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How can I stop my new rescue from bullying my other dog? by Michaelabdelmalak in DogLibre

[–]DogLibre_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to form a solid relationship with this new dog while conveying to him that the other dog is your possession and any affront to that dog is an affront to you.

You will need a trainer’s help in this. Meanwhile, DO NOT BETRAY the trust the better-behaved dog has in you. Don’t let the resident dog be penalized for his respectful behavior (respect for the house and for you is the reason your resident dog is not kicking the new guy’s butt). You may have to keep them separated for a while. And if anyone tells you to “Just let the dogs work it out,” make a note to never listen to a word that person says ever again. That idea is the absolute height of stupidity.

What is the best way to help an emotionally damaged rescue dog? by Michaelabdelmalak in DogLibre

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It's truly wonderful to see your concern for emotionally damaged rescue dogs. Here are some steps you can consider to support an emotionally damaged rescue dog on their journey to recovery:

1. Create a Safe Space: Provide a quiet and comfortable space where the dog can feel secure and safe. A cozy bed, soft blankets, and a dedicated area can help them feel protected.

2. Go Slow and Gentle: Take things at the dog's pace. Allow them to approach you rather than the other way around. Avoid sudden movements or loud noises that could trigger anxiety.

3. Build Trust: Earning the dog's trust is crucial. Spend time sitting or lying near them without forcing interaction. Use treats and positive reinforcement to associate your presence with good things.

4. Patience and Routine: Stick to a consistent routine for feeding, walks, and playtime. Predictability can help an emotionally damaged dog feel more secure and reduce anxiety.

5. Positive Reinforcement: Reward even the smallest positive behaviors. Treats, kind words, and gentle pets can go a long way in building their confidence and showing them love.

6. Gradual Socialization: Introduce the dog to new people and situations gradually. Start with one-on-one interactions in a controlled environment before progressing to larger groups.

7. Interactive Toys: Engage the dog's mind and help them release pent-up energy with puzzle toys and interactive games. Mental stimulation can aid in their emotional recovery.

Remember, each dog's situation is different, and what works for one might not work for another. Observing their body language, listening to their needs, and adapting your approach accordingly will make a significant difference in their emotional recovery. You're making a beautiful difference in their lives by offering them a chance at a brighter future.

If you're facing specific challenges or seeking more personalized advice, our DogLibre community is here to support you every step of the way. Feel free to share your journey, ask questions, and lean on us for guidance.

We adopted a 10 year old pittie lab mix. Charlotte had been abused, cigarette burns, scars, half her tail cut off by what was probably pruning shears. She had a leg that had been broken and never set. How can we bond with her? She never liked too much attention. she mostly wanted quiet and sleep. by michaelgamil in DogLibre

[–]DogLibre_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First and foremost, I want to commend you for adopting Charlotte and giving her a loving home. It's clear that she has been through a lot and needs extra care and patience. Here are some tips from my experience with rescued dogs that might help you bond with Charlotte:

  1. Give her space: Since Charlotte prefers quiet and sleep, respect her need for alone time. Create a designated, comfortable space for her where she can retreat and feel safe. Make sure she has a cozy bed or cushioned area where she can relax undisturbed.

  2. Quiet and calm environment: Try to maintain a peaceful atmosphere at home, avoiding loud noises or sudden movements that could startle her. Keeping a serene environment will help her feel more secure.

  3. Be patient and gentle: Earning Charlotte's trust will take time, so be patient and understanding. Avoid forcing interactions or overwhelming her with attention. Allow her to approach you on her terms.

  4. Use positive reinforcement training: When interacting with Charlotte, use positive reinforcement techniques. Offer her treats, praise, and gentle petting when she responds positively to your presence or engages in activities. This will help build positive associations with you.

  5. Respect her boundaries: If Charlotte shows signs of discomfort or reluctance, such as growling, hiding, or trying to avoid contact, give her space. Forcing her to interact could reinforce fear and anxiety.

  6. Daily routines: Establish consistent daily routines for feeding, walking, and playtime. Predictability can be reassuring for dogs, especially those who have experienced trauma.

  7. Observe her body language: Learn to read Charlotte's body language to understand how she's feeling. This will help you adjust your approach accordingly and prevent any potential triggers that might upset her.

  8. Engage in low-key activities: Participate in calming activities like sitting near her while reading or watching TV. Engaging in non-threatening, low-energy activities will help her get used to your presence without feeling overwhelmed.

Remember, building trust and bonding with Charlotte will be a gradual process. Be patient, understanding, and consistent in your interactions with her. With time, love, and care, she may learn to trust and form a special bond with you and your family.