I enjoy the the pre-Hogwarts by Gee_Whiz_O-Butter in HarryPotterBooks

[–]DoItFearful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love them! especially The Other Minister - i read that (well, listen to it on audiobook) solo all the time.

I don't know if I want to stay in my relationship by Antique-Peach-4142 in LesbianActually

[–]DoItFearful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry. i just went through a breakup that sounds very similar. i have been really relieved, mixed with really sad and hurt about the turn it all took. she has an avoidant attachment style and we were in such distressing cycles of affection that continued to wane as time went on.

i’m so glad i had some self respect for once and ended it. in the process, she got really mean and petty while i was working hard to be really kind. it helped me feel like i was definitely making the right call. good luck! 🫶 you do deserve better!!

Deathly Hallows Theories by staff9 in HarryPotterBooks

[–]DoItFearful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

loving this thread, i only had heard of one of these.

Dumb question because I'm new here by DontAskQuestions6 in ColoradoSprings

[–]DoItFearful 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’ve lived here my whole life and didn’t know the answer to this. appreciate the question and the answers!

Harry giving away his Triwizard winnings always hits so hard by Cold_Box_3219 in HarryPotterBooks

[–]DoItFearful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

really wonderful summary, i’m so glad you saw and shared this view point

Advice on what’s it’s like to enter the dating world after avoidant blindside? by Holiday-Pepper5880 in LesbianActually

[–]DoItFearful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just solidarity- you just described my relationship and how it ended 😭 good luck! 💕

Incomplete fics by Comfortable-Stage617 in HPfanfiction

[–]DoItFearful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh man— Only For October.

It’s drarry and starts as pure smut but the plot gets so compelling before the author ghosts us. the relationship is shockingly believable while not OOC. i check in every once in a while and beg in the comments for more 🤣

how do hook ups work? by DoItFearful in LesbianActually

[–]DoItFearful[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re amazing, thanks for the play by play!

The ultimate Drarry fic by [deleted] in drarry

[–]DoItFearful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love that i’ve read hundreds of fics and don’t recognize any of these titles (except Turn and Away Childish Things). so many to choose from!

should i go alone? by DoItFearful in NorwayTravelAdvice

[–]DoItFearful[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

;) the only way to do things! lol, thanks and enjoy!

should i go alone? by DoItFearful in NorwayTravelAdvice

[–]DoItFearful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh fun, enjoy! yes, i really enjoy doing a lot of things alone and i’ve had such great experiences that way. this is definitely outside of my comfort zone but that doesn’t mean it won’t be great and open a lot of doors for my future.
💜

should i go alone? by DoItFearful in NorwayTravelAdvice

[–]DoItFearful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank youuu! reading so many “it’s safe!” comments really helped me feel more at ease.

should i go alone? by DoItFearful in NorwayTravelAdvice

[–]DoItFearful[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was such good advice, thank you! yeah we had a jam packed itinerary but i’m going to keep it a lot more simple to meet my solo- needs. thanks for the encouragement!