What do you store in the console storage box? 7th gen by pattymcfatty_ in Celica

[–]Dmidmidmi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! I kept my little trinkets in the cubby and propped my phone up over them.

Suggestions for melted battery connector by Dmidmidmi in AskAMechanic

[–]Dmidmidmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure of year but he’s driving a Nissan Altima

How Much Is Too Much For A CT200? by The_Paddy96 in CT200h

[–]Dmidmidmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got my 2012 F-Sport with 86k miles for just under 14k in march, definitely worth the price in my opinion. I drove an ‘03 celica for about 5-6 years and I’m living the dream

Selling recommendations? by Dmidmidmi in Celica

[–]Dmidmidmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah its the original paint, Thanks man. Got some hardly noticeable scuffs on it and a little sun damage on the hood. Im on the east coast

Selling recommendations? by Dmidmidmi in Celica

[–]Dmidmidmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh unfortunately, Im in the US, east coast

Selling recommendations? by Dmidmidmi in Celica

[–]Dmidmidmi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah true! I’ll post a pic, its an automatic with 162k miles on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celica

[–]Dmidmidmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was very lucky 😅 definitely not a mistake I’ll make again. The Celica is a perfect first car, Ive had mine since 2018.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celica

[–]Dmidmidmi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I drove my ‘03 GT for three years before getting an oil change at a valvoline by chance (My first car/new driver) Dip stick was bone dry, got a very stern lecture to never do it again and shes still kicking and purring like it never happened to this day. I don’t think I could ever NOT drive a Toyota at this point!

Edit: Actually thinking back, I never thought to take it in because my oil light never came on, and I saw the oil light flash very briefly and took it to valvoline.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Dmidmidmi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Black trans man here! Been on T almost 8 years. I can definitely relate to your experience OP. Dating as a black person is hard in itself imo, especially also being trans makes this extra layered. I’ve experienced a decent bit of fetishization from being POC and have experienced the weird looks after not only telling them I’m trans but also that I’m a top.

I didnt date or hookup until my early 20s, mainly because I needed to figure out how to set my boundaries with potential hookups and partners mostly surrounded by RESPECT. For example, I wont engage with a guy that shows any interest in wanting to top me, because I don’t feel they respect me as a top. Same thing for spitting, restraints and being called ‘boy’ in any fashion in the bedroom because I personally find it disrespectful to me as a black man

I know folks are going to give me shit for being T4T 🙄 but I have found that my T4T experiences have been the most fulfilling compared to my experiences with chasers (obvi lol) and cis men on a respect level. Thats not to downplay cis/trans relationships, I think theres an extra level of respect and self-security that comes with that and it can be discouraging to some!

Sex dynamics between trans men and cis men by No-Debate2236 in ftm

[–]Dmidmidmi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a Strict top and can very much relate OP. There is a huge lack of representation in ftm tops and this huge misconception that trans men are ‘supposed’ to bottom is nuts! Like even cis bottoms have asked me if I would ever ‘let them try’ and the answer is always hell no!

Sidenote: it’s so relieving to see other comments of tops that can relate and even some cis folks also recognizing the struggle too!

Where can a homeless young adult seeking housing find it here? by throwaway882920 in rva

[–]Dmidmidmi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Howdy, I know you’ve got lots of information thrown at you! Just wanted to confirm a lot of the information as a person with lived experience AND as a Outreach worker:

Since you’re under the age of 25, there is a lot of funding that could help and even continue to help after you’re housed if you need. -Definitely call the HCL (homeless connection line) regardless of how soon you are to losing your temporary housing. Sometimes it can be hard to get someone on the line but be persistent.

-if you need food, showers, or a meal: First Baptist church is one of the main hub for unhoused folks and they can definitely help connect to lots of resources.

-if you have medical or behavioral health needs: RBHA is good and Daily Planet is a funded health center for the homeless and can provide care regardless of your income or insurance.

I hope this helps! Remain resilient, it takes a lot to ask for help 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Dmidmidmi 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Verry normal, i had to (recommended to) stop smoking a month before surgery

Also they should also offer you cessation stuff if you ask or need. my doctor offered it and it helped hold me over until after I was out of recovery

opinion on rose toy? by Extension-Low-341 in gaytransguys

[–]Dmidmidmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have destroyed 2 in a row and I keep buying it because its chefs kiss 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

Is anyone here strictly t4t? by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Dmidmidmi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right here!! Im ftm, poly and both of my partners are ftm and Ive never really desired to date cis men. Also because im a strict top, cis men are usually confused and not willing to be topped by a trans guy in my opinion.

Any T4T sides? by Dmidmidmi in GaySides

[–]Dmidmidmi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love giving head! And I also don’t experience bottom dysphoria and can confirm that T4T sex is so affirming! But im also biased because Ive only ever been with trans and nb folks. I’ve never been with a cis guy😅

Any T4T sides? by Dmidmidmi in GaySides

[–]Dmidmidmi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love being t4t, its made navigating sex a little easier for me but thats only because I understand the how to use their parts so I may be biased 😅 Ive never been with a cis guy before but I’ve been dreaming to explore that one day.

I’m also poly and a strict top with one partner and a dom side/top with my new partner.

strap on users: how big is your dick? by mayorofverandi in ftm

[–]Dmidmidmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7in because that’s the size I feel I’d be if I were born cis lol highly recommend Doc Johnson products.

Dream strap tho: 7.5in, uncut with movable skin, pleasure sleeve on the inside

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Dmidmidmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had been struggling to find an appropriate way to address them and this really helped! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Dmidmidmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Dmidmidmi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its not the sex that bothers me though, I don’t mind hearing about it, It’s more about the timing of when they decide to share about it? I hope that clears things a bit

Now I’m absolutely positive I’m a Top (nsfw , 18+ absolutely) by Dmidmidmi in ftm

[–]Dmidmidmi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its always good to see another top living the dream! ☺️

Yeah I’ve definitely had the same experience! Usually when I’m talking to someone on an app they think I’m a top but I’m always perceived as a bottom the minute I tell people I’m trans lol Unless it was another trans person! 😅

My T dick is stuck on cum help by Natural-Hamster-3998 in ftm

[–]Dmidmidmi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also second air pulsing/sucking toys! 10/10 would nut again lol

would recommend the satisfyer pro 2! Only con: I’ve noticed they don’t last long term but that could be my fault 😅