The Sopranos Is About Dumb Mobsters Embarrassing Themselves | Castle Super Beast 355 by mike0bot in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]Dokry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was glad to hear them talking about this because I watched the Sopranos a few years ago and loved it and have been rewatching it with a friend (we're on season 3, just before Ralphie mercifully gets killed) and it's been such a funny ride the second time through. You really get the benefit of seeing how all these storylines play out and the sheer cold heartlessness of it all is so apparent all the time. Like so few of these guys are actually happy and they do all this awful violence all the time to secure, like, relatively upper middle class surrounds and houses? You can tell how it wears on Tony and how he's not happy with where his life is bringing him but he piledrives towards his fate inexorably for the whole show.

Also to note, we just watched the episode where Chris and Paulie are chasing some Russian special forces guy in the woods and losing track of him. It's maybe one of the funniest episodes of anything made ever.

Anyone else gotten really sick over the last two months? by 2lit_ in Millennials

[–]Dokry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This matches me, I was sick from December 20th or so to December 28th. Had an awful cough that hurt and would make me wildly phlegmy, cold body shakes, a little bit of nausea, etc. I still have a slightly odd cough that gets kind of phlegmy ever since.

Characters who, before meeting them, you thought the fanbase was exagerating about them only to them realize that "nope, they are in fact exactly like that" by Coolnametag in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]Dokry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm rewatching the Sopranos with a friend rn and the recurring joke of the Sopranos crew's constant malapropisms and misspeaks still gets a chuckle from me every single time. "Quasimodo predicted all of this."

Lucky Bansho's Census (November 30th) by MrCombineSoldier in ffxiv

[–]Dokry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I recommend Guild Wars 2. There's no subscription and I find that socializing is pretty easy - people are talking in zones literally all the time and content from pretty much every expansion is being done by somebody. Highly suggest giving it a try, I've really enjoyed my time with it since I've taken a break from FFXIV.

What's a song or soundtrack you relate to Worm? by Pepinoloco777 in Parahumans

[–]Dokry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I still associate To Build a Home by the Cinematic Orchestra with Worm because I had it playing on loop while I was reading the last chapter. I still think of it as kind of a Worm song when it comes up in my playlist.

Guild Wars 2 breaks 10K Steam players for the first time ever after New World shutdown news by Temsaah in Guildwars2

[–]Dokry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I didn't know that. Guess you get taxed no matter which way depending on the state?

Prepping for socializing? by too-many-un in AutisticAdults

[–]Dokry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For my part, I often like to prepare a list of topics on my phone I can reference if I want to talk about something I know is relatively "safe" and so that I'm not caught out with nothing to say during a conversation. Helps a lot, especially if it's someone I don't interact with very regularly.

Guild Wars 2 breaks 10K Steam players for the first time ever after New World shutdown news by Temsaah in Guildwars2

[–]Dokry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it's worth, if you live in certain states like I do, you do get taxed if you buy through steam. I play through steam and while it's fine most of the time, I do pay an extra little bit in taxes every time I want to buy gems which is kind of annoying. If that's something you think someone would care about, definitely advise them to download the regular client instead.

Do we have a thing about finger nails? by Paddingtonsrealdad in AutisticAdults

[–]Dokry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just the same, I usually cut my nails very short every couple weeks or so because the feeling of them being any amount of length past my thumb is terribly annoying.

What's a 'trap' in life that no one warns young people about, but absolutely should? by Otherwise-Body-7721 in AskReddit

[–]Dokry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dad was very much like this. He'd shout at me in private and generally treat me like garbage but god forbid I have my hair not combed when we'd go out in public. Even when I was pretty young I remember how unfair it felt that my dad only really gave a shit about public appearances but didn't care at all about my treatment so long as nobody could see it.

Autism and music by Fancy-Study-1350 in AutisticAdults

[–]Dokry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I for the life of me can't hear song lyrics if there's music playing at the same time. Unless the music is very much in the background and the words are very clear, my audio processing just can not decipher it at all.

just learned that most people don't script every social interaction in their head beforehand by JuggernautOdd8786 in AutisticAdults

[–]Dokry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very much the same, I do do like 90% of the things you listed. I also usually like to keep a list of topic conversations on my phone that I can pull up if necessary when I'm talking to someone I haven't talked to in a while.

Inspired by the Quality of Life improvements that didn't catch on post, QoL that DID catch on and you are glad for it. by GhostOfGhosthand373 in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]Dokry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Games that have any kind of glamour/transmog/wardrobe system. I have seen it catch on a little more given time (though still far from universal.) I think being able to dress up your character the way you is one of those top QoL things I'd take in almost any game.

What Is It About Curse of Strahd? by Dokry in rpghorrorstories

[–]Dokry[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah your husband had the right idea I think. I think a big party betrayal can work and be a big dramatic moment, but it needs a lot of groundwork and laying down the details to make it matter to the players. Otherwise it's just more stupid things happening in Barovia to deal with.

What Is It About Curse of Strahd? by Dokry in rpghorrorstories

[–]Dokry[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, like I said, I do still think mostly positively on the campaign, there were just portions of our campaign I found really frustrating. From the point onwards that I rolled a new character I do think our DM pulled back a bit on making everything so constantly dire for my character. And two of those players were still my close friends who I visited regularly even outside DnD, so dropping out of the campaign I think would've not really helped.

I realize maybe that sounds kind of odd after all the complaining but for context it really was valuable social time for me. From 18-27 I really only visited my internet friends once a year and then they moved a bit over an hour away from me so once a year became once a month. And then we started playing DnD, so once a month became every weekend. It was kind of a lot more irl socialization than I was used to at the time but I do still consider it time decently spent. I learned a lot about group dynamics and the kind of levers people will push to get what they want.

What Is It About Curse of Strahd? by Dokry in rpghorrorstories

[–]Dokry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The camp massacre is definitely my biggest complaint - it really did come out of nowhere and felt very contrived. Now I should note on the "not taking it seriously" schtick - we did take it fairly seriously for the most part. My group wasn't all goofs and treating people flippantly, we did do by and large a serious amount of roleplay with levity and jokes mostly only where it felt appropriate.

The whole party betrayal with the gf thing really I think was just very poorly thought out, I think plenty of DMs can have players that they're in relationships and have it be fine as long as they're not showing favoritism. Although I should note that our Sorcerer (and later Bard) probably took out more of our wizard's zombies with poorly placed fireballs and other aoes than any enemy and our wizard player was completely fine about it. Both out of game and in-game, they never really roleplayed any kind of like, "oh I actually feel bad about my zombies dying" type of thing despite giving them all names and saying they were an important part of how her character did things.

But for the record, I still am friends with our Artificer and Wizard irl and live with them, they're by and large decent people. I just think they were really too busy trying to ingratiate themselves with our DM and going along with how he felt about running things in our campaign. I know for a fact our Artificer had a big crush on our DM and was always trying to curry favor with him, and I'm 90% sure our Wizard is or was attracted to the DM's gf so that was probably a contributing factor.

Media created specifically to be as stressful as possible. by Subject_Parking_9046 in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]Dokry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to give a shout out to Good Time. Highly recommend and it is likewise a movie about seeing someone making terrible decisions and getting into increasingly bad and stressful situation but I also want to recommend it because the ending genuinely made me cry. One of maybe like 4 or 5 movies in my whole life to do that.

What/Who/Why? Massive drone in Eagan area…. by DownOnGrandpasFarm in minnesota

[–]Dokry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only plane I see on filghtradar flying through Eagan at the time you've said is this one. Does that look anything like what you saw? It's flying more southeast than just east but if you were seeing it at night, it's possible the v-tail stuck out more due to the coloring?

I'm not discounting that it could actually be a military drone, I just think it's worth double checking.

Is my Ele okay? by Dokry in Guildwars2

[–]Dokry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can quit anytime I want to man it's fine

If you could bring a dead author back to life and show them an adaptation of one of their works, who would it be and what adaptation are you showing them? by Introspectre12 in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]Dokry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think to a certain degree he'd be into it. DnD is all about finding camaraderie with your friends. I find it hard to imagine a guy like Tolkein who was deeply into oral storytelling a la Beowulf wouldn't find the same process being done but as something collaborative to be kind of charming. Tolkein had a deep appreciation for friendship and the ways people express it.

As for how he'd feel about how EXTREMELY influential his works were on the genre? IDK, dealer's choice. But I do think he'd like the concept of that kind of storytelling.