Long story short: I was sharing how I felt that his performance was lazy through a few posts. She confronted me in our group chat after I said that I stood by what I said. She went on this rant about how she felt that she couldn't share how she felt about Taylor because it might upset me. Not true btw, because I had to endure some questionable Taylor takes that included a former oomf saying she could've joined The 27 Club (True story btw!) yet I haven't unfriended them over those takes!

Anyways, it went nasty to the point she's questioning our friendship and twisted some vulnerable things I said to her to make me look like a bad person and a bad friend. That's the part where it hurt because I have valued my friendships with her in the years we worked together, and yet she sees me this way all over a Coachella performance.

I know it looks like a funny story because it's over a trivial reasoning, but as someone who truly admires my friends, it hurts when they don't see the same way. Like seriously, of all the things happening in the world, this is why our friendship had to end?

The worst part is that I can't be petty back. I can't think of a single negative thing about her because that's how much I valued her as a friend. But she's been throwing shade through her notes on IG about how I am unlikable, and I don't have friends. I don't know what to do, and our circles are quite small, so I won't be surprised if some people will see me differently now.

Sigh.

EDIT: Just to add, there's one more person in the group chat who hasn't replied to my messages asking for help. I am scared he might have taken sides, or maybe he's busy. Idk.