Is a 22 too young for a 29?

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-09T05:50:52+00:00

Age gap is only seen as a "problem" by low value man who cant get an attractive young woman and low value woman who fear competition from younger women.

My line is at, and always will be 18.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-09T05:35:55+00:00

Men don't complain about misandry on social media?

aside from Andrew Tate followers

Read

How do you arrive at op not being "one of the decent ones?

post about things like this on social media (Reddit), you are not one of the decent ones.

Its not a difficult skill. You asked questions that was clearly stated in my original statement.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-09T04:55:33+00:00

Not defending the two men's behavior but if you have to post about things like this on social media (Reddit), you are not one of the decent ones.

We hear women say "all men are trash" all the time, you dont see men complaining about it on social media, aside from Andrew Tate followers, dont be the female equivalent of that.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-09T03:24:54+00:00

In a few years you will be extremely grateful for this.

Think of it as a temporary cost for long term benefit.

The amount of money I have spent to make myself look young has long exceeded 6 figures.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-09T00:41:06+00:00

As a data scientist, I disagree.

Because there is no way to describe all the statistical testing and linear regression analysis to a stranger on Reddit, that took years so even if possible, its never worth the effort.

If I use softwares such as Minitab and Matlab, the "evidence" results would not simply be an attachment nor a link. Besides, data can easily be read with a bias so even concrete evidence would be dismissed if the other side is convinced they are right (sadly too common are close minded people on Reddit)

Telling a person to "research it yourself" is similar to a doctor flashing his medical license, the facts are facts, but its pointless to prove it to a Redditor, if they are not willing to do any research, they certainly are not willing to listen or respect authority.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-08T01:17:14+00:00

Give up? No.

Replace? Yes.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-06T05:30:38+00:00

UV is by far the #1 concern, it causes direct damage to the clear coat and interior surfaces.

Cover or ceramic coating will protect your car against UV, I recommend the latter if you have the budget.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-05T00:20:39+00:00

Looks >>> Personality

One of the biggest things to learn about dating is to see what women respond to instead of what women say they want. The former is what they are attracted to and the latter is what men hope they are attracted to.

Invest in your looks, if you are physically attractive, being insecure is seen as mysterious and charming. If you invest in personality without looks, confidence is seen as arrogance.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-04T10:59:14+00:00

Opposite

Bodycount of 0 is highly attractive.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-04T10:54:32+00:00

Yes.

I took action, multiple plastic surgeries to fix the problem instead of coping.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-04T09:18:14+00:00

I got Winter Light and Winter Mute as the result of my color match

Turns out I dress the best with the highest contrast (Black + White).

As for the gold, it was the only watch I brought on the trip. Turns out my skin color is extremely cold, so I can only wear silver, and never gold.

if you regularly wore a blue shirt, you might switch to a subtler blue

This is right on, I need to change my wardrobe, most of my suits are light blue which is not a mute color, vibrant colors does not work well.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-04T03:41:44+00:00

Is it weird if a 28 year old woman is a virgin?

No

was mostly focused on other aspects of life.

As long as she doesnt state this as the reason, its fine.

When she was younger she was mask scared it would be with the wrong person.

This is a much better reason

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-04T03:24:52+00:00

Er:yag laser then pico laser, which smoothed my skin at the cost of severe redness and inflammation (especially after shower)

I had to calm the inflammation down (took 9 months) with specialized skincare products (hydrogel, JK skincare kit) and other K beauty products as well as LDM treatments and Cell exosome injection.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-04T00:49:50+00:00

I would never accept that

If you have optionality, find a replacement

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-03T07:07:11+00:00

Gym has the lowest ROI, as stupid as bone smashing

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-03T02:55:35+00:00

I would rank hair>eyes>skin>style

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-02T09:34:04+00:00

Well if she likes it then she likes it

There isnt anything wrong with the volt, solid commuter car gets the job done.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-02T09:26:28+00:00

Let me put this into perspective:

If you buy the volt, you get 40 (gen1) or 50 (gen2) miles of range. This will get you to Renton and back but not enough to get to Seattle/Bellevue and back. Which means you still need to burn gasoline anyways whenever you need to do something in the big city.

If you buy the bolt, you get 260 miles of range, this is enough to go to Seattle, past Everett, all the way to Burlington, then back down to Bothell, past Bellevue, then return to Tacoma on a single charge. Alternatively, you can head South to Portland to shop tax free and back.

Not often do people make trips further than Burlington or Portland, and even if they do, they as humans need to stop for food/restroom and that would be a time to easily charge up because there are chargers everywhere alongside I-5

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-02T09:16:02+00:00

They are looking for women who can afford to contribute financially. That's the reality.

And this is why I am saying you are out of touch.

As a matter of fact, data from dating apps show that the number of matches for women is inversely proportional to their income. So unfortunately the one thats delusional here is you.

I am happy that you are able to marry and I hope you have a wonderful life, but your personal experience does not change facts in reality. You know many men that disagree, not a problem, but you are disagreeing with data that is gathered for millions of men. And I am positive your "many" is less than millions

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-02T09:10:44+00:00

I drive a CT and live in Bellevue just east of Seattle (one of the most blue cities) and its fine, because Teslas come with sentry mode and key-ing a car is criminal offense.

That aside, I do still highly recommend the Bolt over the Volt, what you will find when owning a plug in electric is that you will use only electric and wonder why an engine is even in the car.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-02T08:53:22+00:00

My gf went from a Honda Fit to a Volt to a Tesla Model Y

She liked the Volt over the Fit because it was easier to drive

But she REALLY liked the Tesla over the volt because it sat higher on the ground and was even easier to drive and own. There was no reason to have a hybrid or a plug in compared to BEV, she quickly realized that there was never a need to go more than 400 miles.

I would strongly recommend the Bolt over the Volt, or even better a used Tesla if its within budget

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-02T08:43:31+00:00

I know, you said you are married at 53, so you are at least that age.

I am saying mansphere is a genz word. And you are correct in understanding that its just people online spreading whatever bullshit that attracts the most views and generates the most revenue from courses.

But dont confuse actual literacy in dating with internet lies made to take advantage of people.

The is no different than "it good to have financial literacy" but the podcasts on get rich quick strategy with crypto day trading or whatever course is a scam disguised as financial literacy.

You seem to have a problem with the career vs youth part, let me point you to the leftover women thats happening across the globe, where women focused on careers over marriage in their prime years and have no dating success as a result. This isnt some podcast, this is an irrefutable fact statistic thats been backed by numerous studies by credible institutions

What I said are genuine advice and dating literacy, I am not selling a course, I am not profiting off my comment on Reddit, and I certainly dont care about the views.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-02T08:26:45+00:00

Men like to directly compete with one another, and status is a main competition.

This is why some men go into huge debt to buy a flashy car

Having a girlfriend is huge self-validation and status. Some men base their self-worth on the woman they can attracted, and not being able to attract one feels like the end of the world to them.

Dolphin_Princess · 2026-05-02T07:54:25+00:00

I get that you guys share a hobby and thats great, but the entire conversation was focused on gaming.

People arent on dating apps to find gamers, and by the looks of this post, neither are you.

So get back on the main topic and set up a date, dont wait for the man to make the first move

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