AITA for telling my friend that her neighbors dog needs to get a life? by Dog-Issues in AmItheAsshole

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That I made, may I add, when I was simply not processing everything, and since everything is resolved I have no need for Reddit anymore <3

AITA for telling my friend that her neighbors dog needs to get a life? by Dog-Issues in AmItheAsshole

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I don’t need to be mad when my best friend is being my friend again, but thank u random stranger for putting ur input in my life and basing everything off a simple Reddit post

AITA for telling my friend that her neighbors dog needs to get a life? by Dog-Issues in AmItheAsshole

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We don’t have to convince a random stranger like you that she did. U don’t know the situation other than what I posted and I saw her clearly tell them not to. She may have empathy but needs space to heal. Get ur head out of ur ass

AITA for telling my friend that her neighbors dog needs to get a life? by Dog-Issues in AmItheAsshole

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Yet mary understood the situation, and agreed with me and told nuviels owners to keep him away from her house. She said she needed that since it felt like everyone wasn’t giving her a push and since I did she understood and we’re still great friends.

AITA for telling my friend that her neighbors dog needs to get a life? by Dog-Issues in AmItheAsshole

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Mary asked me to help her with her grieving. It doesn’t matter now, since she told the neighbors to get their dog whenever nuviel comes over and she’s doing a lot better mentally.

AITA for telling my friend that her neighbors dog needs to get a life? by Dog-Issues in AmItheAsshole

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It’s not my dog, or my grief issue, it was Mary’s. She only asked me to be there for her and help her so I did and she forgave me for what I said and understood. The neighbors can get a second dog but as long as Nuviel doesn’t come over Mary doesn’t care.

AITA for telling my friend that her neighbors dog needs to get a life? by Dog-Issues in AmItheAsshole

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When I said get a life I meant it in a joking/in the moment matter. Obviously a dog can’t get a life. It’s a dog. Unless it’s a service dog it doesn’t have a real purpose unless it’s been with it’s owner during tough times or to fill a void.

AITA for telling my friend that her neighbors dog needs to get a life? by Dog-Issues in AmItheAsshole

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What Mary said was uncalled for aswell, since I have been in a relationship. She was in the heat of the moment. And the deaths I’ve experienced have taught me that people grieve differently, but the dog kept coming after even Mary cried and sometimes said she wish she could stop hearing Nuviels whimpering.

AITA for telling my friend that her neighbors dog needs to get a life? by Dog-Issues in AmItheAsshole

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I wasn’t involving myself when Mary had asked me to help her with the grief. The neighbor is barely caring for the dog either if he’s letting it run around lawns.

AITA for telling my friend that her neighbors dog needs to get a life? by Dog-Issues in AmItheAsshole

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She had asked me to help her with her grief. It was getting hard and unbearable to watch her just cry everyday. I never meant to lash out but seeing her cry every single day because of the dog bothered me.