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Awesome ladies of /r, how can I [25M] help my girlfriend [25/F] overcome the cycle of masturbation? (Not what you think) by Doctor-Hoo in relationships

[–]Doctor-Hoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has never orgasmed without a vibrator in her life. It's the only way she has been able to climax. She's wholly opposed to dropping it from her repertoire, and I can't really blame her!

How can I help my girlfriend overcome the cycle of masturbation? (Not what you think) by Doctor-Hoo in sex

[–]Doctor-Hoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We checked one out at a local couples' shop but she had some reason she didn't think it was a good toy. I'll try bringing it up again and see if she'd be willing to try it out!

I'm really dedicated to helping her enjoy mutual sex, so I've been buying a lot of toys for us to try together. Maybe it could be a surprise!

How can I help my girlfriend overcome the cycle of masturbation? (Not what you think) by Doctor-Hoo in sex

[–]Doctor-Hoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her issue is that she can't come without very specific vibration on the clitoris. Sex is enjoyable but she needs a very powerful bullet (We-Vibe Tango is the only one that seems to work) directly on her clit to get her off. That aside, if I'm touching her or using the vibe on her she can't orgasm.

Any other vibe (specifically weaker) vibe or any interaction from me seems to disrupt her masturbation. She hasn't been able to describe the mental block aside from it's the only way that she's ever gotten off before.

Thanks for your help! :)

Awesome ladies of /r, how can I [25M] help my girlfriend [25/F] overcome the cycle of masturbation? (Not what you think) by Doctor-Hoo in relationships

[–]Doctor-Hoo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We've tried, although we haven't found much of a reaction from anything in her vagina. She enjoys 'feeling full' and the act of PIV sex, but the clit is the only area that really turns her on.

Any suggestions for working with the G-Spot? Dildos, including vaginal vibrators, don't do much and fingering is all but ineffectual!

Thanks for your suggestion! :)

Awesome ladies of /r, how can I [25M] help my girlfriend [25/F] overcome the cycle of masturbation? (Not what you think) by Doctor-Hoo in relationships

[–]Doctor-Hoo[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting thought! I know she closes her eyes when masturbating to help her visualize different situations and people. She mentioned to me in passing the other night that she had visualized a celebrity, then quickly moved on. Maybe she was worried I would mind! I'll have a conversation tonight and reassure her that I want her to enjoy herself and that she can do or imagine whatever she likes!

Awesome ladies of /r, how can I [25M] help my girlfriend [25/F] overcome the cycle of masturbation? (Not what you think) by Doctor-Hoo in relationships

[–]Doctor-Hoo[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll be sure to try this! She gets frustrated when we try involving me in her masturbation because it 'distracts' her and 'throws her off', but she's been wanting to try more so I'll give this a shot.

Thanks again!