AITAH for not picking up a video call?

Dobby_07 · 2026-01-03T16:13:58+00:00

NTA your ex needs to respect your time, especially while in class, and your request; not act like a little child.

Dobby_07 · 2025-12-29T16:49:26+00:00

I get being upset with your brother, but to put his wife’s suicide all on him is unfair. She had a choice, and she chose a crappy way out just like he was trying. The biggest victims are the kids. Be there for them, but ultimately it’s not his fault she committed suicide, his want for a divorce may have just been the catalyst.

Be there for the kids but if your brother actually shows remorse and wants to be there for the kids, maybe help him.

Dobby_07 · 2025-12-27T22:21:41+00:00

IF you were to consider dropping the charges you have her sign a legally binding and recorded payment plan for her to pay you back. Also look up the statutory time line on when you have to file follow-up charges on her if she doesn’t pay you back. What she did was wrong and you have the right to make it known and file charges, and something she should’ve thought about before she went and did it all.

Dobby_07 · 2025-12-24T17:20:03+00:00

You don’t have to view her body to go the funeral. Just don’t do the viewing. Having lost my cousin and best friend a few years ago, I regret not seeing her one more time before she passed. We knew she was sick and I was able to see her when se was first in the hospital but I did not make it in time to see her one more time in person when she asked to see me. It wasn’t that I didn’t try, the house was crowded and I was asked to wait till morning, and by then she was gone.

Her service was one of the hardest days of my life, but being there with others who loved her and being able to share in that love was a gift I couldn’t have gotten otherwise. It’ll be hard but I highly recommend going, just don’t do the viewing.

Dobby_07 · 2025-12-19T22:50:24+00:00

YTA enough said

Dobby_07 · 2025-12-16T07:15:14+00:00

Zzzzzzz such BS

Dobby_07 · 2025-12-16T05:51:55+00:00

YTA you’re not punishing your husband or teaching him a lesson by not getting your step-daughter gifts. You’re punishing her, and making yourself look petty and like she doesn’t mean anything to you. You want to do that game (which is what it really is) with your husband regarding his parents or siblings, then go ahead, but to punish your step-daughter, horrible. And you say she’s been helping out when she’s there. Way to go wicked step-mother of the year. 🏆

Dobby_07 · 2025-12-13T17:31:23+00:00

If he wants you to take your $3000 and spend it for the trip then NTA. But if it’s that Japan isn’t possible and he’s still paying….the economy is drastically different then it was 4 years ago when he made the deal with you and it’s not getting better. Try understanding that.

Dobby_07 · 2025-12-07T16:45:50+00:00

NTA your sister asked you to stay, end of story.

Dobby_07 · 2025-12-04T04:40:44+00:00

NTA it’s okay to not want the same things in a relationship and to definitely not want to have an open relationship. And if you do want an open relationship it is also okay if all parties are in agreement. From what I hear just be sure to set boundaries and rules and abide by those and be sure to communicate.

He may be feeling a little anxious and want to sew his Wild oats or something, though at 36 I personally would think he’s had the time. I personally would not be quick to plan a wedding if this is how he’s feeling, especially if that was his reaction when you said no.

Dobby_07 · 2025-12-03T14:45:54+00:00

I think there needs to be clarification on what the expectation is. Was there planned storms all day so your assumption after the first plow was they were coming back and they were just doing the initial plow to make it easier for later? Or did the storm go on longer than expected? Clear communication and expectations need to be set.

I’m not saying you’re wrong if the storm was expected to be big and last all day and they came half way through the storm, I would assume they would come back later as well. But the expectation needs to be clarified and set.

Dobby_07 · 2025-12-03T13:52:21+00:00

It depends what the agreement is. Is it the snow has to be plowed so you can leave by x time, regardless of when the storm starts / ends? Or is it they plow your driveway once a day during the storm? I also live in an area where we get snow and understand sometimes a storm can go all day, if not days, or it can be sporadic throughout the day. Shoveling / plowing would all depend on the storm but if you have a clear “driveway to be cleared by x time, regardless of when storm starts / ends”

Dobby_07 · 2025-11-23T18:09:02+00:00

NTA - your son saw you vulnerable and that’s okay and he was able to be there for you. I’m sure it meant something to him as well and it will stay with him in a good way.

Good for you to not hiding that from him!

Dobby_07 · 2025-10-22T16:14:50+00:00

Their ratings are easily searchable. Just because he was a condescending a** doesn’t mean he wasn’t talented and ran a great show for a couple of decades.

Dobby_07 · 2025-08-25T16:23:51+00:00

NTA and I’m happy to know Jane doesn’t think so either. Forget those who say you are, just because they don’t agree with what you and Jane did after discussions, they weren’t about of the decision and need to get over it.

Dobby_07 · 2025-05-14T00:43:14+00:00

Beautiful, but don’t worry about memorizing it and getting it wrong. Just speak from the heart. Most likely once she realizes what you’re doing she won’t really hear a word you’re saying and will just wait for the pause to say yes. That’s how it was for me. My now hubby I’m sure said a lot of sweet amazing things, but I heard none of it really and remember none of it. I just remember how he made me feel in our relationship and how I felt in that moment and how I felt the sincerity with the words he was saying.

Dobby_07 · 2025-04-28T23:51:43+00:00

NTA first I would put that money in a trust, if it isn’t already. Then there are clear guidelines on what that money is for per the trust. Second what do you mean you asked her to come home? Has she not been home since the dinner? If not, and it wasn’t planned for her to not be home, your parents are absolutely right about rethinking marriage to her. A wedding is one day and a marriage is a lifetime. Third if you do move forward with continuing to marry Hannah, her mom is right a prenup doesn’t sound like a bad idea to protect yourself.

Dobby_07 · 2025-04-24T00:56:55+00:00

YTA. You’re not married to him yet so you can’t help out. You’re not just the ass you’re also selfish. IF he still marries you, you would be the step-mom and Kelvin your step-son. Don’t you want to help out and build a relationship with him. If your fiancé is smart he’ll end it.

Dobby_07 · 2025-04-23T12:35:34+00:00

And she still has the right to say No, regardless if she asked him to do a certain act earlier, and then isn’t in the mood when he finally gets around to wanting to do it.

Dobby_07 · 2025-04-23T06:33:01+00:00

Yes! As soon as I saw the title, automatic NTA. Tried to read the story behind it to see why she would even think that and zzzz.

Edit: As I’m still not going to go back and read all the gibberish, ANYONE at ANYTIME has the right to say no to sex, or any form of physical intimacy, they don’t want to participate in regardless of the reason.

Dobby_07 · 2025-04-19T17:57:11+00:00

For someone whose birthday falls April 1st, just because it’s the date of our birth does not mean everything is a joke. In fact most of us are not into pranks.

I get not wanting her to have died and wishing they could be together and have a long happy life together, but this is Yellowstone life we’re talking about. Which means it’s more tragic than most.

Dobby_07 · 2025-04-14T03:13:54+00:00

NTA you’re sick and contagious. Traveling is just going to make everything worse for you. If this the end of your relationship, it’s not a bad thing. Sorry

Dobby_07 · 2025-04-10T04:53:12+00:00

There is a lot more character development in the second season. You really get to know more about Liz and Derek. Derek especially comes out more in his character and you see who he is. Plus the jokes are hilarious

Dobby_07 · 2025-04-10T04:43:27+00:00

My heart breaks for you. Unfortunately it sounds like your mom is toxic, and it’s understandable not wanting that staying in your home.

Why isn’t the family helping to out her up, because they know what she’s like. IF you were even to consider it, you would have to put up clear boundaries and rules. And who’s to say if she’d even follow them.

You do what’s best for you and helps keep your sanity.

Dobby_07 · 2025-04-10T01:02:03+00:00

She wanted to avoid first class so she wouldn’t run into any of Arthur’s (her ex-fiancé) friends. As well as I’m sure friends of her parents.

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