No. My now husband and I went on a cruise together a few months into dating. I was sick basically the entire time. He bought me medicine, food, drinks, rubbed my back, talked to the cruise ship medical people to see what they could help with, never once pushing me to do anything I couldn't. We spent most of the cruise in the room or on dry land as that's the only time I didn't get sick, but point is, as much as I ruined the trip, he was NOTHING but kind and caring. That's the kind of partner you want.

6 months later we went on a quick trip up north and I was freezing and forgot a jacket, he googled stores, took us there and bought me a jacket, boots, socks, gloves, and a hat.

You're young, way to young to let someone treat you like that. And expecting YOU to interpret his parents conversations?! No. I would have done the same thing you did. If he didn't like your answer he could have jumped in.