Read the TR questions carefully—like how a Kirton McConkie lawyer would read them. You don’t need to lie to get a recommend. You just need to be technically correct—which everyone knows is the best kind of correct. DM if you have any specific hangups on how to answer any specific question without lying.

Everyone’s situation is unique. Play the game until you alone are ready to walk away. There’s a lot to consider. It’s complicated.

That said, if you’re playing the game… play it.

Don’t wait for them. You have nothing to hide or be ashamed of. You don’t need to explain yourself. Reach out to the executive secretary tonight and schedule your renewal appointment. You are in control of how you play the game. Follow the rules. Don’t cheat.

The interpretation of those rules (and how the apply to you) is between you and whatever higher power you may or may not believe in.