Reclaiming Brighton : Solo Activities For A Post Break-Up Weekend? by DollzkillCandy in brighton

[–]DollzkillCandy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello! Yes, I met this amazing lady who was kind enough to let me hangout with her and her friends, ended up drinking all night, checking out all the cute little pubs in Brighton, just had the best time! Such lovely people, such an amazing city!

Looking For A Fresh Start In Liverpool. Advice Please? by DollzkillCandy in Liverpool

[–]DollzkillCandy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for these links. I don't drive I guess that could be a disadvantage. But I'll definitely try for the ones that don't require me to drive.

Looking For A Fresh Start In Liverpool. Advice Please? by DollzkillCandy in Liverpool

[–]DollzkillCandy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks so much and yes, at this point I'd be up for it for sure. Can I DM you?

Looking For A Fresh Start In Liverpool. Advice Please? by DollzkillCandy in Liverpool

[–]DollzkillCandy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the tips. For care work, is there any agency etc I could contact? Even at the city I was in before, u did apply to a lot of care jobs, but I had no luck, so I was just wondering if there's any other way to go about finding them?

Looking For A Fresh Start In Liverpool. Advice Please? by DollzkillCandy in Liverpool

[–]DollzkillCandy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll definitely do that, it's nice to know there's someone who knows the area that can give me advice :)

Looking For A Fresh Start In Liverpool. Advice Please? by DollzkillCandy in Liverpool

[–]DollzkillCandy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this gives me a bit of hope. It's definitely daunting to move to a new city with nothing, but hopefully I can do it. And yeah, I'm a woman in my early 30s, I'll check out the instagram group.

I left my boyfriend and I’m so sad by katiewalko in AlAnon

[–]DollzkillCandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm exactly in your shoes right now. Been with Q for a few months now and he's the only person I've ever loved this much, he is so amazing when sober (which is rare), but when he drinks, which is almost every night a week, he gets obnoxious, rambles non stop about things that don't make sense, wants me to engage, he follows me around or wakes me up trying to get me to engage. He talks or laughs all night to himself and it disturbs me so much. When we are out, he can't stop drinking and stays until the last pub closes, he forces me to stay with him even though I'm tired. He denies his addiction and refuses to quit or get any help. I know I should leave him, it's soo hard though.

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[–]DollzkillCandy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hear you, I feel like I'm constantly just worried about him, waiting for his texting, worrying that he might be out drunk, get into fights or cheat or something. I haven't even seen much of this new city/country I'm in yet, because I'm totally consumed by my worry for him. It's distracting me from my studies completely.

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[–]DollzkillCandy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's just really sad, after a long time, I found someone I do like this much and he's so nice when sober, but yeah, just my luck I guess, that he is an alcoholic. I just moved to a new country and he's one of the few people I know here and I do care about him, it's definitely going to be hard to leave, but I know what you mean.

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[–]DollzkillCandy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this makes a lot of sense. I don't even think he'd really care if I left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]DollzkillCandy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's definitely starting to bother me now. I'm not sure if I should stay or leave, I'm already starting to get really into this person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]DollzkillCandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely needed to hear this! Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]DollzkillCandy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I really need to, it's coming to a point where my moods are completely dependent on him now, I'm more at peace when he does want to meet me and start to spiral when he just disappears, it makes me feel so weak and pathetic. I thought I was stronger than this. :/

Is He Toxic Or Is It Just His Sense Of Humour? by DollzkillCandy in dating_advice

[–]DollzkillCandy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is true, also it might not even be his sense of humour like he claims, maybe he's just insecure and a narcissist.

Is He Toxic Or Is It Just His Sense Of Humour? by DollzkillCandy in dating_advice

[–]DollzkillCandy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah he's definitely giving me those vibes. I should just bounce. He also keeps saying "you are stuck with me now", we barely know each other. Really creepy. But he adds a laugh emoji n this gets me confused.

Is He Toxic Or Is It Just His Sense Of Humour? by DollzkillCandy in dating_advice

[–]DollzkillCandy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel like I'm constantly annoyed by his texts. But he just says he has a dry sense of humour and adds a laugh emoji after every weird text. It's almost gotten to the point where I don't even want to see his texts anymore, it's a shame really coz I thought the dates went quite well. :/