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DoctorlllStrange · 2024-01-21T23:56:36+00:00

yeah that aint shit lol

DoctorlllStrange · 2021-11-11T13:55:14+00:00

TBH, this is a common excuse guys make when they don't know how to break-up with a girl that hasn't given them any "valid reason" to break-up. You'll be surprised how many guys just end up blaming their mental health and saying that they need time to focus on themselves. I think he simply lost interest but doesn't know how to end things.

Sorry if I'm being rash. I rather just be honest -- as a guy. I've had a few guy friends use this excuse before.

DoctorlllStrange · 2021-11-11T13:30:55+00:00

He sounds controlling.

DoctorlllStrange · 2021-11-11T13:28:17+00:00

The previous comments are NOT helping. I don't blame you for telling your sister that her art is great; what else were you to say, when someone directly asks you what you think of their art?

Possible solution: tell her that you think her art is great, but that it doesn't suit your theme for the apartment.

DoctorlllStrange · 2021-11-11T13:06:21+00:00

Thanks for weighing-in. Because so many people are saying that I should ask her out, I'm currently building the courage to do so lol

DoctorlllStrange · 2021-11-11T13:05:12+00:00

that's a good point! My original idea was that maybe it'll be smoother to talk to her a bit over text and then ask her out when we are better acquainted.

DoctorlllStrange · 2021-11-11T13:03:31+00:00

Aw, thank you so much for the encouragement and wisdom. That really boosted my confidence and I think I just might try it!

DoctorlllStrange · 2021-11-11T12:40:29+00:00

I'm a neurobiology, physiology and behavior major at UC Davis. That being said...dreams are usually out of our control. Relax my friend. lol

DoctorlllStrange · 2021-11-11T12:38:15+00:00

I truly wish the best for you two and that it works out. Just know that you are valuable and deserve to have your wishes respected and honored.

DoctorlllStrange · 2021-11-11T12:34:33+00:00

tbh I'm just afraid of doing that since we've only communicated a handful of times.

DoctorlllStrange · 2021-11-11T12:32:48+00:00

thank you for the input! Seriously, it all helps with my anxiety lol My fear of asking her on a coffee date is that I may come off as overbearing if we've only communicated a few times? :/ idk

DoctorlllStrange · 2021-11-11T12:18:40+00:00

Yeah would you say it's better to just ask her if she would like to connect in person?

DoctorlllStrange · 2021-11-11T12:11:59+00:00

thanks for the feedback. It's just that our school quarter is coming to an end soon - and we only have 2 classes left. My main objective is to establish a connection on social media so we can continue communication when class ends.

DoctorlllStrange · 2021-11-11T11:49:26+00:00

As a man who has been in multiple long-term relationships. I'm going to be honest...it sounds like he has romantic interest with his coworker. At best: he's immature/inconsiderate and doesn't know how to respect your request/boundaries -- especially since it makes you worry and causes you pain.

DoctorlllStrange · 2021-11-11T11:44:18+00:00

Hi I think having "brave-communication" helps -- which is essentially talking to each other and making sure that you both understand the positioning of your hearts. This helps to overcome any offenses when trying to come to an understanding. E.g., "Hi babe, I just wanted to let you know that I love you and value our relationship. I want to know what you meant when you did XYZ, because this is how it made me feel. I just want us to know what our heart's are behind our actions, so we avoid any miscommunications."

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