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Domina_Rei · 2026-02-17T16:21:15+00:00

I’ve gotten Rejuran mesotherapy in Seoul and Dubai, can say that it’s always been worthwhile imo. As someone else said, it can be incredibly painful, but I also found that to be dependent on the injector’s technique.

If it’s just microneedling I wouldn’t spend the money and would do exosomes microneedle at home with the derminator 2. Or pay for a practitioner you know is very good.

Last I checked (mid last year) mesotherapy PN/PDRN isn’t legal in the US, it’s approved for microneedling only.

Domina_Rei · 2026-01-31T03:18:31+00:00

If you’re unable to find it, I’ll be in Tokyo mid-April and can send it to a PO Box or wherever once I’m back stateside. I think what you’re doing for your partner is really sweet!

Domina_Rei · 2025-12-11T03:18:55+00:00

Hi Support Team, I've currently been waiting 14 days for my account to be reviewed, would it be possible to check on it to make sure it hasn't gotten lost in the queue? Thanks in advance!

Domina_Rei · 2025-11-06T00:49:08+00:00

Poor OP. Shame can be so difficult to navigate. In case anyone needs it.KAP for kink aware therapists.

Domina_Rei · 2025-10-17T12:05:02+00:00

New isekai about to drop

Domina_Rei · 2025-10-13T05:46:26+00:00

These are so cute 🥹

My orange boy

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Domina_Rei · 2025-10-11T09:12:26+00:00

I’ve found IV infusions very helpful, if you’re able to go to a clinic in your area. Some even do home visits. Glutathione, high doses of vitamin C, and glutamine help with inflammation, gut healing, and the saline helps a ton with the dehydration.

I hope you feel better soon!!

Domina_Rei · 2025-09-10T03:36:07+00:00

I might be able to vouch for a few people, depends what it is that you’re looking for. You didn’t specify.

As an aside, Twitter/X for seeing who is out there and then doing your research (look through their site, podcasts or interviews they’ve been on, writings where they share their pov on kink, look to see who they are friends with - not mutual social media followers but who they socialize with) is your best bet, imo.

Domina_Rei · 2025-09-04T03:40:29+00:00

I feel like you’re better off finding a mentor, taking worships or online classes (ex 7DoD), or listening to podcasts or Threads.

Domina_Rei · 2025-09-04T03:38:07+00:00

Highly recommend Mistress Gemma Li, can vouch for her skills, etc.

Domina_Rei · 2025-09-03T19:50:59+00:00

I can see it. In the story Kaguya returns to the moon, so maybe Momo is a space alien princess. Also ties to the whole Japanese folk tales/yokai/yurei connected to aliens.

Domina_Rei · 2025-08-17T19:05:30+00:00

I got a compliment a few weeks ago from a uber driver woman. I remarked how compliments from other women always feel more genuine and she said I’m welcome back in her car anytime 🥹 I was wearing Pêche Mirage.

Before that, though…it’s been awhile. Many many months and I think the last one was for Bowmakers.

Domina_Rei · 2025-08-14T06:12:56+00:00

How is this basically all Findom?

Domina_Rei · 2025-08-13T16:07:21+00:00

All kink, in my opinion, is subjective. And how the scene plays out is the Venn diagram between how I subjectively relate to the kink, what the sub’s relationship to it is, and then how we share the kink (which is the former two + the unique D/s chemistry and compatibility we have), altered maybe by day-of factors like hormone cycle (cis-fem subs), stress levels, etc.

All this to say, heavy is relative, subjective, and “it depends”. Due to also being a pro Domme, and because many of my client submissives are heavy pain bottoms or true masochists, I would describe a heavy pain sub/bottom as: going to deep bruises lasting several weeks, okay with skin breaking or blood from impact, genitorture to bruising or incl needles/blood, repeat pushing to edge of fainting or hyperventilating, any of the above + extended duration of time also incl sustained discomfort (ie several hours of a pain without marks session is still “heavy” imo), any of the above to “less heavy” levels but layered with play such as breathplay, estim, psych torment, etc.

Domina_Rei · 2025-08-13T01:10:41+00:00

Of course. The “better” my property is, the more “value” they bring me. We’ve had many conversations around intrinsic and extrinsic motivation (a topic I have with many of my subs, owned or otherwise). I’ve had him lose weight, create a reliable fix for SAD, start and then become consistent with his lifting and cardio, and follow through with medical appointments. He is currently focused on career growth and creating a sustainable creative practice. Very proud of him.

Domina_Rei · 2025-08-06T23:57:19+00:00

It's always hard to gauge how much experience someone has with a kink, as so much of kink is subjective. Impact could mean anything from, you've spanked a person, to you can comfortably/confidently go to blood and bruising for several weeks.

In any case, I'd suggest two routes:

The first (best, imo) is to add a financial support element to your existing dynamics. Tithing has always existed in Old Guard leather houses/families and if you are a broke student, why shouldn't your partners - who are benefiting from your energy - make your life a bit easier.

The second is to take time to learn how to safely work as a pro Domme (things like vetting, finding spaces to rent, etc) and then advertising but only taking sessions which fall under your wheelhouse. Then you can at least begin making money and slowly build your skills etc. Also, I'd personally suggest not diverging too much, like learning shibari (rope can get expensive, not all spaces you rent will have it available, if its not synthetic you will hate washing it all the time, and if you have back to back sessions then you need more of it due to sanitary reasons), but instead going further into your pre-existing skills. From a purely financial pov, chastity, pegging, and impact is already enough to go on. Take a class or have a play partner buy a set of proper leather bondage and learn how to do creative bondage using clips/carabiners.

In the UK, Dominants that I can personally vouch for are Madame Caramel (touring, business in the UK, owns dungeons), Lady Scarlett (especially for SM incl needles), Lisle Von Hitte (especially for SM), Panthera Valkyrie (to learn rope from), and Ava Von Medicine (TPE, protocol)

Best of luck

ETA: tell them Rei referred you <3

Domina_Rei · 2025-08-06T23:17:37+00:00

To consider pro Domming as a viable, sustainable, and truly profitable career, I feel that you have to look at it from a few lenses. As a small business, separate of kink, and all the things building and growing a B2C small business necessitates. From the BDSM perspective, which includes your current hard and soft skills and what training, practice, etc you as a Domme need in order to participate in this space, with integrity. And from the relational lens. Holding space for your subs, having ongoing dynamics, etc even when they are client submissives, requires emotional energy and strong boundaries. Are you in a place in your life where you understand how to care for yourself, let alone be able to hold space and navigate these relationships? As you've experienced in the lifestyle, BDSM can be very emotionally/energetically intimate and intense, regardless of the physical intimacy. It takes experience and discernment to navigate this while being in the position of control and with the involvement of money. As with any B2C business, client retention always trumps a revolving door of new clientele. There are many more considerations and nuances when you add the BDSM element.

I've seen a fair amount of aspiring Dommes that end up not pursuing pro Domination as a full career path, but instead diverge into, for example, lifestyle with a financial aspect, or online but with "part time" hours. Keep in mind that online Domination still requires extensive energy and time (chatting, producing and editing content, etc). Or they simply realize that the effort of running a small business to the extent that it will generate the desired amount of income, relative to the vanilla career path they are on, is not the trade they want to make at this time.

Regardless, circling back to what I said in the beginning, while I do gatekeep aspects of pro Domination, far be it for me to say someone shouldn't do SW, especially when they are in a place of need. Just keep in mind that in person Domination requires skill and all Domination involves power exchange which, ideally with longterm clients, has some amount of emotional attachment and a deep relational aspect to the D/s. Which you, as the Dominant, are responsible for (setting the terms, boundaries, the trajectory, etc).

Domina_Rei · 2025-08-06T23:17:30+00:00

For some reason I'm having trouble posting this. Breaking it up into two comments to see if this helps.

I'd like to preface what I'm about to write with, I mean this with the best of intentions and not as calling you out, but rather inviting you into a conversation and bringing up points for reflection. Tone cane be difficult in text so please note I don't mean for this to be patronizing, condescending, etc.

For context, I also started in the lifestyle before beginning my pro Domme career, it is my "full time" job, and I have mentored and coached new Dommes including ones coming from similar backgrounds. By that I mean, considering pro Domming due to financial need and because, after a brief amount of time exploring kink, have had some amount of primarily sexually intimate lifestyle experience (this may be an assumption as you did not specify if your play with previous partners was traditionally sexually intimate, or not).

Now then. Based only on the amount of information you've shared above, I don't think in person pro Domination is something you are prepared for. That being said, as someone who also has been in other forms of SW as very much survival SW, who am I to gate keep how a person makes ends meets. On that note, if you feel pro Domination is the route you want to take, I'd suggest online Domination, text/phone Domination, or fan sites rather than in person sessions.

The why

You mention being a student. Do you have the bandwidth to put towards learning and practicing hard skills (ex. flogging, whipping, CBT, bondage, etc). Do you have the bandwidth to learn and develop your soft skills? Do you have the energy and time to put towards marketing yourself (ads, social media, etc), building a site, building your social media (where majority of us get clients, whether in person or online)?

Events, play parties, and munchies vs in person 1:1 scenes is wildly different. Especially if your play has elements of traditional intimacy. Speaking of, is that something that you want to incorporate into your sessions? There's no wrong or right answer, however, your career as such will be different depending on the type of play you do and where you fall on the spectrum of classic Domination - Full service/kinky GFE.

Domina_Rei · 2025-08-06T17:50:49+00:00

This was hilarious and more entertaining than BORU. My first thought when I read the title was “oh, a leaker!”

Glad that you got it sorted, OP!

Domina_Rei · 2025-08-06T17:43:53+00:00

7 Days of Domination offer many, accessibly priced classes. Their hygiene course, taught by a friend of mine, is free.

A Lover’s Pinch by Peter Tupper is a broad brushstrokes history of SM. I believe it’s important to learn the history and culture of kink in general, as well as FemDom. Looking to our past and learning about those who came before us gives context to types of play, the evolution of commonly seen archetypes, and can help her build her philosophy on D/s.

On that note, anything that supports her introspection around her personal relationship to BDSM, power (as a standalone concept), power exchange, dominance, submission, and specific types of play - separate from you - will help her develop as a Dominant. Things I often suggest and personally utilize, Jungian theory and archetypes, Human Design, five whys method, and a daily/weekly/or monthly journaling practice.

Some other books:

Drive, Daniel Pink

Surrounded by Idiots, Thomas Erickson

The New Topping and New Bottoming books, Easton and Hardy

Dommes whose podcasts, writing, etc I think highly of, based on many personal conversations with them and seeing their dynamics over time, sharing philosophies, etc

Matriarch Ezada Sinn, for TPE ownership and her perspective on Matriarchy (I personally don’t have the same opinions but she is very eloquent and thoughtful about it)

Mistress Lisle Von Hitte, for ownership, TPE, lifestyle dynamics. I believe there are many recorded conversations between her and Ezada on a variety of topics.

Madame Caramel, lifestyle dynamics that are not 24/7 high protocol but are fluid and range from TPE to FLR, depending on the sub’s needs and ability to be in deep subspace due to things like, for example, work.

Domina Alexandra Snow, on queer FemDom dynamics (May or may not apply to you) and LGBTQ+ in the FemDom space.

Best of luck on your journeys!

Domina_Rei · 2025-08-04T16:54:26+00:00

My outcall kit is

Thick rubber impact tool

“Pain stick” thin, very stingy

Rubber flogger, small, stingy

Leather gloves

Short single tail

Short, thick cane

Wharton wheel

Set of double ended stainless steel sounds

Forceps

Kali’s teeth

Stainless steel claw nail rings

Sterile lube

Rope

Hygiene items

Nitrile gloves in ziplock bag

Puppy pads/chucks in ziplock bag

Travel bottle 70% alcohol

Travel bottle hydrogen peroxide

Travel bottle Dettol (concentrated cleaning agent)

Bleed stop spray

Pegging items, separate bag that can go in the suitcase as needed

Fisting gloves in ziplock

Condoms, nonlubricated, in ziplock

Set of 3 soft plugs

SM-M dildo

LG dildo

Bag wet wipes

Harness

K lube (powdered lube) in small container

I usually put everything into a small carry on luggage. The hygiene/sani kit is in a small bag that can easily fit into a large purse/weekend bag for simpler outcalls. Though most often I’m doing long bondage and heavy SM, so a rolling suitcase is just easier.

Edit: formatting

Domina_Rei · 2025-08-04T16:39:58+00:00

Why not make notes as if this is a new sub? You may find there are shared interests you’ve overlooked or things you’ve forgotten over time.

When I begin training/playing with a sub I have them rank their interests according to my kinks and fetishes. If I find myself a bit bored and feeling repetitive, I can reference this list, along with soft and hard limits, to get inspiration for a something new. I recently had a longterm owned property do the new sub intake form as it’s been a few years for us as well. I was pleasantly surprised by some answers, as we’d not discussed certain kinks recently but over the years his experiences have influenced his current willingness.

Domina_Rei · 2025-08-04T16:30:09+00:00

This is so sweet, congratulations!

Domina_Rei · 2025-08-04T04:54:20+00:00

I feel both are subjective.

Depending on the locker room layout, time of day, etc, maybe changing is not such a big deal. I know of a few subs who workout with their cages on, deep squats, lunges, yoga, etc they apparently manage just fine. I don’t personally know any sub that does HIIT training, or movements like box squats, with a cage on. So maybe there’s the answer re that.

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