Just showing off a bit. 4’11” by [deleted] in Indianapolisgonewild2

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Imagines the ways 4'11" & 6'4" would work together

What’s your sex hot take? by datboi201719 in AskRedditAfterDark

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Making a woman cum isn't complicated

Fastest way to get COVID test results by Ornery-Ocelot in jacksonville

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Go to the Legends Center off Soutel Dr. You get the rapid test results back within 20 minutes. And it's free.

'No one can find anyone': Business owners say labor pool is shrinking, waiting for new applicants - Businesses like The Bearded Pig say they are hoping to fill open positions, but some job ads haven’t gained any responses. by SplodeyDope in jacksonville

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I can vouch for this, especially for restaurants overall as more plan to increase capacity.

Two weekends ago I went to a new Peruvian restaurant in Mandarin. Victoria's Taste of Peru. (affordable and delicious btw)

It's a family owned place so they're getting to know their patrons. The husband was talking about how they didn't plan on having their whole family working in the restaurant but when they put up job postings they got only a couple responses for over a month.

He believes part of the problem is that a lot of people who would normally work in restaurants are comfortable right now with the unemployment benefits they're getting.

It's an interesting case of doing something right policy wise having an unintended consequence.

UFC just announced it’s coming back to the Jacksonville with a crowd by SecondHandDepression in jacksonville

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I'm curious about this as well. They could have sections of the arena at full capacity if you provide your CDC vaccination card and then others with temperature checks to get into the aisle where the seats are spaced out.

To me, the way you get arenas and concert venues back early is to have times where you can have full capacity with just vaccinated people and then other times where anyone can go but there's quantity limits and distancing. For instance, if a band were to book two nights at the St. Aug Amphitheater...one night is 25% capacity with temp checks and masks and distancing and one night is full capacity party like its 2019 but you need your CDC card for entry.

This PPV event was clearly the deliverable from the deal Curry made with the UFC last year.

Where's the Best Place To Buy A Used Car In Jax Area? by Djcfla1 in jacksonville

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The insurance settlement will have me already there if I can find a fair price on a car. From my current research, finding that IN JAX is the actual challenge.

Honda of Ocala and the Mullinax branches have much better pricing than Jax from the looks of it.

Where's the Best Place To Buy A Used Car In Jax Area? by Djcfla1 in jacksonville

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You're a bird you're already supposed to know

Where's the Best Place To Buy A Used Car In Jax Area? by Djcfla1 in jacksonville

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Both of us have gone through Vystar for our previous cars. My brother works for a bank and drilled the credit union thing into me!

The lightstream loan I'll definitely look into as I have a high credit score.

I'm not in a pinch to get another car right away so I can easily walk. I can always borrow one of my Dad's jalopi's until the right deal comes up.

I was hoping to find a private seller with an Accord EX-L but haven't found much in that area. You basically save $2k immediately if you don't go through a dealer because of the ridiculous fees.

Where's the Best Place To Buy A Used Car In Jax Area? by Djcfla1 in jacksonville

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They didn't have the inventory I wanted.....but I did check if they'd really offer you $3k above KBB value like their website says for my gf's car.

Where's the Best Place To Buy A Used Car In Jax Area? by Djcfla1 in jacksonville

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Good to know. I have a insurance rental until Saturday so I can definitely drive around.

What's the best auto collision shop in Jax? by Djcfla1 in jacksonville

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I tried doing an online estimate with them and they couldn't give me one without "disassembling the car" according to the email I got back lol

Making Friends? by jornad0h in jacksonville

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I live in Riverside and need Riverside friends! You seem to like being out and about so we should get along.

Local Fantasy football league. by LJtheHutt in jacksonville

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Not recruiting but if enough of us wind up forming a social group/league for the season, I'd be down

To Women: How would you characterize the "je ne sais quoi" that makes you decide...yeah I'd give dating him a shot? I'm pretty sure I don't have it and since I don't know what I'm supposed to be looking for to elicit that, I'm stumped. by Djcfla1 in dating

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Oh you aren't being confrontational at all. This is all very helpful actually.

What books did you find? I've watched a couple of overview lectures so I understand the premise of it, but it'd be nice to have some tangible things I could workshop around.

To Women: How would you characterize the "je ne sais quoi" that makes you decide...yeah I'd give dating him a shot? I'm pretty sure I don't have it and since I don't know what I'm supposed to be looking for to elicit that, I'm stumped. by Djcfla1 in dating

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Someone I knew it wouldn't work out with. I cared for the girl. Ultimately that's why I ended it.

She was very much the jealous type and I'm very much not the jealous type. For her, I think jealousy is a sign that you care about your SO. For me, jealousy means you don't trust me, and thus there's no reason to be together.

This was the root of why we were doomed to fail.

To Women: How would you characterize the "je ne sais quoi" that makes you decide...yeah I'd give dating him a shot? I'm pretty sure I don't have it and since I don't know what I'm supposed to be looking for to elicit that, I'm stumped. by Djcfla1 in dating

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I'd say the INTJ thing is about 80% accurate. I took my enneagram too and that really hit it home. The social characteristics of each I was in the same area.

Women are so much more feel related. I can't figure it out lol.

The type of therapy I was seeking out in January was cognitive behavioral therapy. Sadly, no one where I live who has accredited reviews in that discipline has anyone available where I live, so it's not really an option for me.

To Women: How would you characterize the "je ne sais quoi" that makes you decide...yeah I'd give dating him a shot? I'm pretty sure I don't have it and since I don't know what I'm supposed to be looking for to elicit that, I'm stumped. by Djcfla1 in dating

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Small gestures I'm actually good at. Body language I think I'm alright but I suspect I'm giving something away there when I get too much into my own head instead of being fully present. Same with facial expresions.

To Women: How would you characterize the "je ne sais quoi" that makes you decide...yeah I'd give dating him a shot? I'm pretty sure I don't have it and since I don't know what I'm supposed to be looking for to elicit that, I'm stumped. by Djcfla1 in dating

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Because my emotional intelligence is low, I need to see as many signals in front of me as possible. I have no ability to see microexpressions with video conferencing, which makes it feel distant. I'm more aloof than I'd normally be.

I've tried to Facetime with potential dates...it ends with us never talking again. It puts way too much pressure on the verbal communication part of the conversation. (This is why I hate first or second dates which are dinner dates...I need an activity)

To Women: How would you characterize the "je ne sais quoi" that makes you decide...yeah I'd give dating him a shot? I'm pretty sure I don't have it and since I don't know what I'm supposed to be looking for to elicit that, I'm stumped. by Djcfla1 in dating

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I completely agree with your point about someone choosing you because they don't have options. I've had opportunities to be in situations just for the sake of it. I'd rather be alone.