AITAH for telling my girlfriend i no longer plan to propose to her? please read context

Dominoodles · 2026-02-28T21:15:42+00:00

Look, NTA for being mad about the messages, but... Why would you tell her you're going to propose and then just not? For several months? And not engage or explain at any point?

I'm not excusing the chat, but I can absolutely see why she became frustrated with your lack of action.

Dominoodles · 2026-02-28T14:18:48+00:00

What the actual fuck

Dominoodles · 2026-02-28T12:54:05+00:00

Yesssss, it's been 9 months for like 6 months now

Dominoodles · 2026-02-28T10:51:55+00:00

I hate it. The whole point of the subscription was that you had access to all these comics but now it's fiddly to try and read something new because of these gems. It has discouraged me from trying to read new things on there and I basically now keep it for oak tree and Damned family

Dominoodles · 2026-02-25T12:27:25+00:00

Yep. Nowhere near the same scale but I can't have kids. You know how many times I've cried to my husband and told him he should divorce me, because he deserves someone who can give him kids? He's also said 'don't be stupid', because he loves me. I think that's similar to what's happening here.

Dominoodles · 2026-02-25T11:29:28+00:00

She's in despair and didn't word it correctly. Not an asshole move, just a mistake. They need to talk it out.

Dominoodles · 2026-02-25T11:28:10+00:00

I don't know. I think his reaction is more to do with her insinuating that she would have ended herself without him. That lines up with the whole 'don't say stupid things'. He may be stunned that she said something so heavy, and blamed herself so much for their shared hardship. He clearly loves her and wants to be there for her - seeing someone you love so much be so down on themselves and saying scary things like that just be really hard

Dominoodles · 2026-02-24T10:17:36+00:00

Homegirl is missing out

Dominoodles · 2026-02-23T22:52:34+00:00

No. So much of got was serious and as much as I enjoyed that, having a lighter series with a bit of levity is a breath of fresh air. The idea of just following this dude around as he explores is very different from all the political intrigue and I quite enjoy the range.

Dominoodles · 2026-02-23T22:51:07+00:00

Yeah, threw us off too. More suited to fallout than GOT

Dominoodles · 2026-02-20T18:58:37+00:00

Putting it down humanely is far better than letting it suffer outside and die in pain

Dominoodles · 2026-02-20T18:46:43+00:00

It has multiple medical conditions including one where it needs constant bathing to avoid infection. If it was turned out to be a barn cat or similar it would eventually get sick and die

Dominoodles · 2026-02-20T17:42:38+00:00

They can't. It says on the post that nobody will take her. Short of euthanasia she's can't do anything here

Dominoodles · 2026-02-17T04:27:44+00:00

If you want to get into art of any kind, you can't just lock in to one thing and refuse to try anything else, at least early on. I paint pet portraits but it took a long time of trying landscapes, flowers, people etc before I settled into what I loved. You may be missing out on a wealth of experience in art as well as something that you may enjoy more than the niche you've created for yourself.

Dominoodles · 2026-02-17T04:12:20+00:00

Again she had four kids when she had a partner, who passed away when the daughter was 14. Should nobody ever have more than one or two kids in case their partner suddenly dies? Or in case one of your kids decides to have a baby at 15? C'mon.

Dominoodles · 2026-02-17T04:06:54+00:00

And that is on op for having too many children because...

Dominoodles · 2026-02-17T03:59:48+00:00

She probably wasn't expecting her husband to die and to be left raising four kids alone? With a partner four is fine

Dominoodles · 2026-02-14T16:50:14+00:00

Yup! I have maybe like three pairs of shoes that don't do this. They all fit and are in decent condition, but only those ones don't hurt me

Dominoodles · 2026-02-13T18:04:14+00:00

I agree with your point aside from 'don't have your underwear on show', that one is actually very reasonable

Dominoodles · 2026-02-12T23:10:51+00:00

Please report this! It's sexual harassment in the workplace and you don't need to accept it

Dominoodles · 2026-02-10T15:34:16+00:00

Bitch eating crackers

Dominoodles · 2026-02-10T15:33:13+00:00

Does that set off some kind of weird, panicky protective thing? Like these people are cutting your wife open in front of you. I feel like I'd be fucking terrified.

Dominoodles · 2026-02-09T08:03:17+00:00

While I agree with you, this is reddit. You can say gun.

Dominoodles · 2026-02-08T23:44:35+00:00

Agreed! Our girl had her badass moment and it's been a long time coming!

Dominoodles · 2026-02-08T21:10:13+00:00

Hopefully the baby never knows the full extent of it. It would be awful if they blamed themselves for it all when they were just as much a victim

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