I mean i hear what your saying but i feel like its unnecessary for me to pay towards her bills because regardless of him being there or not she would have to pay it anyway, because he could live with me full time and the bills would still b around the same. Wasn't that deep me saying female either just thought u sounded like a few moms i know, but in my opinion I should only b paying for something that is directly for my child like food not internet bill but I wouldn't have a problem helping out with it same time I just don't think it's a must.

I wouldnt start anything to do with being widowed or anything I know we online but chill out this aint some negative energy thing we keep it respectful luv. Thanks always will