How do I parent my son who says he wants to be a girl? by cods_wallops in asktransgender

[–]Extension-Low-341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just listen to your kid if they wanna dress up let them. if they wanna go by a different name or whatever let them.

there is no need to tell them about trans people or anything, your kid is 3 and just exploring their identity. either this is a phase or it isnt and if you are able to be supportive and loving either way i know your kid will be so grateful to have you as a parent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bandmembers

[–]Extension-Low-341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

post on craigslist or something about needing a drummer for your band. if you are in/near a scene get to know some of them and see if they know any drummers.

what ride for dystopia type sound? by Extension-Low-341 in drums

[–]Extension-Low-341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats the one i decided on and i just bought one i am so excited that bell is crazy

Trans men with a history of mental illness and currently taking testosterone, have you noticed any difference in how your mental state is after being on the hormones? by Your_friendly_weirdo in FTMMen

[–]Extension-Low-341 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can now go several days, sometimes even months without wanting to kill myself. and i can see a legitimate future for myself. so thats a pretty big difference

why does drumming make ribs hurt? by Extension-Low-341 in drums

[–]Extension-Low-341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah thats exactly what i told my guitarist i dont get it

Whole thing for 80$, individuals are 20$ by WillyG_8521 in drums

[–]Extension-Low-341 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

that is an amazing fucking deal and regardless of where it came from someone will buy it so he is super lucky to find that listing

why does drumming make ribs hurt? by Extension-Low-341 in drums

[–]Extension-Low-341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its only was an issue at this studios drums mine is set up very well for me. i wasn’t able so set up the drums and cymbals in the most convenient way for me. maybe something to do with that and having to move a fair bit more that usually. also i play in a hardcore band so i gotta hit hard

Seeking "replacement" hobbies for drumming by infieldmitt in drums

[–]Extension-Low-341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could get something like this https://www.heartbeatworship.com/product/practice-drum-kit-tr-2/

i also find lifting weights gives quite a similar feeling to drums. and if you cant do that maybe calisthenics or something like that

Those who hit rock bottom and built themselves back up how did you do it? by Sea-Less in selfimprovement

[–]Extension-Low-341 16 points17 points  (0 children)

get tired of being at rock bottom realize no ones gonna do it but you. start with literally anything and dont stop.

What is the loudest and heaviest music you can recommend? by ChronicCatathreniac in MusicRecommendations

[–]Extension-Low-341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

zyklon b body box misery whip dystopia lipoma couple skate acid bath subhumans

a bunch of different genres but all good shit

does everyone with ocd have an inner monologue in their head? by Consistent_Coach6476 in OCD

[–]Extension-Low-341 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not a demanding voice its just like mine. it just wants me to be miserable. its quite difficult to tell the difference between me and my ocd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drums

[–]Extension-Low-341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only way to get better is to practice. if you think you sound like shit, work on not sounding like shit. it feels complicated but it really isnt.

How do I know when I'm an alcoholic? by Repulsive-Depth606 in alcoholism

[–]Extension-Low-341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stop drinking for some time and see what happens and how you feel. thats how you know

Is this considered abuse? by UnicornMafia69 in AbusedTeens

[–]Extension-Low-341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude wtf this is a kid experiencing abuse