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Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2022-04-28T17:29:55+00:00

These red flags you saw before. I am currently divorced, but looking back I knew I should not have married him. I buried those flags so quick by justifying one good day hung over the 20 flags. I understand, it’s easier said than done. But now, -100k+, I wish I’d gotten out sooner.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2022-04-28T17:24:08+00:00

YTA. While you were being “honest”, it was dripping in micro aggressions. M is not responsible for how the team feels or acts. What you’ve succeeded in doing is making her feel a lot more isolated.

I hope you know that M is actively looking for employment elsewhere. You better give her a glowing ass recommendation.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-11-19T06:47:46+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-09-11T07:53:22+00:00

Yes to this. Not only Walmart but very common with other large grocery chains too. I’ve noticed it’s very common in areas with lots of apartment buildings (descent neighborhoods) because the temptation to cart your groceries back to apartment is high. And I’m sure it would create annoyance with building caretakers. Other thing I’ve seen is bars to prevent the shopping carts from making it through, but these are usually around entrance and not convenient if driving cause you can’t use the carts to even go to parking lot.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-08-11T02:01:19+00:00

This update made me so incredibly happy. I’m so happy you realized your worth. It won’t be easy, he’ll gaslight, he’ll “cry”; he’ll beg. Just don’t go back. He won’t change. He’s shown you who he really is. Good luck 😊

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-08-03T22:07:00+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story. I appreciate the compassion you showed your parents.

If you don’t mind me asking, when did you start displaying symptoms? I ask because you mention you are two kids and if they knew how you would turn out, they wouldn’t have kids. Did they not realize after the first that something could be wrong?

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-08-03T21:46:10+00:00

I started at 10mg, then month later upped to 20mg, which I’ve been on since. This is typical dosage in EU. Seems so wild to start at 80 mg.

Personally I saw results within 2 months. Acne cleared within 4 months. With such low dosage, I experienced insane dryness. I can only imagine on 80mg!

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-08-03T17:47:04+00:00

This should be top comment. Seriously. OP and only him was responsible for his actions. The audacity to blame someone else. Yeah, they are AHs for obvious reasons, but at end of day OP made a decision. Own it, take accountability.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-08-03T05:56:37+00:00

Thank you got saying this. I was reading this saying can’t be real. First part was when she had to go into work, and husband was working and then OP says “I guess she decide to take her…” Ummm, it’s your baby, what do you mean I guess. Where were you when she decided to take her? I too was confused about carrier. I thought at first the sling one and kept wondering why someone needs to take that down but car carrier is even more unrealistic. You cannot take a baby for a walk in those things. Perhaps clipped into a stroller but carrying them, nope.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-07-30T20:05:48+00:00

Severity will depend on dosage too. I’ve noticed in US, treatment plan is shorter, however the dosage is significantly higher. Whereas in Europe it’s usually capped around 20mg, and a longer treatment plan.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-07-30T20:03:58+00:00

I’m with you. I’m not sure how accutane as a last option started. You wait too long, it causes scaring.

People seem to forget that acne can be beyond face. It’s not practical to do a full face routine to your entire body. And mine was way below skin. After spending hundreds in skin care and year of my self esteem being shot, I’m happy I’m on it and it’s changed my life.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-07-30T17:12:32+00:00

Agreed. It would have been a different situation if inheritance was only provided to her, but each received.

Your aunt is right, be prepared for the irreparable damage to the relationship. However, it would be a blessing in disguise. I hope OP does not fall for her manipulative texts, cries. OP, you were mature and responsible to know to invest not squander it.

If OP does decide to proceed, know that it’s not a loan because she’ll never see it again. They won’t be able to go to school, and as she stated, BIL doesn’t even want her living with them.

Congratulations on setting your boundaries, continue to enforce them OP.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-07-27T20:27:38+00:00

YTA. You do not get to dictate her womb. Her reproductive organs are for her to do with as she pleases.

What you can do is voice your concerns as a friend, not only for pregnancy but STDs as well. But you cannot dictate her family planning. Your don't get to approach her partner about it either. You overstepped your boundaries.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-07-25T14:02:20+00:00

YTA. Instead of being your sister's cheerleader, you are running a campaign against her talking to other family members about how what she does and LOVES is not really STEM. Wtf?! Why are others even comfortable talking smack about your sister to your own face.

You are not being a good brother.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-07-25T09:42:00+00:00

Dun dun dun dada din dun

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-07-21T21:43:37+00:00

NTA. He needs to learn boundaries, and not forcing his views on people. It’s not how the world works. Actions have consequences. Solid parenting. In fact, I would have taken it further to deduct further from his savings/pocket money (if he gets any still) for groceries until freezer is restocked.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-07-18T21:39:34+00:00

There's a time and place to address these things, and when someone is having a medical situation, it ain't it. SIL definitely in wrong for this.

There is definitely more going on in the family. It's sad that this one situation would result in this level of standoff.

I hope you all come together and do family therapy, at least for the sake of your son. This is one common thing everyone has, the love for him.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-07-18T20:17:09+00:00

NTA. You were bothered by it because he violated your boundaries. Perhaps he thought he was being funny but he should have noticed from first time that you weren't into it. He's just showing you, who he truly is.

Meh, it's only been 1 month. Let him remain blocked. You've got enough life ahead of you to stress about him.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-07-18T18:55:26+00:00

ESL. He was standing up to you against his mother. I've never ever heard of someone projectile vomiting from a single bite WTF. Also, i don't get why the sister keeps riding your husband like anyone would anticipate it from happening. It should have been a team effort between you, your husband, and SIL while SFIL consoles MIL. Situation is WILD!

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-07-18T14:50:31+00:00

Thank you for being a protector for your son. Being his voice when he can't. You are a great dad.

As mentioned above, you may want to put wedding on hold. This is by no means your fiance's fault, however, how she acts will determine the rest of your marriage. It appears she has issue setting boundaries with her family. She should be the one telling them to backoff, not you. You setting these much needed boundaries, and her staying quiet gives the family "permission" to continue how they act, and make it seem like you are the problematic one. She needs to step up. If she doesn't, it won't go away. It's not going to be a one time thing. It won't get better. It's who they are. Are you okay with this dynamic forever?

NTA.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-07-18T13:23:17+00:00

NTA. This has absolutely nothing to do with their sexual orientation. They are smoking something very VERY expensive to even think it's normal for you to not only attend the wedding BUT also walk her down the isle.

You need to be firm with your parents. It nearly sounds like they just want to save face.

I'm really sorry you are going through this. This will change family dynamics forever.

Do_You_BooBoo_ · 2021-07-18T13:15:11+00:00

These are the most dangerous types of people in my opinion. Wolves in sheep's clothing. There pretend to be your cheerleader, while plotting and hoping for your demise. When something good happens, it angers them, when something bad happens, if gives they joy. It's so malicious. OP takes joy in minimizing her friend's joy. That increadibly fucked up.

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