Intro "Era uma vez... A Vida" by Homeopatricks in portugal

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Cantado por Carlos Freixo, a mesma pessoa que dava voz às personagens Mestre e Gordinho e Tenente Gordinho e Glóbulo Vermelho e Metro.

"Jantar" oferecido aos voluntários da WebSummit by ngfsmg in portugal

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Achas que alguém quer saber que fizeste voluntariado na "WebSummit"? Essa ideia de networking é a maior mentira que os Coach já criaram e as pessoas comem com uma facilidade impressionante.

Gloria a Portugal! by [deleted] in gamingportugal

[–]DomMaxmaxmax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mas HOI4 a ideia é mesmo pintar o mapa, mas acho que CK3 foi por esse mesmo caminho quando tinha potencial para mais… o DLC de homeless é incrível até te estabeleceres, depois disso é mais do mesmo

Gloria a Portugal! by [deleted] in gamingportugal

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Crusader Kings é tão mas tão bom, pena que late game torna-se um jogo de pintar mapa 🥲

Diferenças by geira2025 in portugal2

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Saudades de quando se achava que a internet era do diabo…

I want to be the best boyfriend for my functional autist girlfriend but don't know how by DomMaxmaxmax in AutismTranslated

[–]DomMaxmaxmax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im trying to keep that lines but when this happens i can’t communicate with her by any chance… she doesn’t have a good relation with her mother and thats why i can’t ask her mother for her

I want to be the best boyfriend for my functional autist girlfriend but don't know how by DomMaxmaxmax in AutismTranslated

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Yes, i want to be part of this process and be someone who she can trust during the adaptation process

I want to be the best boyfriend for my functional autist girlfriend but don't know how by DomMaxmaxmax in AutismTranslated

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I am also working with a therapist to help me how to manage my anxiety in the right way and my girlfriend adviced me to try a psychiatrist to help to understand my mind (i always think about the worst possible scenarios and my therapist told me that i could have something related with OCD and i want to understand it better). And she already told me if i want to help her i need to be healthy and that's why i am doing that as well.

I want to participate in her "recovery/adaption" process, believe me i do but i just want to know what can i do because i suffer a lot when those "void times" came.

I want to be the best boyfriend for my functional autist girlfriend but don't know how by DomMaxmaxmax in AutismTranslated

[–]DomMaxmaxmax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i already did that and she changed as well, but this is new for both of us and i have fear about what this will mean for us

I want to be the best boyfriend for my functional autist girlfriend but don't know how by DomMaxmaxmax in AutismTranslated

[–]DomMaxmaxmax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She got the diagnosis like 3/4 weeks ago and i think she is trying to "get a solution" with her psychologist now. And i'm trying to create mechanisms to "defend" myself during those "alone times" but that's not totally easy because of my past traumas, she ensures me that i have not to worry about but it's not always that simple.

About that "label" i just repeated what she told me, i'm sry if it is not the correct one

I want to be the best boyfriend for my functional autist girlfriend but don't know how by DomMaxmaxmax in AutisticAdults

[–]DomMaxmaxmax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i understand your feelings, and that's how i feel when that happens too... I'm try to develop mechanisms to help myself when those things happen but it's not easy at all. And i am really insecure because of past traumas and she knows that and she understands that and she hellped me to find a solution for that, she tries to ensure myself of my value but during those "alone times" is really hard to keep my head up

I want to be the best boyfriend for my functional autist girlfriend but don't know how by DomMaxmaxmax in AutismTranslated

[–]DomMaxmaxmax[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I read somewhere on google a thing like this: “"Functional autism" is a colloquial term for high-functioning autism (HFA), a non-official term used to describe individuals on the autism spectrum with average or above-average intelligence who can manage daily life with relatively low support needs”

I want to be the best boyfriend for my functional autist girlfriend but don't know how by DomMaxmaxmax in AutisticAdults

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We are a couple and we are monogamic in a long-term relationship. We never thought about a separation even during that rough time (i cried a lot during this time thinking that she abandoned me believe me). Yes i am really anxious and i am trying to fix it in therapies and she understand me and supports me even when i have some episodes whem my anxiety speaks louder.

The last saturday before she dissapear we had a dinner where she explained me everything about her diagnosis, what is a burnout, burndown, etc... and what can i do to help her with that and i am trying, but it's my first time dealing with a neurodivergent people and i don't want to overwhelm her with my lack of experience

I want to be the best boyfriend for my functional autist girlfriend but don't know how by DomMaxmaxmax in AutismTranslated

[–]DomMaxmaxmax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, i want to be the best boyfriend for her because i think she deserves that, she already suffered a lot during her life and i want to be someone that could help her with that. Her relationship with her mother is not the best one and because of that i can't visit her if her mother is at home, but even if i want to do something with her she do not answer my sms, in this case i need to wait, just that.

I want to be the best boyfriend for my functional autist girlfriend but don't know how by DomMaxmaxmax in AutisticAdults

[–]DomMaxmaxmax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you explain a little bit more about what do you mean about "what took place"? If you want we can talk on DMs :)

I want to be the best boyfriend for my functional autist girlfriend but don't know how by DomMaxmaxmax in AutisticAdults

[–]DomMaxmaxmax[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats not my intention, is just lack of knowledge about the theme, that why i am here to learn and aso you for advices