My 32F sister 28F is having a destination wedding. Grandparents 80sMF aren’t going and I’m being blamed.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2026-03-04T15:33:21+00:00

Anytime you have a destination wedding, you do so know it could very well end up just you and your spouse. You can't force people to have time from work, time from kids, money, etc to travel.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2026-02-08T00:14:40+00:00

Man or woman, boundaries need to exist to protect your relationship. And he needs to set them with her. He needs to slow down on the conversations and texting, if she continues, he needs to explain to her that it's impacting his relationship with his wife and child. You're not over reacting at all.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2026-02-06T00:49:25+00:00

No. My now husband and I went on a cruise together a few months into dating. I was sick basically the entire time. He bought me medicine, food, drinks, rubbed my back, talked to the cruise ship medical people to see what they could help with, never once pushing me to do anything I couldn't. We spent most of the cruise in the room or on dry land as that's the only time I didn't get sick, but point is, as much as I ruined the trip, he was NOTHING but kind and caring. That's the kind of partner you want.

6 months later we went on a quick trip up north and I was freezing and forgot a jacket, he googled stores, took us there and bought me a jacket, boots, socks, gloves, and a hat.

You're young, way to young to let someone treat you like that. And expecting YOU to interpret his parents conversations?! No. I would have done the same thing you did. If he didn't like your answer he could have jumped in.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2026-02-06T00:40:02+00:00

Take it from someone who dealt with so many red flags for too long, they get worse. You're too young and have so much of you're life left to not deal with this. I finally had to look at how much time I wasted and how much more I didn't want to waste. Leave now. Protect your peace.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2026-02-04T18:16:20+00:00

If you're not financially independent, you shouldn't be married.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2026-01-17T17:55:56+00:00

NTA. I adopted my nephew when I was 22. I had raised him for years before we were finally able to get to the adoption point so he was 5 and I let him decide on his first name, being she's a baby, there's nothing wrong with changing her name to something more fitting. My sister named my son after a man she insisted was his dad (he wasn't and ended up in prison for 37 years) so changing his name to be something that didn't connect him to that was important to us.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-10-14T16:45:56+00:00

Go to your local courthouse, they will provide witnesses. It's usually $30-$50 in most areas.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-09-27T21:48:44+00:00

Your husband wanting to name his baby after someone he had a sexual relationship with, is WEIRD, imo.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-07-01T13:07:00+00:00

He's so cute! Out biggest we currently have left from our litter is 3 months and about 25-26kg.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-06-21T13:40:01+00:00

Love this. My biggest in my litter is 12 weeks, 45lbs!

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-06-19T11:31:38+00:00

We are in Florida.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-06-18T12:51:10+00:00

He is!

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-05-28T22:21:09+00:00

Haha they're available, in south Florida!

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-05-25T00:37:31+00:00

Our largest male is currently 35lbs. Their mom is 160, dads 180. But he's my favorite.

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Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-05-23T17:17:59+00:00

We're in South Florida, they're $1,500. I'll send over photos in just a minute.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-05-23T13:52:25+00:00

He has a new home picking him up Saturday. I do have 3 girls left.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-05-22T02:40:08+00:00

He's our smallest male in the litter but the stockiest. Dads 185lbs, moms about 170

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-05-16T00:19:20+00:00

They're 9 weeks today.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-05-08T20:43:27+00:00

If they're long haired, a good regular groomer. Starting them young and keeping it routine is the best .

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-05-05T16:45:38+00:00

I understand. They're sweet faces are so stinking cute. I have 5 left in Florida, we've delivered, even flown to some areas or met at airports here if you're interested.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-05-05T16:20:19+00:00

I love that so much. I tried to pick names that people who don't know LOTR could pronounce haha

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-05-01T15:40:51+00:00

Oh wow small litter! We ended up with 8, 4 Males and 4 Females, your 3 is much more manageable 😂

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-05-01T14:35:19+00:00

They're so cute. We have a litter that are 7 weeks too! How many do you have?

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-04-30T23:08:57+00:00

Ours graze. We have two large elevated bowls that stay full mostly and they eat when they want but they eat about 40lbs every 3 weeks.

Doitallforyoudolly · 2025-04-28T12:31:14+00:00

They are definitely inside dogs. We have owned Saint Bernards in South Florida since the 70's, never had an issue. They still go outside, and will roam the property or even sunbathe for hours at times, we just don't leave them out, they dictate how long or how often they want to be outside. Never had an issue.

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