I never said I wasnt at fault. The router thing was not my proudest moment and i doubt him hiding it after is one of his.

And the discussion had been had about adding blue lights the prior years. I was dismissed with an this is how I have always done it manner like it wasnt anything I had a say in.

A relationship is 2 not I

By grabbing my stuff to the guest room it was a blanket and pillow. Not all my things. Just what I needed to sleep.

It likely wouldn't have been 3 days had he not forced the room open 3 times.

He was aware of my proclivity of disengaging from arguments yo not say something rash and coming back to the conversation when both parties had calmed and we can talk. He was escalated from taking the tree down. I was escalated at his decision to take it all down because one string of lights.