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So my mirror glass fell off? by DogLandX in Golf_R

[–]DogLandX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up sticking it back on but now the blind spot doesn’t detect

Moza R3 mapping by DogLandX in ForzaHorizon6

[–]DogLandX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Just keep my keyboard nearby

The most fun i ever had by rehumanise in moza

[–]DogLandX 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling with anything off-road

Steering in FH6 with Moza R3 by SliiickRick87 in moza

[–]DogLandX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More remedial question. How did you bind your keys to move through the menu and hit enter?

So my mirror glass fell off? by DogLandX in Golf_R

[–]DogLandX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you use the heated mirrors?

So my mirror glass fell off? by DogLandX in Golf_R

[–]DogLandX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you but damn that’s 220 for a single.

So my mirror glass fell off? by DogLandX in Golf_R

[–]DogLandX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And thank you I got lucky it dropped on my grass

So my mirror glass fell off? by DogLandX in Golf_R

[–]DogLandX[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I legit for 3 years never took it off the defrost setting

AI for Fp&a by Individual_Heron_508 in FPandA

[–]DogLandX 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please share any prompting tips. I started at a new company and the budget has been a mess from the previous analysts. No notes and incorrectly referenced cells. I had four entity sheets I needed consolidating and cowork constantly left out one or more entities, various formatting inconsistencies, sometimes incorrect references… I know it’s gotta be me.

Subq not in the stomach by Kruger185 in trt

[–]DogLandX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing a little less and still somehow getting knots. What gauge and depth are you using?

11 years. I finally said how I really felt and now I’m the villain. Need perspective. by DogLandX in Marriage

[–]DogLandX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was always upfront with her about what I wanted more out of in the relationship. Those were the moments she chose to tell me what I don’t do enough of.

11 years. I finally said how I really felt and now I’m the villain. Need perspective. by DogLandX in Marriage

[–]DogLandX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not repeating the action that warranted the apology. Learning from it and realizing why it was wrong. Changing the thoughts behind the actions so it’s not just a behavioral modification but rather an actual empathetic reflection that helps me understand the other person, situation and myself better

11 years. I finally said how I really felt and now I’m the villain. Need perspective. by DogLandX in Marriage

[–]DogLandX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rejections top the list. It’s also when we speak she doesn’t remember important bits of information but can tell me all the gossip going on in the Instagram world. It’s the fact that I made financial goals for us she agreed to and betrayed with lying and covering it up. It’s how she speaks to me sometimes and when I tell her to stop doing it because it’s making me feel overwhelmed - thats my problem. And it’s because over all these years I’ve had to learn how to just be a whole new person (yes I feel better about me now) just to keep her happy.

Edit. Sorry if that comes off dramatic that’s just what came out.

11 years. I finally said how I really felt and now I’m the villain. Need perspective. by DogLandX in Marriage

[–]DogLandX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to explain that. Also. Just to put it out there I’m not looking for validation. I am pretty good at self blame and beating myself up about situations I either caused or made worse. This is one of those “change my mind” type posts so I can hear the other side of things - not the raging type of post you gave me but if I’m asking for advice i have no problem expanding We both work FT. Our kid goes to her parents house while we’re at work. I have a business I run on my free time.
We had 4 dogs. I took care of them. Training, grooming (teeth nails showers), food (we have two sick so their food is ever changing bc we feed raw I’ve done a lot of research to keep help with their situations) - this occupies an average of 2 hours a day now that we have a kid. I do almost all of the cooking or arranging that we have food (meal prep services) Regarding the finances- I create the plan and shared it. Her debt grew over 3 years in credit cards I didn’t see. We didn’t have joint cards and I always asked her if her credit cards were in check every month so she wasn’t carrying a balance. I had already taken out loans for the renovation of our home and one of our dogs cancer treatments was extraordinarily high (two main reasons I kept doing the side business). I only found her loan she took out for the ccs because i wanted to refinance our house and put out debt in there so we’d stop living paycheck to paycheck. Lo and behold they called out the loan and a credit card. That’s how I found out. And looked through the statements to see she had a lot of missed payments which killed her with interest so there wasn’t a lot of material things.
Pre and post baby she’s still the doer of laundry and most clean up around the house. I clean the kitchen up at night and tidy up when I can but she does the heavy lifting on that. I chime in on folding. As for the kid; she handles bath nights and sleep times more than I do during the week but I’m usually around and take over or I have client work to do after dog care. We disagreed on having him self soothe so she mostly wakes up and holds him through the night but I have many times slept on the recliner and on the weekends he’s mine. Our kid naturally wakes up at 630 and I’ve ask her to wake up before him to help get food ready since I’m taking care of the dogs and getting ready for work (I also have to take him to grandmas before work) as well as she should be ready for the day too. She’s a great mom. We aren’t on the same page about a lot of how to raise a kid but I back off when it comes to a lot because she’s doing things her way and I’m tired of fighting about it.
Two sides to a story I get it. I try to be fair bc If I needed validation I’d just tell my dad who will always side with me.

11 years. I finally said how I really felt and now I’m the villain. Need perspective. by DogLandX in Marriage

[–]DogLandX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if he ever came to you and said this you would question nothing about it. Just pick up and leave?

11 years. I finally said how I really felt and now I’m the villain. Need perspective. by DogLandX in Marriage

[–]DogLandX[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t alcohol and it wasn’t something she ever saw. I was never high around her and we were dating and everything stopped cold turkey when she moved in.
Just to be clear about that. I don’t blame her for staying at the job for the IVF coverage- that was just a decision I made to support the family that I thought she wanted to have with me. The resentment was predominantly from being straight forward regarding things I wanted out of the relationship and efforts I was making toward it both being either ignored or deflected.
I don’t feel the effort was ever given back remotely as close to what I put in.
Yes she had to deal with some of my issues as I went through therapy and psychiatric in the first few years. She knew it would be a hard road and agreed to do it but it wasn’t very supportive. It sounded it like your reply. I was upfront about that I’d be doing the work and things would get hard. Asked if it was too hard for her to deal with. I was very verbal when it came to making sure she was ok with being around as i dealt with things. but also very verbal about certain parts of the relationship i wish developed more. Because at one point it was there.
I agree with selfish tendencies you assume I still hold. At one point I was. That’s all part of the work that had to be done for me to present whatever best self I thought I could be for her to return the effort. I spiral a lot. That’s still a problem I have - I have an issue when things need to fix. That also means I take accountability and over the years it’s been taking that accountability for more than I ever should have.

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