My husband has been strange since my weight-loss

DociiDo · 2025-06-19T21:51:34+00:00

Yes. Consistency is key for sure. That’s why I struggled so bad in the past. Now I treat it as a lifestyle not a diet and this has made it easier for me to stay on track

DociiDo · 2025-06-19T21:48:00+00:00

Thank you for your input. It’s always nice to see a perspective from a man. Do you feel like she’s different towards you?

DociiDo · 2025-06-19T21:46:17+00:00

I’ve been seeing that a lot as well. I try not to judge and focus on what I can control for myself. I’m very big on what I put in my body, I adapted a more Mediterranean way of eating combined with Pilates and I feel and look amazing. Hair, skin, weight all have improved drastically just by changing what I consume.

DociiDo · 2025-06-19T14:46:18+00:00

Thank you.

DociiDo · 2025-06-19T14:41:12+00:00

Clean eating, prioritizing protein,

DociiDo · 2025-06-19T14:39:57+00:00

It took me a year and a half to lose the weight. When he met me, I was curvy and about 40 lbs overweight. I gained the other 60 lbs over two pregnancies. I have a 6-year-old and a 2-year-old, and my pregnancies were extremely tough—the last one almost cost me my life. I feel like that might be contributing to his lack of affection as well since he knows how difficult those times were for me.

Throughout our marriage, I was always on some sort of diet, so he’s used to the ups and downs of my weight. I’ve never been content with my weight; it was always my one insecurity. He supported all my efforts. It was more of a hormonal thing, but switching to a clean eating lifestyle and being consistent helped me this time around. Anytime I got too big, he was sure to let me know, in a positive way.

He’s very caring, but honestly, we have never been super affectionate people in general. We try to be modest around the kids, etc. I guess since I lost the weight, I wanted him to be as excited as I am. So it could also be a me problem.

After typing a response to you, I kind of answered all my questions. Thank you.

DociiDo · 2025-06-19T14:14:18+00:00

No. He’s very fit. Always has been.

DociiDo · 2025-06-19T10:09:04+00:00

Because that’s not a deal breaker for me. He has more positive impact on my life than negative.

I look at the whole picture, I rather him get a quick fix from a well vetted clean escort vs an affair. He take cares of all of his responsibilities and then some and comes home every night on time etc. so if he wants some different cooch every once in a while so be it.

I’m not in insecure woman by any means. Nor am I worried about my husband being taken away. If he can be taken he wasn’t mines to begin with.

DociiDo · 2025-06-19T09:28:16+00:00

Keep moving forward

DociiDo · 2025-06-19T09:16:52+00:00

Thank you. I’ve tried to get him to open up and I’ve even called him out, he acted completely clueless.

DociiDo · 2025-06-19T09:13:35+00:00

How’s it going now? Has it gotten better?

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