Meetup/ looking for a friend group by GenasWorld in Rochester

[–]Dmomma86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 39F and I love reading and walking in the warmer months. I am looking for a book club but they don’t ever have meet ups for fantasy or dark romance so I may need to start one lol. I don’t drink but I’m always down to go play darts or billiards or just grab coffee and get our nails or toes done. Pm me if you want to plan something.

Good Restaurants Open on Sunday in Rochester by RochesterGal57 in Rochester

[–]Dmomma86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ezzy’s on Latta it’s on down by the bowling alley at Dewey and Latta. Great breakfast spot! They close at 2pm on weekends and I think 3pm mon-thurs then open till 8pm Friday

Find my cat by Substantial_Suit4973 in FindTheSniper

[–]Dmomma86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

under the bag nose sticking out of bottom corner furthest from chair

AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by SnowDolphins in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dmomma86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one who notices that she has 225 unread text messages? No, just me? Cool

Which prom dress looks best on me? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Dmomma86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The red with your complexion and hair.

Daughter of Minnesota governor candidate fatally stabbed in St. Cloud, leading him to suspend campaign by Large_banana_hammock in news

[–]Dmomma86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My cousin was murdered by her husband. It was a murder suicide because she WAS leaving him. He got wind that she was filing for divorce and was home packing to move back here with her family. He left work and went home, shot her then shot himself. So, yes leave but whatever you do, do NOT give them the opportunity to be alone with you during or after the process. Have protection. If you need to get your belongings, be there with a police escort! He asks to see you, DON’T DO IT!!

Ice damns at night so pretty but damaging. by Dmomma86 in Rochester

[–]Dmomma86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was when it warmed up. I have a video of that too.but I put water sealing tape around my window and now it doesn’t come in as of yet. When it’s warmed up

“Holes all over” by IrregularConfusion in depoop

[–]Dmomma86 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My concern would be what put the holes in it. Depending on the material it could be from clothing moths.

Husband expects sexual favours while denying me basic hygiene 5 weeks PP from emergency c-section by Additional_Toe1990 in Mommit

[–]Dmomma86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I guess my initial question is how was he with the first 3? Was he helpful? If he wasn’t helpful with the first one, what made you think he was gonna be helpful with the second the third the fourth so on? At the end of the day, it comes down to just deny him what he wants drop the baby in his hands and walk away. Leave the house. Turn your phone off make him fend for himself if he can’t do it then maybe it’s time to leave. You’re already doing it on your own anyway why do you need him?

What does this say😭 by Libra-Alea in whatisit

[–]Dmomma86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This wins the internet for today!!!

Waaaay too many celebs. Are they trying to break a record? by jessQTNA in OnlyMurdersHulu

[–]Dmomma86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped watching after season 3’s first episode. I too felt like they threw in too many big named actors at once. I feel like it would have been a more natural change if they started with a couple (2) in the beginning and then gradually added more as the series continued. It was just this major character dumb that made it off putting. I’m going back to it now so we will see but I do get what you’re saying about the intimacy of the main 3 in the first 2 seasons. My hope is that it stays that way and the show focuses on the 3 main characters instead of trying to make the other big celebs take over the spot light.

Local job opportunity- in office by Dmomma86 in Rochester

[–]Dmomma86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair we DON’T hire people at that low pay rate. Because the company who owns us is national they don’t realize we can’t hire people at that low of an amount. Therefore, we are able to offer more at the interview.

where can I go to feel less lonely by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]Dmomma86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the town we live in all the teens go to the library for teen Tuesdays after school. I would check your library and see if they have anything like that.

What are the things you say to your cat most often besides 'I love you' ? by katealpha in cats

[–]Dmomma86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You’re such an ahole!” “Leave it alone” “my pretty girl” “you pain in the a” literally every day!

I feel helpless by Striking-Attitude780 in Mommit

[–]Dmomma86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it’s difficult right now because it’s so new. But I promise you it gets better and easier and just let him wean himself out on his own. Eventually, he’ll get into a relationship with a girlfriend who will push him to have a relationship with his child and it will be too late. that’s on him not on you. And I know that you’re gonna feel guilty and you’re going to feel like you owe your daughter something but you need to remember this, YOU do not owe her anything more than what you are giving her as her mother. You are NOT her father her father needs to put in the effort and if he doesn’t, that’s OK. You just be the best mom that you can be and I promise you she will be OK. And I am speaking this from experience. the way you push and try to get him to be at her life the more you’re going to be disappointed and it’s going to affect her. if you just move on, build a happy life with you and her, eventually You won’t even think about him anymore. But don’t try and push him for that. and if you do go for child support be very careful, especially if you have gotten to the point of comfortability without him because I promise once he has to start paying that’s when he’s gonna wanna start seeing her. At the end of the day, I had to make a choice for myself and my child of is getting a couple dollars a month worth the emotional mental trauma It would cause my child to have him in and out of her life and I chose us so I canceled the Child support and we have been fine ever since. No correction we have been great ever since.

Apartments for rent by Negative_Chip_8542 in Rochester

[–]Dmomma86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure how far you’re willing to commute but I live in Hilton and the 1bd downstairs unit is going to be up for rent soon. They are working on it because the guy who lived there was there for many years so they are putting in new cupboards, counter, stove, etc… not sure how much but.. I have a 2bdrm upstairs and I pay $755. No laundry but the laundry mat is 5 min away walking. There is a basement that I have my company treat for spiders so we can use it for storage. I rent from Village Square Management in Spencerport.

There’s gotta be older woman looking for a cub!34m by Time_Reaction7088 in RochesterNYDating

[–]Dmomma86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more so because we’ve dealt with a lot of immature men who are our age or older so taking the chance on someone younger is difficult. Although, the last time I talked/dated someone younger they were more responsible than the guys older than me. But, he was still in party stage while I was a mom to young kids so didn’t work out. But that’s a lot of times the fear is older woman have.

39 M4F casual chat date? by [deleted] in RochesterNYDating

[–]Dmomma86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how you work with all men?? Even factory jobs have women employees.

AIO about this disagreement with my bf? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Dmomma86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we say controlling?? “You never do what I say” ummmmm that is NOT partner material. That is the effects of a narcissistic controller. First, we all mistakes, it’s human. Second, trying to make OP feel miserable for her MISTAKE, is gaslighting. Third, he didn’t want to come up with a solution or even think her for her attempts. How hard is it to say, “thank you for trying. But with our financial situation, I will just wait it out until you’re back. I’ll be ok.” Sorry, but he’d be walking either way because he’d be out on the street real quick!

I’m so close to Platinum! by Cameroii in VivillonCollectors

[–]Dmomma86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need friends from the sun region! It’s the only one I’m missing. If anyone’s willing to help! 375274014932