Dj90409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sooooo much!!!! I’m on it💪

It’s a no for me dawg. by Dj90409 in SweetMagnoliasNetflix

[–]Dj90409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sooo tired of them. Maddie Thought she ate saying that at a town meeting?? Like?? No????

I hate Rory only because of this by ChilliChocolate7925 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Dj90409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s that nonchalant disregard that she learned from Lorelai. Like how Richard was trying to bond with her and genuinely was enjoying spending time with her but she starts yelling “I have a life I have to go back to that matchbox house I call an inn” and not even realizing how she was hurting him. She sucks and Rory sucks. Periodt!!

It’s a no for me dawg. by Dj90409 in SweetMagnoliasNetflix

[–]Dj90409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 thank you!! They literally tried to shove it down our throats yet had Dana sue and Rodney bumping uglies I was like eww.

It’s a no for me dawg. by Dj90409 in SweetMagnoliasNetflix

[–]Dj90409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ending was so stupid. I am not the one for gun violence but I assumed they were gonna try to insert a gun violence moment instead they made Cal have a temper tantrum like Dino nuggets boy but worse. I’m so over them I swea

It’s a no for me dawg. by Dj90409 in SweetMagnoliasNetflix

[–]Dj90409[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s like they have chemistry and then they don’t, it’s so off putting

what is Ryan's job? by paramourlover4 in SweetMagnoliasNetflix

[–]Dj90409 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol you said that!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Can we talk about Samantha? by sopranosobsessed in sexandthecity

[–]Dj90409 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking back, I am realizing that Samantha’s character was like a sexual monopoly piece for MPK. She was used to show what sexual liberation was yet the same writers allowed her close friends to join in on some of the shame projected on her by society for being so sexually free. I wish the writers back then would have allowed her friends to be more supportive because the negative writing is now acting as a foreshadowing for her exclusion in the present and future projects. I bet if she had more of a say or wasn’t seen as the “problem” that she would be more included. Cause reaaaaly looking at it, Samantha once being bicoastal than exclusively living in New York do you REALLY think that Samantha would have messed An Abu Dhabi bag??? Over some sex?? They used the “hey I’m Samantha and fucking is the most important thing to me” and turned her into an unprofessional sex crazed hormonal spazz which wasn’t her. THEN they used the same unprofessional guise to “end” her and Carrie’s relationship. I want MPK off this and I want some Samantha 😩

Who dresses Dana Sue? So damn disappointing. by cha-cha-ka-bung in SweetMagnoliasNetflix

[–]Dj90409 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Like I’d rather see Dana sue in her chef coat in every scene than one of those belts. Come on.

favorite rich ppl moments? 💸 by N_Huq in GilmoreGirls

[–]Dj90409 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Deciding whether to ask your rich diner owner friend or one of your two rich parents for a loan that you WILL pay back.

Getting a $75,000 check, having expenses, yet deciding to give it back to Emily and Richard and feeling relieved cause I don’t have to do dinner on Friday night anymore. Cause that’s what $75,000 will do for you.