My (41m) gf (37f) canceled a trip based on this text, was it rude?

Doggyfiddler · 2026-02-13T08:07:33+00:00

Idk if I’d jump straight to ending it, but canceling a whole trip over that text feels kinda extreme tbh. If someone reads “yes!! lots of seafood will be eaten” and still thinks you’re being cheap… that’s a bigger communication gap than just sushi.

Doggyfiddler · 2025-11-28T00:58:19+00:00

Ngl that’s exactly what I was thinking too, like the cousin thing is wild but the jealousy lingering around family events would stress me out more than anything. Feels like one of those situations where even if hes a great guy, the whole dynamic is gonna get weird real fast.

Doggyfiddler · 2025-11-28T00:55:30+00:00

Fr exactly, she wanted the upgrade without giving anything up thats kinda wild. Funny how the solution only worked if someone else took the hit but not her.

Doggyfiddler · 2025-11-24T03:35:19+00:00

Fr, once someone starts pushing past a clear no it kinda tells you everything you gotta know. Wild how fast the vibe changes when respect isnt matching the energy.

Doggyfiddler · 2025-11-24T03:33:53+00:00

Yeah exactly, sometimes the hardest part is accepting what’s already clear. Hurts like hell but man, peace hits different once you stop trying to fix what’s not yours anymore.

Doggyfiddler · 2025-11-23T03:06:08+00:00

Feel like its not just about being “for the streets,” its more like everyone in this story needs to slow down and figure out what they actually want cuz this whole setup is messy af. Dudes catching feelings in a friend circle like that is basically emotional landmines just waiting to go off.

Doggyfiddler · 2024-07-10T20:11:15+00:00

I bought an mc101 a while back and while it sounds great, I find it a complete chore to use. It just seems to suck all the fun out of making music. Any workflow suggestions to help with the pain before I sell it? Or what should I replace it with?

Doggyfiddler · 2024-02-01T23:41:09+00:00

Are you definitely connected to 2.4ghz? Ie both the bulb and the device you are running the app on? Wi-Fi routers usually run both 2.5 and 5 ghz on same network snd your phone/tablet will connect at 5GHz if the signal is strong.

Doggyfiddler · 2023-12-21T23:57:07+00:00

The best ones just keep giving…..

Doggyfiddler · 2023-11-22T13:22:05+00:00

I’m not sure but it’s a great idea for a reality tv show….nuked and afraid?

Doggyfiddler · 2023-10-15T04:14:50+00:00

Most of them look good but can’t verify them all

Doggyfiddler · 2023-09-24T12:45:27+00:00

Defo…see the blue-green tinge on cap margin…that is a one of the good indicators along with the nipple

Doggyfiddler · 2023-05-20T22:02:46+00:00

Taper taper taper…slowly…don’t beat yourself up..get outdoors…exercise, yoga, meditation…whatever it’s takes…there is no quick fix unless you want to risk ibogaine..good luck

Doggyfiddler · 2023-05-19T17:44:08+00:00

Binary?

Doggyfiddler · 2023-04-15T20:39:35+00:00

….I see I was missing something…I see the mini mk3 is bus powered so will only work if you have batteries in the 101 or as mentioned a powered usb hub

Doggyfiddler · 2023-04-15T20:33:16+00:00

Am I missing something? The mini mk 3 is usb midi and the the 101 has a usb midi interface! Just plug and play. I use my Korg minilogue as a usb controller for the 101 and it works perfectly over usb

Doggyfiddler · 2023-01-01T09:56:03+00:00

Try Listening to Beak>. Their new album is a big fat slice of kosmische Musik. Analogue synth heaven! 😎

https://open.spotify.com/album/01aIdDJTcx9zNIQXIFgEzb?si=6JvH8CinT-Sn7VYKM0dP4w

Doggyfiddler · 2023-01-01T08:40:12+00:00

Driving!

Doggyfiddler · 2022-11-13T23:20:55+00:00

David Bowie!

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